Originally posted by digibell:
Thanks for your kind words. I have made up my mind to stay with my husband. But recently he has noticed that I am not as happy as before. I have come to realise I can live with him but I cannot live without my ex.
In any case, I will try to keep the marriage going.
good for u, i always tell myself if life was easy, it'd be boring.
if i may suggest, it may be a good idea to stop contacting ur ex. he can still be in ur heart but not in ur life. i think that would a suitable way to really try and develop your relationship with your husband. it may be hard to just kick ur ex out of ur life but in certain circumstances like these, it may be the wisest thing u can do. hanging on to his frenship or watever u may wanna call it will do NO ONE any good. he's gonna want more but not able to get any, u're forever gonna be "3-heart, 2-feelings" and ur husband will be unfairlly treated.
take care! keep us posted!