What happen to her? Why the suddenly change of attitude?
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maybe she wants to breakup but dont want to be the one to initiate the breakup
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whoa..u posted at 2 forums.
I will say alarm is roaring. ur r/s abit not stable -
girls are always like that. when u dont ask .. doesnt mean u dont care
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Just keep quiet and she will auto come to u.Originally posted by coldzero:We're quite steady and lovely until one night, we were playing games online, and I resigned. That kinda pissed her off and she started scolding me that I'm a sore loser, saying we dont treasure our time together, I don't take her seriously blah blah blah.. All the while, it's obvious I love her more than she loved me. Of course, I was very hurt that night and I cried myself to sleep. In the mid-night, she then apologised because of her mood-swing.
After that day, I just feel less love from her. Less muacks and hugs in the message from her. Less care and she started to tease me sarcastically Normally when I msg her I miss her and stuff, she would reply in the same lovely way. But now she just reply, "LOL. Don't think of me. Think of your exam." I'm really disappointed.
We went out last week and she actually rejected a kiss from me. We just to lip normally. That day she even rejected a kiss I wanted to plant on her cheek.
Just now, she didnt receive/lost her math formula book and I offered mine to her. She suddenly get pissed off and say why must she always make me at a disadvantage and stuff, why must I always sacrifice for her. She really sounded really pissed.
Guys, I'm really at a lost. I've given my whole to her. Why does she suddenly change? Has she kinda lost interest in me already? Or is this just a test to see if I can stand her? Or her parents found out we are together (her parents don't allow her to be in a relationship because we're in JC, she's still a student and should be concentrating on her studies) and she hinted she wanted to break me off and I will be pissed by her attitude nowadays and wait for me to initiate the break-up? Or she have got no choice to break me up, she still loves me, but just no choice, but to make me hate her before we break-up so that I'll experience last pain? Please tell me why. I'm honestly can't do without her. Or now she's feeling imperior and 'bullying' me?
Den play a bit hard to get. (a bit only)
Den finally talk to her how u feel and she will listen seriously. ( Very seriously )
No need to say that 'im sorry to tell u this bla bla bla'
Tell her straight, and den keep quiet again and give her time.
Den when she more understanding of how u feel she will apologise.
Thats it =) -
From yr post, I can sense that u are a sensitve person...
lol... I worry for u if u r going to NS with a gf attached ... ><Originally posted by coldzero:We're quite steady and lovely until one night, we were playing games online, and I resigned. That kinda pissed her off and she started scolding me that I'm a sore loser, saying we dont treasure our time together, I don't take her seriously blah blah blah.. *U should listen carefully*
All the while, it's obvious I love her more than she loved me. Of course, I was very hurt that night and I cried myself to sleep.
*sensitive*
In the mid-night, she then apologised because of her mood-swing.
After that day, I just feel less love from her. Less muacks and hugs in the message from her. Less care and she started to tease me sarcastically Normally when I msg her I miss her and stuff, she would reply in the same lovely way. But now she just reply, "LOL. Don't think of me. Think of your exam."
*sensitive*
I'm really disappointed.
We went out last week and she actually rejected a kiss from me. We just to lip normally. That day she even rejected a kiss I wanted to plant on her cheek.
*never ask???*
Just now, she didnt receive/lost her math formula book and I offered mine to her. She suddenly get pissed off and say why must she always make me at a disadvantage and stuff, why must I always sacrifice for her. She really sounded really pissed. *never ask???*
Guys, I'm really at a lost. I've given my whole to her. Why does she suddenly change? Has she kinda lost interest in me already? Or is this just a test to see if I can stand her? Or her parents found out we are together (her parents don't allow her to be in a relationship because we're in JC, she's still a student and should be concentrating on her studies) and she hinted she wanted to break me off and I will be pissed by her attitude nowadays and wait for me to initiate the break-up? Or she have got no choice to break me up, she still loves me, but just no choice, but to make me hate her before we break-up so that I'll experience last pain? *never ask???*Please tell me why. I'm honestly can't do without her. Or now she's feeling imperior and 'bullying' me?
Haha... Most guy will go sniff sniff when their gf is having mood swings... But in actual fact, when yr gf is having mood swings and she blah blah, it is a good time to understand her character and everything... And of coz, u cant take 100% of what she say into consideration...
When she rejected a kiss from u, u can always ask her y using body language... Like pretend to be upset.
When she get pissed off with the fomular book, u can always say " Love gf is bf's duty wat"... And see what she say lor... U dont say anything... it is full stop liao...
When she hinted u to break off, u can always jokingly ask her y... Errr... maybe, this requires skill lah...
lol... a female's heart is deep on the bed of the ocean... Very difficult to tells what she is thinking... U have to ask her or communicate with her diplomaticly... Whatever answer she gave u, u have to accept it as her opinion... U cant use yr opinion to judge her love...