i've given everything... yet i get nothing.
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X 1001Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:for some reason, i was very sad earlier when i posted this entry. i'm pretty much alright now after hearing so many of u guys agreeing with it.
seemed like this girlfren of mine is impossible to be with eh.
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wah... got this type of thing 1 ar? y cannot get into r/s wif non-believer?Originally posted by despondent:ts, in the 1st place , r u a christian??? [b]if u r, then u shldnt be involved in a r/s wif a non-christian...[\b]its no wonder than tat she is of such domineering character...if she is a true christian, she shld noe the importance of christian fellowship...go read n meditate on 2Cor6:14... -
it's part and parcel of being a christianOriginally posted by asdfzhao:wah... got this type of thing 1 ar? y cannot get into r/s wif non-believer? -
I can provide some form of 'help' or assistance but I need you to answer these questions so I can know more:Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:hellos people.
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh.
1. How strong is your faith in God? As in how long were you a Christian? Baptised? Etc, etc...
2. Was your GF like this before you two dated?
3. Did you understand your GF well enough to know what is happening to her recently?
As despondant has commented, this is what happened when a Christian and a non-Christian dated together. There is no common path or common point to bind this relationship strongly, only attraction. Conflicts will arise and many a times both parties will blame it on different religious teachings. -
So what are you waiting for??
You've always listened to her;
Take her advice now:
Fcuk off and get out of her life! -
You are directly saying that a non-christian should not be involved in a relation ship with a christian. I feel offended. You are indirectly saying that non-christians are inferior.Originally posted by despondent:ts, in the 1st place , r u a christian??? if u r, then u shldnt be involved in a r/s wif a non-christian...its no wonder than tat she is of such domineering character...if she is a true christian, she shld noe the importance of christian fellowship...go read n meditate on 2Cor6:14... -
Do you mean that non christian and christian cannot go together?Originally posted by Bontakun:As despondant has commented, this is what happened when a Christian and a non-Christian dated together. There is no common path or common point to bind this relationship strongly, only attraction. Conflicts will arise and many a times both parties will blame it on different religious teachings. -
told u that christians cannot eat ba zhang liao right?Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:You are directly saying that a non-christian should not be involved in a relation ship with a christian. I feel offended. You are indirectly saying that non-christians are inferior. -
You can go eat yourself starting from the toes. I am not talking to you.Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:told u that christians cannot eat ba zhang liao right? -
Dun blame him la, it is one of the teaching they practise in Christianity I think...they even have a phrase in the Bible which refers to this...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:You are directly saying that a non-christian should not be involved in a relation ship with a christian. I feel offended. You are indirectly saying that non-christians are inferior.
You can be with a Christian, but if you are a non-believer, you need to get converted...
One of my friends broke up with her bf because they come from different denominations
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Nope... I dont blame them... I speechless because they use these as an advice in aunt agony...Originally posted by rainee:Dun blame him la, it is one of the teaching they practise in Christianity I think...they even have a phrase in the Bible which refers to this...
You can be with a Christian, but if you are a non-believer, you need to get converted...
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Reading your post, she sounds more like your mum than g/f.
Normally I would ask have you talk to her about how u feel about the way she is treating u ? but looking at what u say ......... I doubt u'll have the chance to say anything ........
Its seems to me that you're unhappy in this relationship currently, having a g/f that wants nothing from you but total control of your life. Try you best to put through to her how u feel, if its still hopeless ...... maybe its better for both to move on.
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I dun agree with this, I've personally seen Christian and non-Christian together and everything is all right. Its the trust, respect and the willingness to compromise that keeps a relationship going, not religion.Originally posted by Bontakun:As despondant has commented, this is what happened when a Christian and a non-Christian dated together. There is no common path or common point to bind this relationship strongly, only attraction. Conflicts will arise and many a times both parties will blame it on different religious teachings. -
I have no say in this. Its up to the individual's faith and beliefs, and their love towards the other partner. I have seen a Christian converting his/her non-Christian spouse to a Christian. Similarly I have seen a Christian converted out of Christianity to be with his/her non-Christian spouse.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Do you mean that non christian and christian cannot go together?
I see your point and I agree its an oversight on my part. Thank you for pointing out.Originally posted by MiX Metal:I dun agree with this, I've personally seen Christian and non-Christian together and everything is all right. Its the trust, respect and the willingness to compromise that keeps a relationship going, not religion.
I cannot say for every case that all couples of different beliefs and religions are living happily ever after. There will come a time when the couple will be tested. There will come a time when conflicts will arise. And may I ask, "Is every couple able to give that level of trust, commitment, willingness to compromise or even better, go to a concensus?"
Personally I do not know, but search deep into your heart and ponder this: when a non-Christian quarrels with a Christian spouse, they will naturally bring out the issue of religion and put it into fray. It is inevitable. There are cases whereby couples of same religions brought out the issue of religion into the quarrels, but that is not the majority, unless I am not up-to-date.
I do not hope or wish to change your views or beliefs. I only want to share more about Christianity so that all of you reading can understand better. -
agree that is why its important if two person of different religion to make an effort to better understand each others religion so that they will not make such a mistake of blaming what problems they face against the other party's religion believes.Originally posted by Bontakun:I see your point and I agree its an oversight on my part. Thank you for pointing out.
I cannot say for every case that all couples of different beliefs and religions are living happily ever after. There will come a time when the couple will be tested. There will come a time when conflicts will arise. And may I ask, "Is every couple able to give that level of trust, commitment, willingness to compromise or even better, go to a concensus?"
Personally I do not know, but search deep into your heart and ponder this: when a non-Christian quarrels with a Christian spouse, they will naturally bring out the issue of religion and put it into fray. It is inevitable. There are cases whereby couples of same religions brought out the issue of religion into the quarrels, but that is not the majority, unless I am not up-to-date.
I do not hope or wish to change your views or beliefs. I only want to share more about Christianity so that all of you reading can understand better. -
worse than mother
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Aye, that is why I am asking the TS the 3 questions.Originally posted by MiX Metal:agree that is why its important if two person of different religion to make an effort to better understand each others religion so that they will not make such a mistake of blaming what problems they face against the other party's religion believes.
Baring him being a Christian, understanding his GF is the most important thing to date. Knowing her character and behaviour. Cross referencing to his character and behaviour. Finding out their commitment levels and faith in each other. (Ok I blown it too deep liao... Not so cheem 1~)
The most fundamental thing from my perspective about a relationship between a guy and a gal is the level of communication and understanding. How well you know your partner will help to elevate your trust and faith in him/her. As well as your ease of sharing your thoughts and experiences with him/her. Be it good or bad, as long as he/she has the heart and willingness to listen, and keep in mind so as to help you or correct you when needed, any conflicts can be worked out no matter the severity of it.
I believe the relationship between the TS and his GF can be salvaged and emerged stronger than ever. Its only up to how mature the TS is and how well he can communicate with his GF. -
The idea behind Christians must marry Christians is the same as if everyone in this world belongs to the same sect of the same religion, then, there will be world peace.
This is also the reason why terrorists kill other people... to achieve world peace. -
LOL!!!Originally posted by despondent:ts, in the 1st place , r u a christian??? if u r, then u shldnt be involved in a r/s wif a non-christian...its no wonder than tat she is of such domineering character...if she is a true christian, she shld noe the importance of christian fellowship...go read n meditate on 2Cor6:14... -
Advice: Move On
There are other girls in your school also. No need to wait for GF lah. Since she like it to be this way, there is nothing you can do much NOW. I know sometimes is hard to let go, especially both of you LOVE one another b4.
Its seems there is some changes in her behaviour that she might think there are better ones outta there in the MARKET.
Is she Working outside? WORSE OFF! If she is working outside, there is possibility that she might have chances to meet some rich n caring guys outta there. That might change her view on you.
Stay Strong dude! I dun think you have a problem in getting a new GF. JIAYOU! -
if i will u , it is better to give up on the girl....
I wan my freedom!! hee hee!!
now , u r feeling resentment with ur gf...
talk to her and how her action make u feel and affect u...
and if u think that the relationship had not improve and the problems are there... u have to make a decison whether to stay or break the relationship
love is a two ways things...
jia you!!! dun give up!!!
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:The idea behind Christians must marry Christians is the same as if everyone in this world belongs to the same sect of the same religion, then, there will be world peace.
This is also the reason why terrorists kill other people... to achieve world peace. -
This girl doesn'tlove you. She just wants to rule over you coz she knows she can get what she wants from you - allowing her to domate!
Seems like she's into BDSM..... Why dun you put her to the test and whip her wif your belt..... teach her a lesson! -
Says who? Ba zhang is only food - why Christians cannot eat? Stooo-pid!Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:told u that christians cannot eat ba zhang liao right?