Frustration
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U wonder how people who r leaving the company handle such situations ???Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:As much as i try to not be so involved with the daily activities...i will unknowingly just help them all out...sigh...i wonder how people who are leaving the company handle such situations? Thanks...
hmmm... the truth is there are many many many people wants to leave their company... But the reason y they cant leave the company is because they cant find a better pay or better working condition or blah blah...
By not involving with daily activities is actually burning off yr own back bridge...
y I say so ??
1) U may not find a job of yr liking - it may take months or even years
2) By not involving with daily activities will change yr boss view on u - change to the better or change to the worse - it depends...
3) Singapore is very small... the expertise, that u have, world is even smaller... It will be better if u can leave a good record rather than a bad one
4) Even, if u do manage to leave for a greener pasture, who noes, u may get an better offer to come back to yr previous company...
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Anyway, the minute u hand in yr resignation letter, yr collegues and friends will zhi dong wont give any job to u for that month 1... hmmm..maybe depends too...
So dont feel frustrated lah... unless, u r saying that u dont want to involve daily activities is to spite yr boss.... hmmm.... that is another different question... -
since u like ur colleagues n company then why leave??
its not easy to find a good working environment whereby everyone clicks so well.
dun leave la..
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last time, i also like that people say i no feelings 1 i also don't care i quit. i go.... it been a few months everything is all right.Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Well i'm currently with a job...but i'm thinking of moving out from there...
The people there are nice...like really nice....and we click really well...but i hope that i can leave without the feeling of attachment to the department...
As much as i try to not be so involved with the daily activities...i will unknowingly just help them all out...sigh...i wonder how people who are leaving the company handle such situations? Thanks...
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haha you always sound so knowledgeable... sometimes quit because of people keep pester around and oh yea.... life is with many obstaclesOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:huh? If you feel attachment for the department, you cannot leave in peace because...
You feel you need to help those nice people to cope without you?
You feel guilty about making life difficult for them?
If that is the case, well, in life, you can NEVER have the cake and eat it.
What is/are the reason/s you want to leave? Is it valid? -
friends come and go... don't think so much... just think of what to do realistic??
go for it! I support you!
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x 2Originally posted by :Chey! Leave emloyment doesn't mean you have to terminate your relationship with your present colleagues mah..... can still keep in contact and get together wad...... -
and normal and you will get over it...Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Actually i know i have to go...but i dunno why i get such feelings pulling me to stay...thats the frustrating part
When people are in total control of their emotions, they will not be frustrated... *haiz* do you know how difficult it is to be "in total control of your emotions?"
So in lieu of that, you learn to "cope"... (cope does not mean you go and drink a couple of beers or whatever it is that you do to cope hor...) and that is devise a strategy to overcome your "frustrations" about leaving...