seriously agree on thisOriginally posted by kiss_my (_i_):u wrong man..
should be,
u're not the man for her![]()
hmmmm... I don't we can protect or try to protect people... this is the internet age... they can see anything they want in th www.Originally posted by eagle:Erm, that's not really a thing to say to TS.... If his profile is correct, he's at most 17 yrs old...
I still feel that it's wrong to lay down the suggestion that she may be a wild girl =DOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:hmmmm... I don't we can protect or try to protect people... this is the internet age... they can see anything they want in th www.
I think it is best to spell out reality and let people handle the facts themselves...
I sincerely doubt that if we say "Hey lay your hands off the girl", it will work
So my idea is that we lay down the facts... and tell them the possible consequences of their actions which they might not have considered.... otherwise, the young people these days, I think that they can see through preaching easily...
I guess I am primarily affected by contact issues. I believe too little contact just doesn't feel right.Originally posted by _Aaron_:Aye, it seems that the problem you have with her is contact issues. Does she not appreciate your gestures, or do you not appreciate her appreciation? (You get the idea.)
You yourself said that everything else is fine, so other than not being to touch her, you still send each other mushy smses, say mushy stuff, do little stuff for each other?
Some little details that could help us help you:
How old are the two of you?
How long have you two been together?
Has she ever been attached before?
Has she had any prior bad experience?
Do let us know~
Well, it is alright to bring up marriage.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I don't think it is wise to ignore, downplay physical intimacy incompatibility.
There is a chance that she might become a wild animal when you are married... but you have to decide if you want to take that risk...
For all you know, she might think that you are too young for her and is re-considering her future with you.Originally posted by poo-see-boi:I guess I am primarily affected by contact issues. I believe too little contact just doesn't feel right.
I am 17, but she's 19. No maturity issues. Both of us first time attached. No prior bad experiences. We've been together 3months.
We are not the mushy type.
You misunderstood what I wrote, I think....Originally posted by eagle:I still feel that it's wrong to lay down the suggestion that she may be a wild girl =D
I like this sentence the mostOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:I am saying that one should not brush aside physical/sexual incompatibility... it can be very serious and make or break a marriage (can be, not absolute)
Ah!!.........how about we turn this picture around??Originally posted by poo-see-boi:I am, to say the least, disappointed. After all these months of being there for her, going out of my way to help her, showing her concern, always lending a listening ear,... she doesn't seem to appreciate it.
For example, when I put my hand on her shoulder, she squirms. Or when I sit close to her, she keeps and inch. This is disturbing, as these subtle hints seem to say that she doesn't trust me? If that were the case, she should not have allowed us to be in a relationship in the first place. But everything else is fine.
It is tough for a guy to be in a relationship where there is hardly even the slightest contact. The relationship feels cold. Why do girls not understand this? And it is even harder for guys to explain this to the girl.
What's the best step forward now?
Are you in heat or what?Originally posted by poo-see-boi:I am, to say the least, disappointed. After all these months of being there for her, going out of my way to help her, showing her concern, always lending a listening ear,... she doesn't seem to appreciate it.
For example, when I put my hand on her shoulder, she squirms. Or when I sit close to her, she keeps and inch. This is disturbing, as these subtle hints seem to say that she doesn't trust me? If that were the case, she should not have allowed us to be in a relationship in the first place. But everything else is fine.
It is tough for a guy to be in a relationship where there is hardly even the slightest contact. The relationship feels cold. Why do girls not understand this? And it is even harder for guys to explain this to the girl.
What's the best step forward now?
Originally posted by poo-see-boi:trust is not measured like that.
I am, to say the least, disappointed. After all these months of being there for her, going out of my way to help her, showing her concern, always lending a listening ear,... she doesn't seem to appreciate it.
For example, when I put my hand on her shoulder, she squirms. Or when I sit close to her, she keeps and inch. This is disturbing, as these subtle hints seem to say that she [b]doesn't trust me? If that were the case, she should not have allowed us to be in a relationship in the first place. But everything else is fine.
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:Why do girls not understand guy's needs?
LoL.. i think she understand guy's 'NEEDs' perfectly alright... by keeping in the 'safe' zone.![]()
to her you may not seem NEEDing to touch her etc... you simply seem WANTing to touch her only... for girls, alot of things connect to the heart... u gotta go to the heart 1st dude.Originally posted by poo-see-boi:I am, to say the least, disappointed. After all these months of being there for her, going out of my way to help her, showing her concern, always lending a listening ear,... she doesn't seem to appreciate it.
For example, when I put my hand on her shoulder, she squirms. Or when I sit close to her, she keeps and inch. This is disturbing, as these subtle hints seem to say that she doesn't trust me? If that were the case, she should not have allowed us to be in a relationship in the first place. But everything else is fine.
It is tough for a guy to be in a relationship where there is hardly even the slightest contact. The relationship feels cold. Why do girls not understand this? And it is even harder for guys to explain this to the girl.
What's the best step forward now?