Little problem with girls.
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Hey people here.
Some of the forumites might know, i am a student in RP, and RP's system is like erm.. 5 in a team, and work within the team to solve the days problem.
It really needs the team to work together or else the work load can get pretty heavy sometimes, and its especially true when i need to do short films etc...
So, for some reason, my facilitator placed me in a team, with 4 girls. I dont know any of them, so i was pretty reserved from the start. The girls knows each other quite well before I joined them.
The thing is, i dont know if I am accepted as part of the team anot. It almost seems like, i am not part of the team, but sometimes it feels like i am. Dont know if i should feel comfortable with the team anot, and its tough to work with them if we're not.
The girls, they are those noisy bunch, and can laugh at the slightest thing. Of course, they also love to gossip etc...
Like at the start, didnt interact much, coz still new. Then once, i went to class then they start to keep on calling me "writer!" and then laugh and laugh. Then realised that they read some of the poems which i write and posted on a blog coz i like to write.
Then today they saw an underwear on the floor, then they come class keep on saying i look like smell underwear one and keep laughing. Alot of those weird weird things. WHich made me uncomfortable. Today still challenge me see who burp loudest.
The thing is, when they gossip about other things, they will get me into the conversation with them ask me talk bla bla. Lunch time also will ask me go down together, say ask me dun "anti-social". MSN will sometimes add everybody and chat, but its usually they chat.
I want to feel comfortable with the team but quite tough. It feels as though i am the topic of their "jokes", but at the same time, they want me join in their activities.
What do i do? A group of girls together is just damn weird. -
if you can't beat them, join them.
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It might be just me but, when they keep on giggling, you can help but think of, "is it me?". Coz really uncomfortable and they seems to be able to laugh at everything about u.!
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Girlpower YEAH!
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u find ur answer by rephrasing ur subject
its not little problem with girls
its problem with little girls
young girls like to giggle lar. its normal
better they giggle at you
then ignore u. -
It's just you lah.Originally posted by ChingAlvin:It might be just me but, when they keep on giggling, you can help but think of, "is it me?". Coz really uncomfortable and they seems to be able to laugh at everything about u.!
Girls really like to giggle and laugh at anything and everything. It's in their genes.
Take the opportunity to learn and interact with girls. There are lots of guys who want to be in your shoes. -
bro im from rp, teach u how get gpa 3.5 and above want? but very dirty tactics
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is it?? But i become the topic most of the time. Like, today wear cap to sch, keep on asking why wear cap and laugh.
Then they say a guy in the class speaks abit gay and not really gd looking, i only say he look quite handsome, then keep saying i got affection for him. Then now evolve become i also got gay face.
The underwear thing, they say if report police say is me they will believe and keep laughing.
How to join in when myself feels weird already. -
Eh... no need ba.. me last year average GPA is 3.95 le... through sheer hard work!!!Originally posted by sEphIrOth:bro im from rp, teach u how get gpa 3.5 and above want? but very dirty tactics -
Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people. -
teach us pls....Originally posted by sEphIrOth:bro im from rp, teach u how get gpa 3.5 and above want? but very dirty tactics -
be more sociable, who knows if one of them will become your.....
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u mean its just ME
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ok la 3.95 is good.anyway....teach is not about the grades only, also got social.
everytime class sure got 1 lazy kid, 1 action kid and 1 backstabber. most classes sure have one....
but if u dont bother about them, then they dont bother about u. actually, they make fun of u means ur accepted. i also get joked, i also make fun of ppl. since u get joked about, make fun of them too. shows they are interested too
anyway i hated my class, but slowly integrated and it was THE BEST CLASS I HAD -
its like, so bad that, my facilitator said to me in class. "Oh my alvin, what had they done to u?"
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rp is a relaxed sch. muz have fun one. no fun also no work to do. juz play along and it will do fine, or mayb they wanna know u better.Originally posted by ChingAlvin:its like, so bad that, my facilitator said to me in class. "Oh my alvin, what had they done to u?"
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All girls are the same...
Too bad in this case you are the odd one out...
But isn't it good to be with all girls nia?
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at least they're showing interest rather than dao-ing you. oh well
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i duno abt ur case..
but so far in all my proj groups..
we (girls) will appreciate it when we have a male in our team.. -
U all will keep on suaning the guy??????Originally posted by browniebaobao:i duno abt ur case..
but so far in all my proj groups..
we (girls) will appreciate it when we have a male in our team.. -
just treat them as your usual normal friends and you will click with them soon. If they were all guys, and initially if u don't know them, they will also behave the same way towards u.
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no leh..Originally posted by ChingAlvin:U all will keep on suaning the guy??????
usually the guy will be nice to us..
e.g. if we need a laptop, the guy will bring his, no matter how heavy. -
You shen zai fu zhong bu zhi fu!
Well girls are like that, just get used to it lor. -
I ALSO NOT BAD LEH!!! i 1 person help 4 person tabao lunch back to class all thatOriginally posted by browniebaobao:no leh..
usually the guy will be nice to us..
e.g. if we need a laptop, the guy will bring his, no matter how heavy. -
too digress... so how can i make the situation better?