Why a low-profile relationship?
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Let's say the guy and the girl are in the same class. The guy wasn't very good looking and loves the girl dearly while the girl have a certain amount of infatuation into the guy. They then get together, but the girl wanted to keep it low-profile such that not much people know about their relationship. They would only tell their closest friend their relationship and when asked about their relationship openly, the girl will ALWAYS deny hardly that they're not together, while the guy suffer in silence.
My question is, why do some girls like to keep a low-profile relationship even when they're enjoying the love from the guy so happily? Is it that she wants to enjoy the love and pamper from the guy yet carry on with her life normally? Or she selfishly wanna enjoy the love from the guy till she's bored of him and break up without her life and reputation affected while the guy suffers? -
Originally posted by coldzero:My question is, why do some girls like to keep a low-profile relationship even when they're enjoying the love from the guy so happily?
juz coz u enjoy it doesnt mean u haf to tell the whole world abt it mah...but wierdly enuf, mostly guys r the one who want to tell everyone...girls generallly more shy abt it so dun wanna say out loh...
Is it that she wants to enjoy the love and pamper from the guy yet carry on with her life normally?
maybe....
Or she selfishly wanna enjoy the love from the guy till she's bored of him and break up without her life and reputation affected while the guy suffers?
well if she breaks up...both side reputation oso wun get affected what...the guy suffers onli if he wants to tell everyone but cant mah...thats not reali suffering that bad bah?unless reali is juz wanna make use la... -
that's what i think.Originally posted by coldzero:Let's say the guy and the girl are in the same class. The guy wasn't very good looking and loves the girl dearly while the girl have a certain amount of infatuation into the guy. They then get together, but the girl wanted to keep it low-profile such that not much people know about their relationship. They would only tell their closest friend their relationship and when asked about their relationship openly, the girl will ALWAYS deny hardly that they're not together, while the guy suffer in silence.
My question is, why do some girls like to keep a low-profile relationship even when they're enjoying the love from the guy so happily? Is it that she wants to enjoy the love and pamper from the guy yet carry on with her life normally? Or she selfishly wanna enjoy the love from the guy till she's bored of him and break up without her life and reputation affected while the guy suffers?
the girl thinks people are going to gossip about it.
u noe, the eee-why-she-so-no-taste that kinda crap.
i think only hor. -
she is ashamed of u
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Then do she wants to be with the guy in the first place?Originally posted by Omniknight:she is ashamed of u -
Come on, If you love someone. Be proud of it!
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she afraid of gossipers.
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woman likes to gossip but hates to be gossiped.
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the girl will have more opportunities outside ma.other guys will think she is single and available then will woo her ma.while she have the guy with her to pamper her at the same time.how song!
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she shy lor. -
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me and my bf also low profile cuz my mum don like mi to get involve in r/s when i am still sching zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz saddening i grad from sec sch liao la!
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you yourself also don't dare to admit that you are the one seeking help in AA.
same thing. -
Because the girl thinks that she might be the laughingstock of everyone if she announces the relationship ?
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Huh? I dont get what you mean.Originally posted by RonDaGuy:you yourself also don't dare to admit that you are the one seeking help in AA.
same thing. -
Some people are just more private than others.
Probably nothing to do with ashamed or not.
I keep my relationship as low profile as possible too. -
There are many questions in life we always doubt...Originally posted by coldzero:My question is, why do some girls like to keep a low-profile relationship even when they're enjoying the love from the guy so happily?
Many possible reasons
Is it that she wants to enjoy the love and pamper from the guy yet carry on with her life normally?
Maybe
Or she selfishly wanna enjoy the love from the guy till she's bored of him and break up without her life and reputation affected while the guy suffers?
Maybe
For example :
Will I strike toto if I continue buy it everyday?
I can only say "maybe".
Even if I say "no... mathematically u cant strike at all", but u will still go n buy...
Actually, these questions are not really important... The most important is how is the guy going to sustain these relationship, how the guy is going to enjoy every moment with her...
By only doubting, only makes one more and more confused and unabe to see the situation clearly... It may create many false images in his or her head...
So whether the gals wants to have low profile or high profile, it doesnt matter... As long as, the gal love the guy and the guy love the gal at that point of time...
So is the girl going to enjoy the guy's love and pamper and live normally??? It doesnt matter too.. as long as the guy enjoy to do so...
Or she selfishly wanna enjoy the love from the guy till she's bored of him and break up without her life and reputation affected while the guy suffers? how u noe the future??? if future cant be predicted, might as well just enjoy what u have in that moment... Anyway, it may not be the gal leave the guy... it may be the guy leave the gal... -
Originally posted by xaih:
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the girl will have [b]more opportunities outside ma.other guys will think she is single and available then will woo her ma.while she have the guy with her to pamper her at the same time.how song!
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she shy lor.[/b] -
she likes the attention given to her by the guy. she desires to be loved, but probably has no intention of returning that feeling.Originally posted by coldzero:Then do she wants to be with the guy in the first place? -
Is very normal to feel this way, but if the guy loves the girl very much. Is better to listern to her. If the relationship is expose at the wrong timing she may chose to break up with the guy.Originally posted by coldzero:Let's say the guy and the girl are in the same class. The guy wasn't very good looking and loves the girl dearly while the girl have a certain amount of infatuation into the guy. They then get together, but the girl wanted to keep it low-profile such that not much people know about their relationship. They would only tell their closest friend their relationship and when asked about their relationship openly, the girl will ALWAYS deny hardly that they're not together, while the guy suffer in silence.
My question is, why do some girls like to keep a low-profile relationship even when they're enjoying the love from the guy so happily? Is it that she wants to enjoy the love and pamper from the guy yet carry on with her life normally? Or she selfishly wanna enjoy the love from the guy till she's bored of him and break up without her life and reputation affected while the guy suffers? -
coldzero if you want to imagine this and that, then good luck to you.
You have a good relationship and you are trying to spoil it by imagining all sorts of, as far as I can see, rubbish.
You might not think that it is rubbish and that what you imagined is true.... like I said, well good luck to you...
My advice to you is, stop imagining and enjoy, build up the relationship... OR ELSE!
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just fcuk early so you wont have to whine if she breaks up with u
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There are a number of possibility...
Firstly, no reason... just prefer to keep low profile...
Secondly, she feel ashame of her guy... So she don't wants the whole world to know...
Thirdly, out of shyness...
Forth, she don't feel that it's the right time to tells other...
Actually, there are alot more reason and the percentage of getting the each of these reason is the same.
Don't think to much, one solution, ASK. -
No point asking. She wouldn't possibly tell you she's ashamed of you right?
She isn't proud of the relationship. Period -
aiya...no matter whether u grad from what, ur still their kid mah...n anyways...after sec sch that means still schooling mah...as long as still schooling, generally parents dun wan their children to b in r/s one la...Originally posted by love kitty:me and my bf also low profile cuz my mum don like mi to get involve in r/s when i am still sching zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz saddening i grad from sec sch liao la! -
ok i understand how you feel.... it like hanging bare naked on a rope in front of the how world...... you dont feel secure unless she acknowledge you status in front of her...... i think she is not worth being with unless she has a perfectly reasonable reason for doing that.....GO TALK TO HER!!!!
