missing my ex

• digibell

  23 Sep 02, 13:46

  I am married but my ex has appeared and I realise that I still love him. I miss him very much. what do I do now?
• www

  23 Sep 02, 14:27

  go to your ex.
• digibell

  23 Sep 02, 14:49

  I wish I could but my husband is really good to me and I feel so lousy. I really dun wish to break his heart but I am feeling so miserable...
  
  
• Xiao Long Nu

  23 Sep 02, 14:56

  u bo liao ah u............go and tink who u rely like lar.................dn hurt innocent ppl..
• xavier1979

  23 Sep 02, 14:57

  Got kids?
• Cristalle

  23 Sep 02, 15:38

  u so fickle want to get married n still love yr ex. u only hurt both innocent ppl. later u only invite trouble. BO LIAO!
• Xiao Long Nu

  23 Sep 02, 15:39

  Originally posted by Cristalle:

  u so fickle want to get married n still love yr ex. u only hurt both innocent ppl. later u only invite trouble. BO LIAO!

  yeah 5
• www

  23 Sep 02, 15:50

  i still suggest you go to your ex.
  
  ironically, some people can only learn their lesson and understand family value once they lose it. and I greatly believe you are one of them, otherwise you wont be posting such thread.
  
  your heart has strayed, and it has overwritten the rationality of why you got married in the first place.
  
  by all means, choose the path of lust, if not, unrealistic romance and see if that supersedes or even excels the comfortable marraige provided by your loving husband.
• digibell

  23 Sep 02, 17:25

  I always thot that I shd marry the one I am in love with. I broke up with my ex due to a misunderstanding and we lost touch tho I never stopped thinking abt him. My hubby makes me happy but not the way my ex does.
  
  I was contented until I met my ex again unexpectedly. Now I cannot stop thinking abt him.
  
  Do you pple really think I am being bo liao?
• CaReLING

  23 Sep 02, 17:43

  your ex got look for u and tell you that he love u???
  do you ex know that you are married and what is his reaction??
• Parka

  23 Sep 02, 18:07

  Love is a strange thing.
  Is it worth it to go back to him? What about your husband? Is it selfish? Or is it what?
• Solitude

  23 Sep 02, 18:34

  Feelings come and go.
  just like a lost dog searching for its bone.
  when your feelings are back
  you better watch your step.
  Coz end of the day,that person will not give a hack.
• Givache

  23 Sep 02, 19:08

  Originally posted by digibell:

  I am married but my ex has appeared and I realise that I still love him. I miss him very much. what do I do now?

  u should try to forget him and improve ur married life....
  if not there wil be no good outcome..-_-
  
  Givache
• AngelDark

  23 Sep 02, 19:42

  know your priorities
• RuthBaby

  24 Sep 02, 11:44

  seriously... if im the one.. i will break down.. and hide myself.. like a hermit..
  
• Devil1976

  24 Sep 02, 13:26

  Originally posted by digibell:

  I always thot that I shd marry the one I am in love with. I broke up with my ex due to a misunderstanding and we lost touch tho I never stopped thinking abt him. My hubby makes me happy but not the way my ex does.
  
  I was contented until I met my ex again unexpectedly. Now I cannot stop thinking abt him.
  
  Do you pple really think I am being bo liao?

  It's highly unlikely that one person can make another person happy exactly the SAME WAY another person does it....
  
  You most probably can't have the BEST of both world... ESPECIALLY now that you're married... If you think your marriage means so little to you or he means SO MUCH... Just get yourself...? SO SIMPLE.... Simply JEOPARDISE your marriage and your hubby.... RISK the CHANCE of having BOTH.... Or NONE.... For the PRICE of ONE....? THE PRECIOUS ONE....
  
  OR settle for.... Just a friend... Someone who can care for you... Yet not jeopardise your life and marriage.... YOUR LIFE.... YOU CHOOSE....?
• D3athwish

  24 Sep 02, 13:55

  Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:

  u bo liao ah u............go and tink who u rely like lar.................dn hurt innocent ppl..

  For a moment I thought you are going to advise her on divorce proceedings
• xavier1979

  24 Sep 02, 13:57

  Originally posted by RuthBaby:

  seriously... if im the one.. i will break down.. and hide myself.. like a hermit..
  

  Why???
• xavier1979

  24 Sep 02, 13:58

  Originally posted by D3athwish:

  For a moment I thought you are going to advise her on divorce proceedings

  Trust me, ah ma is real good at divorce proceedings.
  
  But then again, divorce is not an option out. Never.
• bloom

  24 Sep 02, 14:36

  i pity ur husband...and yah...i think u knida bo liao.
  
  What ur ex does to make u happy was all in the past. If u do go back to ur ex now, do u think he will treat u better than ur husband?
  
  Will u be happy if u go back to ur ex? Will ur ex be happy to be with ur again? And most imptly, will ur husband be happy without u?
  
  Perhaps meeting ur ex again just brought back some feelings of the past. But are they true? Can that feeling for ex last?
  
  How abt thinking tis way....perhaps u and ur ex werent meant to be in the first place otherwise u wouldnt have broke up over a misunderstanding.
  good luck~
• RuthBaby

  24 Sep 02, 16:32

  the hurtz is too deep
• aHGer^83

  24 Sep 02, 17:01

  i seggest...stay in contact wif ur ex...u r married....improve ur married life...and treat ur ex as a very good fren whom u can confide in when u have probs...
• duotiga83

  24 Sep 02, 20:53

  wat is past is a past...u hav to continue ur life
• raingal

  25 Sep 02, 23:14

  Originally posted by aHGer^83:

  and treat ur ex as a very good fren whom u can confide in when u have probs

  Unless feelings are not involved here else it can be a torture.
• BliX

  25 Sep 02, 23:22

  Originally posted by digibell:

  I am married but my ex has appeared and I realise that I still love him. I miss him very much. what do I do now?

  You say that you still miss him....but does he feel the same towards you????
  
  And i believe that commitment is an element of every relationship?