i've given everything... yet i get nothing.
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cmon brudderOriginally posted by bLuR`bOy:hellos people.
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh.
you guy right?
MUST HAVE BACKBONE
MUST HAVE GUTS
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wah, normally its the other way round, but yours is a special case.
It may be your fault too you know, guys should be the one to decide most of the things, on where to go, what to eat, and whether to be with her 24/7 a week.
See if i'm right, but she wasn't like this when the relationship first started right? Its because you were too wishy-washy, too soft-hearted. Most women actually like guys to give them the orders, but if your case, she may be having too much control thus making her like a dictator in your relationship.
I suggest you have a good talk with her and try to regain your control in your relationship, without comprimising been you 2, things will just get worse, and trust me, from what you say, you do deserve better.
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Are you a man or a wimp? She told you to fuck off and get out of her life you should be thanking your lucky star and going to temple to 'huan shen' that she is letting you go on her own freewill!!!Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:hellos people.
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh.
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eh he christian/ chatolic lehOriginally posted by FocusPoint:Are you a man or a wimp? She told you to fuck off and get out of her life you should be thanking your lucky star and going to temple to 'huan shen' that she is letting you go on her own freewill!!! -
Brudder. Like this cannot la. By putting herself infront of you = disrespectful and absurb / also called selfish.
Love = sacrifice and putting the fella infront of you, not always let the fella do everything and u just enjoy.
So either talk with her calmly when her period is over and try to reach a conclusion. If this is not gonna happen, my suggestion = u think what you want, and is what she want part of what u want? -
It's not hard to let go. What you are feeling is just attachment. Also a part of you feel that you have given out this much and you sort of feel 'cheated'. Come on at 19 still young lah. Lots of fishes in the ocean to catch leh; stingray, dolphins, kembong, ikan susu, rabbit fish. Take your pick. One of these days you might find a garouper instead of this lokang fishOriginally posted by bLuR`bOy:sometimes, letting go is just so hard. the memories emerged out of it can be so overwhelming and it just blast over you.
i do wanna let go but i guess its jus so hard. makes me wanna turn around and continue it. -
Go church and thank God, Jesus, Holy Ghost or whatever lahOriginally posted by Your_Father:eh he christian/ chatolic leh
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Yo...
Leave everything aside for a moment...
Go out enjoy urself till the last bit...
Then come back think if everything that happened is wat u wan?
if u think far engh, if u not gg to break with her, if she is not giving in... there will be no ending to ur sorrow....
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No offence, but it sounds like a 'Master & slave' relationship?Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:hellos people.
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh.
If you chose it, then live with it. If you can't live with it then change it. -
x2 i was thinkingOriginally posted by Ferret:eh u dating girl or ur mother ?
TS you dont need a second mother when reading his post. haha -
Haha. She must be very pretty.Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:i do wanna let go but i guess its jus so hard. makes me wanna turn around and continue it.
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From the looks of it, your gf must be very insecure and immature in the relationship, especially when she uses "breaking up" as a bargaining chip in quarrels. Practically no respect for you as her boyfriend.Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:hellos people.
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh.
I'm starting to wonder how will she react when you mirror her ways of controlling the relationship. When she asks you to report, make her report to you also. When she checks your messenging history, check hers also. And when she asks why, say "Cause we are a couple, we function as one. What you do, I will do also" -
either that or ts despoOriginally posted by choco B:Haha. She must be very pretty. -
Get out of this relationship ASAP. She will learn as she grows up... until then, she will be the nightmare from elm street... and you don't want Freddy Krugger for a girlfriend.Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh. -
Could it be caused by education background and differences?
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have u been through NS yet?
if not,i suggest u step out of this r/s better,coz my ex-gf has the same attitude like urs,i bear with it,come NS, she betrayed my trust.....although not all girls are like that,but you better think carefully for your future as there will be more complications between you two as you step out in the working life.
Terence -
its time to move on, really......no point, no need for second thoughtsOriginally posted by bLuR`bOy:we're both 19 this year. yup. it's sucha sad case eh.
i feel ashamed to even see myself like this i guess.
just called her and she's insulted me for no reason.
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Then tell her there is no such word in your dictionary as well, and that you are tired of giving in to her all the time, so it is bye bye from now onOriginally posted by bLuR`bOy:to be honest, i cant. i told her about compromising and she just told me that in her dictionary, there isnt a word compromise. zzzz. -
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
ts, in the 1st place , r u a christian??? if u r, then u shldnt be involved in a r/s wif a non-christian...its no wonder than tat she is of such domineering character...if she is a true christian, she shld noe the importance of christian fellowship...go read n meditate on 2Cor6:14...
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh. -
yeah i'm a christian. i guess it was a mistake right from the start. Yup she's a non believer and all.. but i guess sometimes love sucks you in too deep to even think of whats right and wrong.
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*speechless*Originally posted by despondent:ts, in the 1st place , r u a christian??? if u r, then u shldnt be involved in a r/s wif a non-christian...its no wonder than tat she is of such domineering character...if she is a true christian, she shld noe the importance of christian fellowship...go read n meditate on 2Cor6:14... -
nope. i haven been tru NS. gonna graduate from school in a year's time.
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For some reason, I really feel very sad reading this thread.
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for some reason, i was very sad earlier when i posted this entry. i'm pretty much alright now after hearing so many of u guys agreeing with it.
seemed like this girlfren of mine is impossible to be with eh. -
x 1000Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:for some reason, i was very sad earlier when i posted this entry. i'm pretty much alright now after hearing so many of u guys agreeing with it.
seemed like this girlfren of mine is impossible to be with eh.