Why a low-profile relationship?

• Honeybear1990

  7 Jul 07, 18:10

  May i know if this is the first relationship she going thru.
  
  Let presume its the first, she could be shy, and not used to letting people know she in a relationship. in other words, she doesn't feel comfortable yet.
  
  Its the same when you first time holded someone hand in public. you won't feel really comfortable right?
  
  nevertheless.
  
  If she been thru more than one relationship or another,
  
  she could be feeling unsure of this relationship and doesn't want to tell people unless she veri certain of this relationship.
  
  other points are pointed out by other forumers.
  
  Threadstarted, Please stay optimistic.
  
  i know its hard to not let your though run wild, but sometimes, it really kills.
• rebound

  7 Jul 07, 18:59

  this kind of relationship comfirm wont last.
  doesnt matter if she let ppl know ur relationship anymore , cause the reason y she nv want ppl to know in the 1st place is she thinks ur not good enoght 4 her scared ppl would gossip, immature and selfish little ger i would say.
  b perpare.
• wonderamazement

  7 Jul 07, 20:47

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Let's say the guy and the girl are in the same class. The guy wasn't very good looking and loves the girl dearly while the girl have a certain amount of infatuation into the guy. They then get together, but the girl wanted to keep it low-profile such that not much people know about their relationship. They would only tell their closest friend their relationship and when asked about their relationship openly, the girl will ALWAYS deny hardly that they're not together, while the guy suffer in silence.
  
  My question is, why do some girls like to keep a low-profile relationship even when they're enjoying the love from the guy so happily? Is it that she wants to enjoy the love and pamper from the guy yet carry on with her life normally? Or she selfishly wanna enjoy the love from the guy till she's bored of him and break up without her life and reputation affected while the guy suffers?

  Maybe she's just embarassed about being with him... Why she's with him gotta ask her...
• ItchyArmpit

  7 Jul 07, 22:04

  always put urself in other ppl shoe.....
  
  for me... if i wanna keep the relationship in a low profile the possible reason is that i dont love her deep enough.......
  if not i would shout out to my friends that she is my friend.....
  
  but that is just me.......
  
  good luck,
  
  Cheers
  IA
• pompy

  7 Jul 07, 22:22

  so after sex can run off.
• Sakuraflower

  7 Jul 07, 22:32

  well, when she is prepared to tell pple, she will tell then ur r/s with her will be known to pple.
  
  In the meantime, tell her what u feeling and how it affect u then make some adjustment.
• rebound

  7 Jul 07, 22:35

  Originally posted by pompy:

  so after sex can run off.

  from wat i c.
  she let him kiss her or even hold hand very very good lor.
• rebound

  7 Jul 07, 22:38

  Originally posted by Sakuraflower:

  well, when she is prepared to tell pple, she will tell then ur r/s with her will be known to pple.
  
  In the meantime, tell her what u feeling and how it affect u then make some adjustment.

  i seen this kinda case be4 wont happen de.
  if he try to persure her to let ppl know their relationship,
  most probably she is goin to use this as a execuse to break with him.
  
  from wat i c is the ger bad, dun like juz say dun give ppl hope then kill them
• Spartans

  8 Jul 07, 12:12

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  woman likes to gossip but hates to be gossiped.

  This is so true. Can't agree more than this.
  Maybe can change the word 'likes' to 'loves'.
  Woman loves to gossip.