What happen to her? Why the suddenly change of attitude?
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We're quite steady and lovely until one night, we were playing games online, and I resigned. That kinda pissed her off and she started scolding me that I'm a sore loser, saying we dont treasure our time together, I don't take her seriously blah blah blah.. All the while, it's obvious I love her more than she loved me. Of course, I was very hurt that night and I cried myself to sleep. In the mid-night, she then apologised because of her mood-swing.
After that day, I just feel less love from her. Less muacks and hugs in the message from her. Less care and she started to tease me sarcastically Normally when I msg her I miss her and stuff, she would reply in the same lovely way. But now she just reply, "LOL. Don't think of me. Think of your exam." I'm really disappointed.
We went out last week and she actually rejected a kiss from me. We just to lip normally. That day she even rejected a kiss I wanted to plant on her cheek.
Just now, she didnt receive/lost her math formula book and I offered mine to her. She suddenly get pissed off and say why must she always make me at a disadvantage and stuff, why must I always sacrifice for her. She really sounded really pissed.
Guys, I'm really at a lost. I've given my whole to her. Why does she suddenly change? Has she kinda lost interest in me already? Or is this just a test to see if I can stand her? Or her parents found out we are together (her parents don't allow her to be in a relationship because we're in JC, she's still a student and should be concentrating on her studies) and she hinted she wanted to break me off and I will be pissed by her attitude nowadays and wait for me to initiate the break-up? Or she have got no choice to break me up, she still loves me, but just no choice, but to make me hate her before we break-up so that I'll experience last pain? Please tell me why. I'm honestly can't do without her. Or now she's feeling imperior and 'bullying' me?
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PMS lah.
Every woman will have a few days every month feeling wonky and what not.
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She's treating me like this for days already. Don't tell me she PMS for days already?Originally posted by CoolMyth:PMS lah.
Every woman will have a few days every month feeling wonky and what not. -
Break lor.
I am sure you were playing DOTA or CS.. -
PMS can last from anything from a few days to 2 weeks.Originally posted by coldzero:She's treating me like this for days already. Don't tell me she PMS for days already?
In this period, just be her punching bag. -
If I can be her punching bag, I'll just let her be. But I really hope you'll change to what she's like before.Originally posted by CoolMyth:PMS can last from anything from a few days to 2 weeks.
In this period, just be her punching bag. -
which jc?
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how long u with her le?
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I think you think too much liao...
Dun worry, everything seems fine
Don't change heart wor!
She still wants to be with you together.
that the most important fact
Good luck -
What game you all playing?
Biko:Online ah? -
guess you all should stop asking what game they playing?Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:What game you all playing?
Biko:Online ah?
that not the problem yea?
Anyway TS just say what game you playing if not they will just keep on asking... -
Sorry people, but I beg to differ. I feel that she has lost interest in your based on the above quote. Do not put too much hope in this relationship but do try to salvage it if you really love her. Ask her to tell you the truth and see if there's anything you can do to save it.Originally posted by coldzero:We went out last week and she actually rejected a kiss from me. We just to lip normally. That day she even rejected a kiss I wanted to plant on her cheek. -
Maybe she hates you for being so despo... ignore her and see how (psst... if she breaks up with you because you ignore her, don't blame me...)Originally posted by coldzero:why must I always sacrifice for her. She really sounded really pissed.
If she treats you better after you ignore her... thank me...
But if I were you, I will ignore her for a few days if she behaves like that and break up then break up lor.... -
This type of thing is unpredictable, to assume is a step towards relationship grave. Therefore give her some space, give her some time. Give yourself some time too.
You never know if its just a personal problem to something larger or uglier.
Just go on with normal days, don't pester her with questions, try something broader like how is your day and ponder upon her reply. Don't give her the feelng of being guilty, different girls have different reaction.
Lastly, wish for the best, you never know until the answer is out... -
LOL.Originally posted by popikachu:guess you all should stop asking what game they playing?
that not the problem yea?
Anyway TS just say what game you playing if not they will just keep on asking...
Anyway i think just try to ask her come out and try to talk reasons with her ba.
If her attitude still fark up. Nth is wrong with you.
Dont need be her puppy qian jiu her one.
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how the fcuk u knw the girl still wants 2 b with TS?Originally posted by popikachu:I think you think too much liao...
Dun worry, everything seems fine
Don't change heart wor!
She still wants to be with you together.
that the most important fact
Good luck -
questions:
1) the game that you two always play together, is it that you always win her or your character are of a higher level/class than her?
2) are your grades consistently better than her?
3) is she the type who is never satisfied with her grades and always say that she can do better? -
maybe you like to talk to her and explain how u feel towards her behavior?
but from the way u describe, i cld say tat do not put so much hope on it.
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1) Ask her friend whats wrong with her.Originally posted by coldzero:We're quite steady and lovely until one night, we were playing games online, and I resigned. That kinda pissed her off and she started scolding me that I'm a sore loser, saying we dont treasure our time together, I don't take her seriously blah blah blah.. All the while, it's obvious I love her more than she loved me. Of course, I was very hurt that night and I cried myself to sleep. In the mid-night, she then apologised because of her mood-swing.
After that day, I just feel less love from her. Less muacks and hugs in the message from her. Less care and she started to tease me sarcastically Normally when I msg her I miss her and stuff, she would reply in the same lovely way. But now she just reply, "LOL. Don't think of me. Think of your exam." I'm really disappointed.
We went out last week and she actually rejected a kiss from me. We just to lip normally. That day she even rejected a kiss I wanted to plant on her cheek.
Just now, she didnt receive/lost her math formula book and I offered mine to her. She suddenly get pissed off and say why must she always make me at a disadvantage and stuff, why must I always sacrifice for her. She really sounded really pissed.
Guys, I'm really at a lost. I've given my whole to her. Why does she suddenly change? Has she kinda lost interest in me already? Or is this just a test to see if I can stand her? Or her parents found out we are together (her parents don't allow her to be in a relationship because we're in JC, she's still a student and should be concentrating on her studies) and she hinted she wanted to break me off and I will be pissed by her attitude nowadays and wait for me to initiate the break-up? Or she have got no choice to break me up, she still loves me, but just no choice, but to make me hate her before we break-up so that I'll experience last pain? Please tell me why. I'm honestly can't do without her. Or now she's feeling imperior and 'bullying' me?
2) check if pms is causing the problem.
3) Is your exam coming soon? -
i agree with tingal79...TS, u mux watch ur moves liao...
be prepared lo..sumtimes gerls can get confused at times..some cannot forgive easily, some can..
but if u really love her try ur best ba...but remember to put romm for urself behind to fall back upon ya...
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PMS la....dont think so much..u wait for a week or 2 and see what happens...this type of sudden change happens to my gf most of the time.....
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yup that's a good gaugeOriginally posted by tingal79:Sorry people, but I beg to differ. I feel that she has lost interest in your based on the above quote. Do not put too much hope in this relationship but do try to salvage it if you really love her. Ask her to tell you the truth and see if there's anything you can do to save it.
TS, just move on, good luck -
give her cold shoulder for few days or even a week without contacts or smsing, she confirm will start missing you and yearn for your attention again.
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I agree with MichelleTan, time to give her cold shoulder and see how she react.Originally posted by MichelleTan:give her cold shoulder for few days or even a week without contacts or smsing, she confirm will start missing you and yearn for your attention again.
Jus like playing chess, wait for her to move. Den you make ur decision from there. Good luck! -
i sense a breakup.