Should one think before commit in a relationship?

• xavier1979

  2 Oct 02, 09:15

  Originally posted by elaine`:

  I believe in a relationship, it always takes two to decide.

  You mean the guy hasn't told you he likes you yet?
• elaine`

  2 Oct 02, 09:57

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  i dun think there's a sure way to say it'd last longer, but i guess it's something that we all should think about nevertheless...
  
  i've been in VERY fulfilling and loving relns that started off without thinking and in great deal of uncertainty... so there's no sure thing.. but it's the "correct" thing to do i guess..
  
  too much of anything isn't good too mind u, think think think.. sometimes nike has got it right.. "just do it"

  I do agree with what you say but... I just can't simply "just do it"... for some reasons...
• elaine`

  2 Oct 02, 10:00

  Originally posted by xavier1979:

  You mean the guy hasn't told you he likes you yet?

  He told me already, just that we haven't really seriously sit down to have a heart-to-heart talk about it.
• Xiao Long Nu

  2 Oct 02, 10:01

  dn rush....let nature takes its course
• jOhO

  2 Oct 02, 10:03

  Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:

  dn rush....let nature takes its course

  yeah nature's course made dinosaurs extinct...
  sometimes u need to *nudge*nudge* it a bit....
  
  go and knit lar! ehehheeeeee
• jOhO

  2 Oct 02, 10:05

  Originally posted by elaine`:

  He told me already, just that we haven't really seriously sit down to have a heart-to-heart talk about it.

  then sit down and have one... at least u're willing to have one.. some gals just act blurr and see wat happens...
• Xiao Long Nu

  2 Oct 02, 10:06

  mus see which kinda guy u dealin wit...for me is a cold cold kind....haiz...
• elaine`

  2 Oct 02, 10:45

  Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:

  mus see which kinda guy u dealin wit...for me is a cold cold kind....haiz...

  He is definitely not the cold cold kind...
• jOhO

  2 Oct 02, 10:47

  Originally posted by elaine`:

  He is definitely not the cold cold kind...

  then go thrash it out... seriously a guy would feel better if u let him know that it's not that u dun like him.. but that u are unsure...
  
  also gives him a chance to convince u why he's good
• shandower

  2 Oct 02, 11:53

  Originally posted by elaine`:

  Would a relationship last longer if one think carefully before commiting him/herself in the relationship? Or should we follow our heart?

  Follow your emotions, but supplement them with logic.
• jOhO

  22 Oct 02, 06:36

  Originally posted by shandower:

  Follow your emotions, but supplement them with logic.

  that's gotta be one of the most illogical things i've read
  
  cannot lar.. heart vs brain is a never-ending war. just bloody choose one!
• Atobe

  22 Oct 02, 09:21

  
  Should I..?
  
  or should I not..?
  
  if not,...why not..?
  
  so should I...?
  
  or should I not...?
  
  why not...?
  
  oh shit... someone else have stepped in.... competition now..damn.
  
  
• JeweL81

  22 Oct 02, 19:02

  there are no rules to love. Love does not come in shapes or sizes , rules or regulations. Love is one thing that will only listen and react to the heart.
• scorpius

  22 Oct 02, 19:54

  think... personally i think it is yes...
  
  why??
  
  cause if you think it over (presumebly u think it correctly)... you would consider lots of factors lor.... like distance... academic qualifications.. etc etc...
  
  but then.. when u r young like moi.. would u actually think LOL ...
  
  most likely not haha....
  
  so in conclusion... i think yes.. but girl also must think.. =)