What am I to do?
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God will reply you like this. Yes, No, and Wait.Originally posted by what am I to do?:I'm in my mid-20's. I used to treat relationships lightly when i was younger. I know I was not responsible then but I could only blame it on my youth. But why now? Why when I am ready to settle down, I could not seems to find someone to share my life with? No matter how I try, I could not get into a relationship though I am very serious about it. Is it really fate playing a fool on me or what? I ask for nothing except a simple life with a family of my own.
Because of this I am very frustrated with life. Even more so when I see so many people enjoying life with their loved ones. Places to go during the weekends. Holidays and countries to visit. Why or what have I done that I cannot be like them? Why can't I simply meet someone?
Why are girls just entertaining me just because I am friendly to them? Everyone says I'm a great guy but I'm still alone? I'm responsible, trustworthy. I don't smoke nor visit pubs nor club. Why did the one I finally choose to love only treat me as a good friend? What's wrong with girls these days? Or are they simply too young to be serious?
God!Why is it so hard? Feeling fucking frustrated yet there's nothing I can do. Please don't give advices like concentrate on career, or know more friends because all that is taken care of. I want to know why fate is so hard up on me? What the hell have I done to deserve this? I'm losing myself if this goes on.
I sent her a long email yet not even a reply. Always giving me hurting comments. ARGH!!!!!!!!! How I wish I can become a robot. Really no motivation to move on anymore.
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Yes it matter to girls who want to get marry.Originally posted by what am I to do?:does that really matter?
If not marry you for what?
No money to buy house, no money for wedding, no car to drive her around,
no money to bring her parents out for dinner, no money for her bd present.
money does matter.
Since it does not matter to you then why want to get married?
No money no shit.
Got money then talk. -
lol... nowadays girls are so materialistic one? lol really no money no honey.....Originally posted by zeny:Yes it matter to girls who want to get marry.
If not marry you for what?
No money to buy house, no money for wedding, no car to drive her around,
no money to bring her parents out for dinner, no money for her bd present.
money does matter.
Since it does not matter to you then why want to get married?
No money no shit.
Got money then talk. -
lets be fair to the girls.Originally posted by Uncertain:lol... nowadays girls are so materialistic one? lol really no money no honey.....
Imagine you are a girl and your expect your other half to be strong and take good care of things. Every month bills and bills will come in. Living with parents will allow you to share the bills but once you are married and you are on your own with your other half.
Materialistic? have you seen the bills lately? all increasing day by day, is not easy to handle if your husband cannot be strong and be there for her.
To TS my advice for you is not to get married cos you are not ready fpr it yet.
TO go around bindly asking for someone to marry you cos you are scared of being along, is not a very good reason for getting into a marriage. -
lol what u post here and what u post previously contradicts a little. Car is a luxurious item... not a must... bday gift depends... other than that are all deem necessary....Originally posted by zeny:lets be fair to the girls.
Imagine you are a girl and your expect your other half to be strong and take good care of things. Every month bills and bills will come in. Living with parents will allow you to share the bills but once you are married and you are on your own with your other half.
Materialistic? have you seen the bills lately? all increasing day by day, is not easy to handle if your husband cannot be strong and be there for her.
To TS my advice for you is not to get married cos you are not ready fpr it yet.
TO go around bindly asking for someone to marry you cos you are scared of being along, is not a very good reason for getting into a marriage. -
To you car is a lucurious item by is a view as a need by most girls.Originally posted by Uncertain:lol what u post here and what u post previously contradicts a little. Car is a luxurious item... not a must... bday gift depends... other than that are all deem necessary....
bday gifts is a must depends on the family of the girls side. -
Depends on which type you get...Originally posted by Uncertain:lol... nowadays girls are so materialistic one? lol really no money no honey.....
If your girl is the down to earth kind, then just need to provide the necessity (ie house to live in) and if she is working, she will contribute to the household expenses as well...
If you get those who always shop until they drop kind, then good luck to you if you do not earn enuff...
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Because u treated relationship too lightly in the past.
So pls swallow the fact that no one is going to treat u anything serious than a toy.
and i dun wish to comments on gals,they are already disgusting enough -
This kind of girl is reaching extinction.... not that easy to find... it is like the guy has strike a one million lottery if the girl is ever found...Originally posted by rainee:Depends on which type you get...
If your girl is the down to earth kind, then just need to provide the necessity (ie house to live in) and if she is working, she will contribute to the household expenses as well...If you get those who always shop until they drop kind, then good luck to you if you do not earn enuff...
lol... this boils back to no $$$ no honey.... -
The cheapest car one can get is around 10k i think without considering the COE, road tax and everything... Since u say most girls treat this as a need, isn't it be no $$ no honey???? 10k is not affordable by some folk dude...Originally posted by zeny:To you car is a lucurious item by is a view as a need by most girls. -
this type, even if you have the money....u have to be stupid as wellOriginally posted by rainee:Depends on which type you get...
If your girl is the down to earth kind, then just need to provide the necessity (ie house to live in) and if she is working, she will contribute to the household expenses as well...
If you get those who always shop until they drop kind, then good luck to you if you do not earn enuff...