Little problem with girls.
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use the chance to get close to them~!
eg, laugh at u 4 using hat, ( u strike post) or juz anythinf...
crack jokes,....
who noes.... maybe u might get a gf or sth... -
haha... I will probably go crazy ... If I m in yr position too ><
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quoted from who?..Originally posted by DC+:Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people. -
usually my boi:gal ratio is 3:2 or 2:3.. never got 1:4 before..
you lucky leh.
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i think STA classes ratio boys to girls is like 1:5Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:usually my boi:gal ratio is 3:2 or 2:3.. never got 1:4 before..
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STRIKE POSE. the class throw rocks at me i thinkOriginally posted by yiha093:use the chance to get close to them~!
eg, laugh at u 4 using hat, ( u strike post) or juz anythinf...
crack jokes,....
who noes.... maybe u might get a gf or sth... -
Originally posted by ChingAlvin:i think STA classes ratio boys to girls is like 1:5
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don think too much,jus make sure that when doing project work,make sure all chip in to corporate.
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shl is like 5boys 3 girls
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Next time when I see 1:4 ar, then I know is you liao.
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"Buy some tidbits for us please"
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i also in your plight before. but minus the asking me out to join them for meals.
quite pissed off at start, cause they can spend 3 hours in library gossiping and stuff and not doing anything productive. then at the last hour i pissed off, i did everything myself and left.
girls are like this, and in the group there were 21 yo girls. still so childish. accept the fact. just dont repeat my mistake of acting 1 man hero. -
you year 1 ar ? but year 1 need to do short fims meh ?Originally posted by ChingAlvin:Hey people here.
Some of the forumites might know, i am a student in RP, and RP's system is like erm.. 5 in a team, and work within the team to solve the days problem.
It really needs the team to work together or else the work load can get pretty heavy sometimes, and its especially true when i need to do short films etc...
So, for some reason, my facilitator placed me in a team, with 4 girls. I dont know any of them, so i was pretty reserved from the start. The girls knows each other quite well before I joined them.
I want to feel comfortable with the team but quite tough. It feels as though i am the topic of their "jokes", but at the same time, they want me join in their activities.
What do i do? A group of girls together is just damn weird.
but again if u are year 2, u should have experience this b4, don't get all uncomfortable with their jokes. u are a guy, so just laugh along with them and 4get about it even if it means lauging at yourself.
this is very common in rp.
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I never had a grp wif all gals and 1 guy =( i wish i did! LOL.
if i were u..i sure suan them till they nothing to say then they wont dare to say me.dan slowly can get to know them better liao.this way easier to work..suan in a sense of joking way.not too serious to intimidate their womenly rights or anything like tat -
eh dont show my ID LEH
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does TS have interest in any of them or are any of them pretty? otherwise, poor TS.
as bbb said, he going to get abused and bullied -
no interest no interest... i suppose u wont get interested when u are "turned off" eh
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just ask them to act normally...coz they are making a fool out of themselves...
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TS, don't bother about these girls. They just wanna have fun. Why don't you start by telling 4 of them that they're very intruiging. When they ask why, just smile and say "Of all the people I've come across, only you 4 find me so funny. I wonder why"
They should get the hint, unless they're very nasty, very dense, or both.
It's a very famous quote by Eleanor Roosevelt. Google it.Originally posted by kengkia:quoted from who?.. -
wah liew, i think the girls interested in you leh.Originally posted by ChingAlvin:Hey people here.
Some of the forumites might know, i am a student in RP, and RP's system is like erm.. 5 in a team, and work within the team to solve the days problem.
It really needs the team to work together or else the work load can get pretty heavy sometimes, and its especially true when i need to do short films etc...
So, for some reason, my facilitator placed me in a team, with 4 girls. I dont know any of them, so i was pretty reserved from the start. The girls knows each other quite well before I joined them.
The thing is, i dont know if I am accepted as part of the team anot. It almost seems like, i am not part of the team, but sometimes it feels like i am. Dont know if i should feel comfortable with the team anot, and its tough to work with them if we're not.
The girls, they are those noisy bunch, and can laugh at the slightest thing. Of course, they also love to gossip etc...
Like at the start, didnt interact much, coz still new. Then once, i went to class then they start to keep on calling me "writer!" and then laugh and laugh. Then realised that they read some of the poems which i write and posted on a blog coz i like to write.
Then today they saw an underwear on the floor, then they come class keep on saying i look like smell underwear one and keep laughing. Alot of those weird weird things. WHich made me uncomfortable. Today still challenge me see who burp loudest.
The thing is, when they gossip about other things, they will get me into the conversation with them ask me talk bla bla. Lunch time also will ask me go down together, say ask me dun "anti-social". MSN will sometimes add everybody and chat, but its usually they chat.
I want to feel comfortable with the team but quite tough. It feels as though i am the topic of their "jokes", but at the same time, they want me join in their activities.
What do i do? A group of girls together is just damn weird. -
Look on the bright side, at least they didn't keep away from you.
Lighten up and enjoy your school life. So far, it seems pretty harmless. -
familiar leh...Originally posted by DC+:Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people. 
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of course...anything bad...the guy will kenna.Originally posted by browniebaobao:we (girls) will appreciate it when we have a male in our team.. -
TS,
Been there, done that!!
they are trying to loosen you up by teasing you...
just tease them back!
try to "gang up" with different "members" of the group to tease each other... but beware... don't go overboard with the teasing!!
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i have similar case as yours.. but wat happen is my case is they go and invite other ppl from different class and call them laugh at me too
(worse case than yours)