heartless guy
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been dating this guy for a few months.however,when i turned down his request for intimacy, he didnt want to talk to me anymore.I thought he sincerely liked me all these months but now he is ignoring me.......
why? even if he is in for intimacy in a r/s ..doesnt have any feelings for me?
i mean even if you dont love a person, you still have fond memories of the person and want to keep in touch..
why is he so heartless?cut off with me after i refused to be intimate with him.
doesnt have feelings for people ?or is it im too duo qin....and devoted..when he just took me for a ride.
i cant believe a human being can be so callous....for me, even if i have a normal friend from the opposite sex, i still keep in touch,afterall,he has bee my friends for so long and i still care and think of him from time to time...
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he's doing you a favour my dear ... at least now you know his true colours eh ? .... -
this is not once..but twice...the guy i dated previously is also like that
i must be a unlovable person..thats why i cant make people develop feelings for me
i mean if u see a person for few times, after that, you will also miss the person even if you dont love the person...but he doesnt seem to miss me or care a damn abt me! -
kelian *pats TS on the head*
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It means they don't love you truly.Originally posted by bearie000:this is not once..but twice...the guy i dated previously is also like that
i must be a unlovable person..thats why i cant make people develop feelings for me
i mean if u see a person for few times, after that, you will also miss the person even if you dont love the person...but he doesnt seem to miss me or care a damn abt me!
I feel that in a r/s, there can be no intimacy like sex. But holding hands etc still can lah..
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care to elaborate the level of intimacy he requested?Originally posted by bearie000:this is not once..but twice...the guy i dated previously is also like that
i must be a unlovable person..thats why i cant make people develop feelings for me
i mean if u see a person for few times, after that, you will also miss the person even if you dont love the person...but he doesnt seem to miss me or care a damn abt me! -
The fact that he is ignoring you shows his true colours.Originally posted by bearie000:been dating this guy for a few months.however,when i turned down his request for intimacy, he didnt want to talk to me anymore.I thought he sincerely liked me all these months but now he is ignoring me.......
why? even if he is in for intimacy in a r/s ..doesnt have any feelings for me?
i mean even if you dont love a person, you still have fond memories of the person and want to keep in touch..
why is he so heartless?cut off with me after i refused to be intimate with him. doesnt have feelings for people ?or is it im too duo qin....and devoted..when he just took me for a ride.
i cant believe a human being can be so callous....for me, even if i have a normal friend from the opposite sex, i still keep in touch,afterall,he has bee my friends for so long and i still care and think of him from time to time...
Some guys are like that, but not all.
He feels rejected outright, and that is his problem. It's NOT your weakness.
Guys usually get upset when their gf rejects physical intimacy, but the sincere ones stick around because they like the girl enough.
It's obvious he doesn't like you enough to stick around as a friend.
In that case, "dump" him mentally from your mind and move on...
You have just picked two identical rotten apples from the basket of guys.
Maybe it's time to look at other baskets from other stalls? -
he is only interested to have your body.
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What kind of intimacy is he asking for?Originally posted by bearie000:been dating this guy for a few months.however,when i turned down his request for intimacy, he didnt want to talk to me anymore.I thought he sincerely liked me all these months but now he is ignoring me.......
why? even if he is in for intimacy in a r/s ..doesnt have any feelings for me?
i mean even if you dont love a person, you still have fond memories of the person and want to keep in touch..
why is he so heartless?cut off with me after i refused to be intimate with him. doesnt have feelings for people ?or is it im too duo qin....and devoted..when he just took me for a ride.
i cant believe a human being can be so callous....for me, even if i have a normal friend from the opposite sex, i still keep in touch,afterall,he has bee my friends for so long and i still care and think of him from time to time... 
Sex? Or just hugging, kissing? -
1) Does a guy who pay for sex have any feelings for the girl?Originally posted by bearie000:been dating this guy for a few months.however,when i turned down his request for intimacy, he didnt want to talk to me anymore.I thought he sincerely liked me all these months but now he is ignoring me.......
why? even if he is in for intimacy in a r/s ..doesnt have any feelings for me?
i mean even if you dont love a person, you still have fond memories of the person and want to keep in touch..
why is he so heartless?cut off with me after i refused to be intimate with him. doesnt have feelings for people ?or is it im too duo qin....and devoted..when he just took me for a ride.
i cant believe a human being can be so callous....for me, even if i have a normal friend from the opposite sex, i still keep in touch,afterall,he has bee my friends for so long and i still care and think of him from time to time...
2) yes he took you for a ride, he wanted sex but you refused so off he go. Thats life. No point saying it otherwise.
3) What more do you expect from a guy like him? -
Don't be to be sad with this kinda guy...just carry on with ur lifeOriginally posted by bearie000:been dating this guy for a few months.however,when i turned down his request for intimacy, he didnt want to talk to me anymore.I thought he sincerely liked me all these months but now he is ignoring me.......
why? even if he is in for intimacy in a r/s ..doesnt have any feelings for me?
i mean even if you dont love a person, you still have fond memories of the person and want to keep in touch..
why is he so heartless?cut off with me after i refused to be intimate with him. doesnt have feelings for people ?or is it im too duo qin....and devoted..when he just took me for a ride.
i cant believe a human being can be so callous....for me, even if i have a normal friend from the opposite sex, i still keep in touch,afterall,he has bee my friends for so long and i still care and think of him from time to time... 
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Dear Bearie,
you do not exist on this earth to live up to someone's sexual expectations.
You will eventually find a guy who respects "your pace". I'm very sure of that.
Don't think too much about your friend too. Everything shall be a blessing in disguise. You will not see it now but in future.
Love is about mutual respect. And if he cannot respect "your pace", it's better if the relationship terminates now than be unhappy later.
Of course, he may find another girl who can be intimate with him fast, that's alright.
Do not blame yourself. -
then forget him lah.
i know it's painful la.. wo ye shi guo lai ren..
nan ren jiu shi zhe me jian.
he's with u bcos of lust nia.
be glad u got rid of a pest. -
just ignore him den
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dui le , nan ren jiu shi zhe mo jian. Thank goodness not all are like that. bearie hope you meet the right one. good luck!Originally posted by browniebaobao:then forget him lah.
i know it's painful la.. wo ye shi guo lai ren..
nan ren jiu shi zhe me jian.
he's with u bcos of lust nia.
be glad u got rid of a pest. -
Hey I'm not that kind of person ok...Originally posted by browniebaobao:nan ren jiu shi zhe me jian. -
You should be twice happy.. don't get me wrong... You are a very lucky girl. I mean you weren't taken advantage of. That's is more important isn't it? So if you had given in, will he still not dump you after having you imtimately ? So I say, move on, your true love is still out there waiting for you.. Keep to your principle and give to the one you love and who truely deserved it .. jia yu !!!Originally posted by bearie000:this is not once..but twice...the guy i dated previously is also like that
i must be a unlovable person..thats why i cant make people develop feelings for me
i mean if u see a person for few times, after that, you will also miss the person even if you dont love the person...but he doesnt seem to miss me or care a damn abt me!
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Why are you saying such an over generalized statement?Originally posted by browniebaobao:then forget him lah.
i know it's painful la.. wo ye shi guo lai ren..
nan ren jiu shi zhe me jian.
he's with u bcos of lust nia.
be glad u got rid of a pest. -
hello, read carefully! read my last statement.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Why are you both say such over generalized statement? 
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exactly....better to know now than after right ?Originally posted by Fatum:he's doing you a favour my dear ... at least now you know his true colours eh ? .... -
good riddance! better to endure the pain of leaving than something worse next time.
take heart! -
why do you want to cry over this type of guy?it is so obvious that he only needs you for sex and nothing else!throw him behind your back and find others....eventually,there will be a suitable one for you
Terence -
believe she will get over him in no time. bearie, there are so many trees in the forest, no worry. Take your time to choose, don't hurry, as you can't hurry love!
Good luck 
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Sorry, i edit le..Originally posted by zix1:hello, read carefully! read my last statement. -
i duno u v well leh.Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Hey I'm not that kind of person ok...