Meeting Your Ex
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Let's put it in a way that timing wasn't right. We cannot control Fate but we can control the life that we want it to be.Originally posted by de_middle:my fren also told me after going through 7 other R/S that the 1st one was still the best, just that he wasn't as settled as he is now. so had he met the 1st girl now, it would have lasted
Sometimes you wished you can manipulate the order
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I din watch Harry Potter, so I dunno who is Cho Chang and Ginny.Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:Make that "I have had"..
Look on the bright side...
If you were Harry Potter, she is Cho Chang...
And you'll get your Ginny Weasley soon...
CAn give better egs?? -
Seems like I am directing the whole love movie myself and hoping that it becomes a BLOCKBUSTER like Titanic (The Greatest Love Movie of All Time).Originally posted by Yunhaier:
It's probably only the greatest relationship to you... exclusively.
I hate to shatter this idealism, but as you are here ranting about your stagnation and even reminiscing about the golden age of your love life, seriously on the other side of Singapore, your ex would be out there making merry, loving the man she chose and moving on in life gratefully without your presence.
It's really interesting to note when people can related so much feelings about their ex-love, when in fact, these people don't really give a damn anymore. It's like acting and directing your own epic movie, where you are the only audience in the theatre, laughing and weeping at your own script.
Cheers
I have to agree to u. She is moving on with life whereas for me, I am still stuck here ever since the breakup. Its been ages and I can't let go. Sigh. -
Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Seems like I am directing the whole love movie myself and hoping that it becomes a BLOCKBUSTER like Titanic (The Greatest Love Movie of All Time).
I have to agree to u. She is moving on with life whereas for me, I am still stuck here ever since the breakup. Its been ages and I can't let go. Sigh. Therefore, it's your adamant decision to remain at point one that is causing your misery.
Meeting your ex or not doesn't make a difference - your suffering doesn't derive from there.
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I think I know how you feel.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Till now, I never say I blame her or hate her. I just give her my blessing.
Though I may not be the one who will take care of her for the rest of her life, I still want someone who is better than me to take care of her. If she is reading this thread, I just want to let her know that I do not wish her to be bullied.
I hope she make the right choice when it comes to marriage.
Although she's not with you anymore, you still want to protect her, because you have feelings for her..
This is going to hurt, but she does not need you anymore (at least for now, well maybe she may come back next time, but u would have moved on).
And for a girl who doesn't need you anymore, and may despise you for ur clingy-ness, there's only one thing to do : move on...
It's easy to move on...
for the first few weeks, it sucks.
then suddenly, it becomes slightly better
it helps to go out to meet as many girls as possible..
suddenly, things become much better
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Yes, u need to stop the self-pity.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Seems like I am directing the whole love movie myself and hoping that it becomes a BLOCKBUSTER like Titanic (The Greatest Love Movie of All Time).
I have to agree to u. She is moving on with life whereas for me, I am still stuck here ever since the breakup. Its been ages and I can't let go. Sigh.
And yes, time heals..
While there exists a girl who doesn't think you are worth her time despite ur sincere efforts, there will exist another girl who admires you very much...
Life's full of surprises.
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Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:Make that "I have had"..
Look on the bright side...
If you were Harry Potter, she is Cho Chang...
And you'll get your Ginny Weasley soon...
Harry and Ginny?!
shoot!! how many books have i missed?! -
Smudgey, where have you been?Originally posted by smudgey:
Harry and Ginny?!
shoot!! how many books have i missed?!
Did you transfigure into some squirrel and have been hibernating for the past year?
Just kidding, you've missed the Half-Blood Prince then.. fyi, Ron and Hermonie became a couple in that book too.. -
since ur able to say this, u ought to move on. don't miss outOriginally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Let's put it in a way that timing wasn't right. We cannot control Fate but we can control the life that we want it to be. -
ARG!!!!Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:Smudgey, where have you been?
Did you transfigure into some squirrel and have been hibernating for the past year?
Just kidding, you've missed the Half-Blood Prince then.. fyi, Ron and Hermonie became a couple in that book too..
i can't remember which book i read le!!! Ron and Hermonie?! -
Whats so great about a relationship when it ends when the girl cheats behind the bf?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Till now, I never say I blame her or hate her. I just give her my blessing.
Though I may not be the one who will take care of her for the rest of her life, I still want someone who is better than me to take care of her. If she is reading this thread, I just want to let her know that I do not wish her to be bullied.
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u meet her at the meeting,she is alone,you greet her and she chats up with you,Originally posted by zeny:3) u meet her at the meeting, she is alone, you greet her and she chats up with you, case close.
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you can do it, it may be hard but at least you have made the first step in moving on.
bring her back to a cheap cheap hotel hav sex ,case close and u're damm hapy!!
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I remember the goodness of her lor.Originally posted by zeny:Whats so great about a relationship when it ends when the girl cheats behind the bf? -
aiyo no need to be so crude right?Originally posted by wave24:u meet her at the meeting,she is alone,you greet her and she chats up with you,
bring her back to a cheap cheap hotel hav sex ,case close and u're damm hapy!! -
Gee...u're too nice. Girls will walk all over u. These days, since women demand equal status, many are not really ready to wear the pants in a r-ship, so make sure when u tell them to sit, they sit.lolOriginally posted by The_Legend_Killer:aiyo no need to be so crude right?