My Breakup Aftermath.
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My relationship with my previous girlfriend ended up real bad - a quarrel. i apologised but to no avail. seriously, i still can't let go, it's about 2 months from now already. she avoids me in college and turns away when we happen to bump into each other face-to-face by coincidence. nowadays we only message each other things like "Good luck for your exam tomorrow
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My birthday's coming and i feel like calling her out to have a meal or something on that day. should i? or should i just (maybe) call other girls?
*i appreciate good advices, thanks. -
dont ask her out lor. ask other people better. she will feel paiseh one since you two break up already.
what if your friends all dont know yet and make two of you kiss kiss during party? -
if u do miss her... u should ring her up and explain things again.. no matter what her reaction is.. u must at least try a good 2 or 3 times..
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but she hangs up my callsOriginally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:if u do miss her... u should ring her up and explain things again.. no matter what her reaction is.. u must at least try a good 2 or 3 times..
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give each other a 2-3 months break for both to reflect... after that then make your decision againOriginally posted by mundanE:but she hangs up my calls -
if she hangs up yr call, means that she is not giving u a chance as a bf.Originally posted by mundanE:but she hangs up my calls
But perhaps she accepts u as a friend only since she exchanges good luck for exam SMS
If u really want to be with her, u have to start from step 1 again... But dont invite her to yr birthday party lah.... Mostly, she is going to reject yr invitation... -
haha it's not a party, it's one-to-one.Originally posted by ispyyy:if she hangs up yr call, means that she is not giving u a chance as a bf.
But perhaps she accepts u as a friend only since she exchanges good luck for exam SMS
If u really want to be with her, u have to start from step 1 again... But dont invite her to yr birthday party lah.... Mostly, she is going to reject yr invitation... -
party must invite! cus party the more the better mah...Originally posted by ispyyy:if she hangs up yr call, means that she is not giving u a chance as a bf.
But perhaps she accepts u as a friend only since she exchanges good luck for exam SMS
If u really want to be with her, u have to start from step 1 again... But dont invite her to yr birthday party lah.... Mostly, she is going to reject yr invitation...
but not on one on one date... -
worseOriginally posted by mundanE:haha it's not a party, it's one-to-one. -
okay then. thanksOriginally posted by ispyyy:worse -
1) why you quarrel?Originally posted by mundanE:My relationship with my previous girlfriend ended up real bad - a quarrel. i apologised but to no avail. seriously, i still can't let go, it's about 2 months from now already. she avoids me in college and turns away when we happen to bump into each other face-to-face by coincidence. nowadays we only message each other things like "Good luck for your exam tomorrow".
My birthday's coming and i feel like calling her out to have a meal or something on that day. should i? or should i just (maybe) call other girls?
*i appreciate good advices, thanks.
2) want to patch back? -
i want, obviously.Originally posted by zeny:1) why you quarrel?
2) want to patch back?
her side i not sure, but i think low chance.
quarrel? over my parents. -
Have you also thought of "looking around" for other gals in Singapore instead of still habouring thoughts of her coming back to your side?
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date other gers lah...
u hv got lots of choices... nowadays gov import lots of "foreign talents" leh...
we young mah... suave somemore... we oso benefit de..
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like that it is possible that your next one will have the same result...Originally posted by mundanE:i want, obviously.
her side i not sure, but i think low chance.
quarrel? over my parents.
I was watching "Picket Fences" a long time ago and in one episode, the mother told the son "I expect to be with your father for the rest of my life... you will find someone and go away... so don't make me choose between you and your father... I will always choose your father..."
You think about this... we are Asians... it is not 100% applicable and similar... but I think that your problem is having to choose between your parents and your gf(future wife) and you must come up with a good solution... or
like that it is possible that your next one will have the same result... -
ok that's good enough to tell u to stop......let go dude & move onOriginally posted by mundanE:but she hangs up my calls
good luck
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If you consider her your EX girlfriend, stop wasting your time trying to reach any closure, she is not ready for it now anyway. It's over, move on.
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give full story leading up to the breakup... u can try jio her for dinner on ur bday but if cannot then go for other gals...Originally posted by mundanE:My relationship with my previous girlfriend ended up real bad - a quarrel. i apologised but to no avail. seriously, i still can't let go, it's about 2 months from now already. she avoids me in college and turns away when we happen to bump into each other face-to-face by coincidence. nowadays we only message each other things like "Good luck for your exam tomorrow".
My birthday's coming and i feel like calling her out to have a meal or something on that day. should i? or should i just (maybe) call other girls?
*i appreciate good advices, thanks. -
yeah it is over
she will still dump u even she's back to you...
good horse no eat back head grass -
listen from the...................experiencedOriginally posted by kiss_my (_i_):yeah it is over
she will still dump u even she's back to you...
good horse no eat back head grass -
fcuk youOriginally posted by de_middle:listen from the...................experienced -
it's like my parents so-happen to find out that i've got a gf. i think they talked or something, then my gf doesn't like it. i didn't know what they said to each other. so like 1 day i was sending her home, she hugged and kissed me for a while in the lift. after that day, things changed, totallyOriginally posted by BrUtUs:give full story leading up to the breakup... u can try jio her for dinner on ur bday but if cannot then go for other gals... -
seriously if i've been given this choice, i think i'll choose my gf. cuz i don't really like my parents since young.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:like that it is possible that your next one will have the same result...
I was watching "Picket Fences" a long time ago and in one episode, the mother told the son "I expect to be with your father for the rest of my life... you will find someone and go away... so don't make me choose between you and your father... I will always choose your father..."
You think about this... we are Asians... it is not 100% applicable and similar... but I think that your problem is having to choose between your parents and your gf(future wife) and you must come up with a good solution... or
like that it is possible that your next one will have the same result... -
I have a friend who has a serious quarrel with another person and they ended not keeping in contact for 3 years. After the 3 years that friend smsed him back.Originally posted by mundanE:My relationship with my previous girlfriend ended up real bad - a quarrel. i apologised but to no avail. seriously, i still can't let go, it's about 2 months from now already. she avoids me in college and turns away when we happen to bump into each other face-to-face by coincidence. nowadays we only message each other things like "Good luck for your exam tomorrow".
My birthday's coming and i feel like calling her out to have a meal or something on that day. should i? or should i just (maybe) call other girls?
*i appreciate good advices, thanks.
Patience, your ex-GF may not be contacting you now, someday she will. As for your birthday celebration: do you really need to call out gals only? Y not make it a 'friends' or family gathering?
Don't neglect the people around you just for the sake of chasing gals. -
oi! many people in sgforums will condemn you immediately for saying that without sound justifications...Originally posted by mundanE:seriously if i've been given this choice, i think i'll choose my gf. cuz i don't really like my parents since young.
You will have to explain what your parents did to make you dislike them since young.
What you need to do is come up with a strategy that includes these two realities... and they are:
1. Your parents supported you since you were a baby
2. You dislike your parents since young because.....
So how? How can you translate these two realities into a set of behavior that takes both set of realities into account?