Ummmmm they're both 22!Originally posted by Ferret:how old r they ?
I am assuming guy is like under 30s lah.
so if he wants to make her wait 5 years, a bit too much loh.![]()
then they are too young to be thinking liddat.Originally posted by MooKu:Ummmmm they're both 22!
oy, people mature early ma.Originally posted by Ferret:then they are too young to be thinking liddat.
usually people go thru some major life changes ard age 25.
Plan after that bah![]()
but a lotta things will change between the 6 years till she wants to get married wor. not saying 22yrs old cant be thinking abt marriage lah.Originally posted by MooKu:oy, people mature early ma.
Maybe the guy's thinking will change, but what if the girl cannot wait!
If they cannot work out a compromise... it is better to find themselves new partners... major issues like that cannot solve... I doubt that it will be a happy relationship...Originally posted by MooKu:Story goes like...
Girl has a boyfriend of 2 years. She would like to get married before she turns 28, but her boyfriend thinks that is too early. He only wants to marry after he turns 35. It's a problem, because she wants to have a kid, and she doesn't want to have a kid without marriage.
What would you do in this situation?
mooku so fast want a kid le?Originally posted by MooKu:Story goes like...
Girl has a boyfriend of 2 years. She would like to get married before she turns 28, but her boyfriend thinks that is too early. He only wants to marry after he turns 35. It's a problem, because she wants to have a kid, and she doesn't want to have a kid without marriage.
What would you do in this situation?
The girl should ask the bf why he wants to marry at the age of 35. Why that specific age, any significance? Or is it possible to maybe make it a few years earlier?Originally posted by MooKu:Story goes like...
Girl has a boyfriend of 2 years. She would like to get married before she turns 28, but her boyfriend thinks that is too early. He only wants to marry after he turns 35. It's a problem, because she wants to have a kid, and she doesn't want to have a kid without marriage.
What would you do in this situation?
the girl shld move onOriginally posted by MooKu:Ummmmm they're both 22!
Maybe his view will change... but maybe it won't... And you know how females have an expiry date... and past a certain age, pregnancy will be a risk.
this one sounds goodOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:I think lots of things happen between 22 - 25
that can change the mind and hearts of a lot of people
In the meantime, rather than think of marriage and kids
perhaps it is better to spend the time to understand partner better
and build a stronger relationship
cos even if the guy agrees with the girl he wants to get married at 28
and wants to have kids
there is no guarantee is there for the next 6 years.
Actually both of them are still very young and have a very long way to go...Originally posted by MooKu:Well ah... some people tend to worry, and some people want solutions NOW - they don't want to wait. It sounds so... not so nice... to suggest ending it...
Yeah, but sometimes with a combination of factors... and the environment... there is reason for panic. But I just didn't know what to say to make her feel better.Originally posted by rainee:Actually both of them are still very young and have a very long way to go...
Originally posted by MooKu:Yeah, but sometimes with a combination of factors... and the environment... there is reason for panic. But I just didn't know what to say to make her feel better.