Ladies, define a 'Possessive' bf

• LocalGod

  7 Jul 07, 16:26

  does the following consider 'possessive'?
  
  - wants to know ur whereabout everyday
  - wants to know ur family matters?
  - wants to know who ur net friends are?
  
  any other things u think are 'possessive' to you?
• rainee

  7 Jul 07, 16:36

  Originally posted by LocalGod:

  does the following consider 'possessive'?
  
  - wants to know ur whereabout everyday
  - wants to know ur family matters?
  - wants to know who ur net friends are?
  
  any other things u think are 'possessive' to you?

  I dun mind him asking me about my whereabout, but of cos not the kind that every hour also calls me up to ask, Where are you now?
  
  For my family matters, I will tell him if I am ready to, but if I am not ready to tell and he is forcing me to tell, then it is not possessive, it is darn irritating.
  
  As for net friends, I don't mind my dear asking and don't mind telling also, because I have nothing to hide.
  
  
• wonderamazement

  7 Jul 07, 18:51

  Originally posted by rainee:

  I dun mind him asking me about my whereabout, but of cos not the kind that every hour also calls me up to ask, Where are you now?
  
  For my family matters, I will tell him if I am ready to, but if I am not ready to tell and he is forcing me to tell, then it is not possessive, it is darn irritating.
  
  As for net friends, I don't mind my dear asking and don't mind telling also, because I have nothing to hide.
  
  

  If only she didn't mind...
• Cool-gal

  8 Jul 07, 00:16

  i noe!!
  1. not letting u going out even with ur own blood sister!!
  2. to delete all guys contact on hp.
  3. no msn, frenster & email, sever ties with internet!!
  4. off days to stay until he knocks off n meet him ONLY.
  5. no meeting with gfs.
  6. waiting for u at ur workplace.
  7. to call him every one hr.
  8. min. contact with male colleagues.
  9. to reciprocate his care n concern doubly.
• NiaoDan

  8 Jul 07, 00:22

  call every 1 hour.. wa seh
• xaih

  8 Jul 07, 00:32

  posessive bf makes me feel im important to him.
  i dont really mind.
• technoboy

  8 Jul 07, 00:59

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  i noe!!
  1. not letting u going out even with ur own blood sister!!
  2. to delete all guys contact on hp.
  3. no msn, frenster & email, sever ties with internet!!
  4. off days to stay until he knocks off n meet him ONLY.
  5. no meeting with gfs.
  6. waiting for u at ur workplace.
  7. to call him every one hr.
  8. min. contact with male colleagues.
  9. to reciprocate his care n concern doubly.

  That is over man! Lol.
• Cool-gal

  8 Jul 07, 01:30

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  That is over man! Lol.

  u bet, i never want anything like this again.
  
  this is madness!!
• wonderamazement

  8 Jul 07, 02:08

  Ok so i'd like to ask you girls...
  
  Am i being too posessive if...
  
  I asked her not to spend so much time with her friends (beng types)
  Just asking bout where she is ONCE
  I get jealous when she flirts with other guys
  
• F.raon.I.R

  8 Jul 07, 02:10

  Originally posted by wonderamazement:

  Ok so i'd like to ask you girls...
  
  Am i being too posessive if...
  
  I asked her not to spend so much time with her friends (beng types)
  Just asking bout where she is ONCE
  I get jealous when she flirts with other guys
  

  as a guy.i think its perfectly normal for u
  u r not possessive
• Cool-gal

  8 Jul 07, 02:13

  Originally posted by wonderamazement:

  Ok so i'd like to ask you girls...
  
  Am i being too posessive if...
  
  I asked her not to spend so much time with her friends (beng types)
  Just asking bout where she is ONCE
  I get jealous when she flirts with other guys
  

  very normal.
  its ur right as a bf.
• BrUtUs

  8 Jul 07, 02:15

  Originally posted by wonderamazement:

  Ok so i'd like to ask you girls...
  
  Am i being too posessive if...
  
  I asked her not to spend so much time with her friends (beng types)
  Just asking bout where she is ONCE
  I get jealous when she flirts with other guys
  

  how u n her get together in the 1st place?
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  8 Jul 07, 02:18

  i wanna know too
• Omniknight

  8 Jul 07, 02:32

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  i noe!!
  1. not letting u going out even with ur own blood sister!!
  2. to delete all guys contact on hp.
  3. no msn, frenster & email, sever ties with internet!!
  4. off days to stay until he knocks off n meet him ONLY.
  5. no meeting with gfs.
  6. waiting for u at ur workplace.
  7. to call him every one hr.
  8. min. contact with male colleagues.
  9. to reciprocate his care n concern doubly.

  WHY WASNT I TOLD ANY OF THIS.
  
  But then the trauma you gave me when I was still mindless and confused, and the refusal to let me know anything while I was mindless and confused is enough reason for me to destroy the rest of your life.
  
  Defy me some more la.
• pompy

  8 Jul 07, 02:34

  always calling and messaging now and then.
• Cool-gal

  8 Jul 07, 02:52

  Originally posted by Omniknight:

  WHY WASNT I TOLD ANY OF THIS.
  
  But then the trauma you gave me when I was still mindless and confused, and the refusal to let me know anything while I was mindless and confused is enough reason for me to destroy the rest of your life.
  
  Defy me some more la.

  diam la.
  mai kao peh!!
  eric.
• Omniknight

  8 Jul 07, 02:52

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  diam la.
  mai kao peh!!
  eric.

  You just watch.
• Cool-gal

  8 Jul 07, 02:54

  Originally posted by Omniknight:

  You just watch.

  watching!
  
  _l_
• Omniknight

  8 Jul 07, 02:57

  Originally posted by Omniknight:

  WHY WASNT I TOLD ANY OF THIS.
  
  But then the trauma you gave me when I was still mindless and confused, and the refusal to let me know anything while I was mindless and confused is enough reason for me to destroy the rest of your life.
  
  Defy me some more la.

  And that is the ENTIRE reason why I am angry at you. Not that I want your love or whatever, so stop telling lies to people.
• Cool-gal

  8 Jul 07, 02:59

  
  okok, u win..
  
• Omniknight

  8 Jul 07, 03:00

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  
  okok, u win..
  

  Now you better wise up and unblock me on msn and start telling me everything that was going on.
  
  Now or never.
• Cool-gal

  8 Jul 07, 07:45

  Originally posted by Omniknight:

  Now you better wise up and unblock me on msn and start telling me everything that was going on.
  
  Now or never.

  wad???
  do i noe u first??
  siao.......
  
• parn

  8 Jul 07, 08:22

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  i noe!!
  1. not letting u going out even with ur own blood sister!!
  2. to delete all guys contact on hp.
  3. no msn, frenster & email, sever ties with internet!!
  4. off days to stay until he knocks off n meet him ONLY.
  5. no meeting with gfs.
  6. waiting for u at ur workplace.
  7. to call him every one hr.
  8. min. contact with male colleagues.
  9. to reciprocate his care n concern doubly.

  Isn't that called Kidnapping? Call the police please...
• RaTtY8l

  8 Jul 07, 08:27

  from a guys point of view, from my own mistakes
  
  everyday wanna know who she went n who she went out with.
  everyday wanna see her, accompany her.
  forget all abt frens n expect her the same...
  
  i think tats abt all...
• RaTtY8l

  8 Jul 07, 08:28

  Originally posted by parn:

  Isn't that called Kidnapping? Call the police please...

  haha tats called isolation...
  isolation....