Best friends

• F.raon.I.R

  1 Jul 07, 23:13

  Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:

  I think the best and universal way is to hold her hand. Try to be as casual as possible. Like for a start, you just take her hand and pretend like you are looking at something on it.
  
  If she pulls back in disgust or shock... say: "Wait let me see... " (Since you two are best friends, maybe you know better what excuse is good. (read her palm? do your homework... google)
  
  If she lets you, then hold on to it...
  
  BTW please don't assume too much... from your posts it looks like you tend to jump to conclusions... and think of the worse possible outcomes automatically.... why like that?

  i dunno...maybe i m pessimistic...i always like to emo over her..think a lot.haizi dunno where i stand
• nanren4ever

  2 Jul 07, 23:15

  I think I had said it before..but sometimes, its kinda hard 2 progress further when a girl tells u you and her are best friends. It means that she has no romantic feelings of any sort for u at the moment.
  
  However, i know of some cases where the 2 of them are best friends but still turn out a couple in the end. The guy went to do a scrapbook, where he puts all the photos of them 2 into the book. He wrote about his feelings for her, how he has fallen for her, and wrote about the happy times they had together. In the end, the girl was touched and they were together, although they have since broken up.
  
  You can either be brave like my friend, and fight for ur own happiness, or u can be like me. Be the guy who supports her silently, keep ur feelings to urself and be the friend who stick with her through thick and thin.
• F.raon.I.R

  2 Jul 07, 23:45

  Originally posted by nanren4ever:

  I think I had said it before..but sometimes, its kinda hard 2 progress further when a girl tells u you and her are best friends. It means that she has no romantic feelings of any sort for u at the moment.
  
  However, i know of some cases where the 2 of them are best friends but still turn out a couple in the end. The guy went to do a scrapbook, where he puts all the photos of them 2 into the book. He wrote about his feelings for her, how he has fallen for her, and wrote about the happy times they had together. In the end, the girl was touched and they were together, although they have since broken up.
  
  You can either be brave like my friend, and fight for ur own happiness, or u can be like me. Be the guy who supports her silently, keep ur feelings to urself and be the friend who stick with her through thick and thin.

  oh man i like ur fren's guts n idea
  yup.i'm kind like u,keeping feelings to myself currently.I NEVER say NO to her when she seek whatever help from me