Best friends
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...my crush recognises us as being in that state of relationship..I've been doing some stuff for her,but not sure if she knows my feelings for her
i wanna take it further,up 1 level....want to be MORE than friends.sighs
what should i do fellow forumees? -
if u r treating her better than other girls,
she would understand already.
girls are sensitive when it comes to such thing. been there done that. -
if its like that...then i guess,she indirectly rejected me by saying we r best frens..
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Make your intentions known.
Being a passive lover would almost never get you your partner.
Take a more proactive role. But not too invasive.
Try to know her more, and try to crack jokes. One of the good ways, is to have some private joke, or generate some common things that you two would both laugh at.
Laughter is often one of the best ways to make an impression. -
continue liddat lor
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yea, girls like funny guys...Originally posted by binarynwitz:Make your intentions known.
Being a passive lover would almost never get you your partner.
Take a more proactive role. But not too invasive.
Try to know her more, and try to crack jokes. One of the good ways, is to have some private joke, or generate some common things that you two would both laugh at.
Laughter is often one of the best ways to make an impression.
but dun rush it...
maybe by saying that u r her best friend, it was her hint too. -
wow..if its like that..still got hope.Originally posted by rathcycle:yea, girls like funny guys...
but dun rush it...
maybe by saying that u r her best friend, it was her hint too.
but then,i can't crack jokes,dunno how to crack jokes..thats not me...
i'm more of a pal,can chat with me anything under the sun kind.. -
you this type of guy...Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:wow..if its like that..still got hope.
but then,i can't crack jokes,dunno how to crack jokes..thats not me...
i'm more of a pal,can chat with me anything under the sun kind..
same as alot other the heart like gold type 1....
most girls will only like u after they lose u...
cuz u this type, ppl won't know how to treasure...
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Just be yourself. If she starts chatting with you about stuff, then just listen and respond.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:wow..if its like that..still got hope.
but then,i can't crack jokes,dunno how to crack jokes..thats not me...
i'm more of a pal,can chat with me anything under the sun kind..
And every now and then, spin some funny side to the stuff she's saying. Occasional dose of humour is always good. =) -
I think that she either really think that you treat her like a good friend or she do not want to take your relationship up to your intended level. If you only desired to have that kind of relationship and nothing less...Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:...my crush recognises us as being in that state of relationship..I've been doing some stuff for her,but not sure if she knows my feelings for her
i wanna take it further,up 1 level....want to be MORE than friends.sighs
what should i do fellow forumees?
Confess your love for her. it's that simple... either she would avoid you, treat it as nothing happened or you would get what you want...
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1-avoidOriginally posted by caleb_chiang:I think that she either really think that you treat her like a good friend or she do not want to take your relationship up to your intended level. If you only desired to have that kind of relationship and nothing less...
Confess your love for her. it's that simple... either she would avoid you, treat it as nothing happened or you would get what you want...
2-treat as nth happen
3- get what he wants
probability of getting no.3 seems like 1/3
so its gona be tough.
but good luck anyways -
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yup,i dread and fear that she will avoid me..Originally posted by caleb_chiang:I think that she either really think that you treat her like a good friend or she do not want to take your relationship up to your intended level. If you only desired to have that kind of relationship and nothing less...
Confess your love for her. it's that simple... either she would avoid you, treat it as nothing happened or you would get what you want...
Even if she rejected me,i will still want her to be a very very gd fren of mine like be4.But,she may feel wierd,and we may nv be as gd frens as be4 -
Haven't settle argh?
One shot one kill liao! -
yes i 2nd that, they will feel that special treatment.Originally posted by rathcycle:if u r treating her better than other girls,
she would understand already.
girls are sensitive when it comes to such thing. been there done that.
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Even if she avoided you, it's not important. It's not about her. That's the mistakes of too many nice guys.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:yup,i dread and fear that she will avoid me..
Even if she rejected me,i will still want her to be a very very gd fren of mine like be4.But,she may feel wierd,and we may nv be as gd frens as be4
It's about YOU. You made the move and that's what counts. Real men don't care if the girl avoided him or rejected him. They just want the girl. They don't even care what the girl thinks, as long as they don't go too far.
Because they have the confidence and the guts.
And confidence and guts are highly-prized traits.
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Thats not true...Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:if its like that...then i guess,she indirectly rejected me by saying we r best frens..
When she say that both of you are best friend, what she really wanted to say is that both your relationship is very very close...
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hmm...sounds reasonableOriginally posted by popikachu:Thats not true...
When she say that both of you are best friend, what she really wanted to say is that both your relationship is very very close...
Really... -
lol i'm in the same situation as you. good luck to you then.
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Like what many said, just do it. Ask the sacred question, it may be shy but at least you made the move. Unless you can read people's mind then don't assume, her reply can mean anything.
If she is hesitant about it then give her sometime to think, don't rush, patience is virtue.
However the truth can be hurting so don't be sure that its a yes but always be optimistic and never hang on to something impossible, have a big heart.
Just my two cents worth =) -
juz dun really know when's the right time
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"Forever Friends." These words got meaning one you know?
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got meaning...wat special meaningOriginally posted by Ito_^:"Forever Friends." These words got meaning one you know?
enlighten me then!
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since she indicate best frens then dun push it... its not 100% no chance but very low chance for advancement... u reali wan her then watch n wait for the chance to come... but then wats so good abt her?
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I think the best and universal way is to hold her hand. Try to be as casual as possible. Like for a start, you just take her hand and pretend like you are looking at something on it.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:...my crush recognises us as being in that state of relationship..I've been doing some stuff for her,but not sure if she knows my feelings for her
i wanna take it further,up 1 level....want to be MORE than friends.sighs
what should i do fellow forumees?
If she pulls back in disgust or shock... say: "Wait let me see... " (Since you two are best friends, maybe you know better what excuse is good. (read her palm? do your homework... google)
If she lets you, then hold on to it...
BTW please don't assume too much... from your posts it looks like you tend to jump to conclusions... and think of the worse possible outcomes automatically.... why like that?