Nice' guy or 'bad' guy? Basically there is no such crap... it is only a definition to categorized what kind of lovers guys are. 'Nice' guys always hate 'bad' guys because they don't understand why these 'bad' guys are treating their woman like shit - but those girls are still sticking to them like glue.

HEY YOU... those who presume that you are under the 'nice' guy catergory...
Two of you have individual luck, have 24 hrs a day, same time, same days, etc.... therefore all those crap is not the problem.
What about looks?

You stroll the streets and look at 'bad' guys... most of them don't fall under the category of good looking... so good looks is left out.
Money? Perhaps?... Rare few species of woman would sacrifice their pride and dignity in exchange for enjoyment of monetary gains from the 'bad' guy... but those are *THOSE* cases - and I know you gonna start another tread saying Rich guys are bastard guys... PRECEPTION ERROR... *enuff said*

You are left with character... so whats the difference between a 'nice' guy and a 'bad' guy?
Dear, Yunhaier
*Hey... I am a 'nice' guy, and I just DON'T understand why she would rather stick with him THAN to give me a chance to me and herself on how much better I would treat her*...

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Mr 'NIce' guy... you are nice... so define 'nice'. And because you are so 'NICE', this major character, sort of, occupied alot of space in your character crate, which you most likely have miss out the important goods of 'Etiquette', Charm', 'Humor' and most important of all... 'Self confidence.' that is so essential to be placed within at all times. It appears that you seemed to spend most of your time with this preception error... and never really did much of a reflect on yourself to see why is things happening.

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Come on... everything happens for a reason... what I am trying to say is that making assumption and comments is easy, but is that useful? Its their life, not yours and all they could do is just one sentence and you would hold your tongue... 'What does it got to do with you?' Bastard guys are good are expressing themselves... they have self confidence and make woman feel good being around them. Some are fun.. others are interesting... regardless... they either make woman feel special, first-love, different or simply win them over totally. First time when they got into a relation... they ain't that good... but hey... this method works. He will try again... and it works again... they confidences grows within them. Sooner or later... they get pro in what they are doing.

'Nice' guys, continue to be yourself and don't suit to change just because it works for someone else - You are not him and you have one thing 'bad' guys may never have... moral assumption of what love is.

The Love Eco-system... *newly founded system by me*... those who understand it... will know when to play 'good' guys and when to play the villian.

Cheers