I think i am crazy. Help~!~!

• Rephidim

  25 Jul 07, 21:10

  I understand what you're feeling.
  
  I feel that this isnt some phase to hold on until it passes or some temptation.
  
  I think this has the potential to ruin your marriage and destroy your family.
  
  If you dont do anything about it, it will only get worse. The worst thing to do is to do nothing.
  
  I advise you to seek the counsel of a qualified counsellor like those in the family centre or a church if you attend one.
  
  I've seen many families of friends ruined already because they let it lie dormant and one day they cant control themselves but to have a full affair, that led to their family knowing and suffering in so much agony. Some became divorces. Your kid wouldnt want to grow up living such a life, u know what i mean?
  
  Its an amazing thing that you realized that you're going down a path of no return. Lets repent and act before it get too late.
  
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  You can call one of these two nos, my recommendation.
  
  Its over the phone, so you can share with them and hear without any committment.
  
  I wish you all the best. Life is tough, but you can be tougher. Hang on there until help comes.
  
  
• zeny

  25 Jul 07, 21:48

  Originally posted by addicted.siao:
  Hi all,
  
  Just wanted to sound out something that have been hidden inside my heart for a period of time.
  
  1st of all i am a happily married man with a 19 months old son.
  
  i love my wife and son alot. Have been working really hard to provide them the best of all. Everything have been going well till 1 fine day i went to prositution.
  
  I turn out to be addicted and keep thinking about her. I know its [b]IMPOSSIBLE.
  But truth is that i am really addicted. Told my friends about it and they just thought i am joking. I really wanted to stop all this nonsene and be my old self.
  
  But how?
  
  I need serious advice on this.
  
  Thanks for your advice.
  addicted.siao[/b]

  I want to share a different kind of advice.
  
  Everyone make mistakes no one is truly good.
  
  Ask yourself why you are thinking of her ?
  Only you have the answer not us.
  
  I believe you when you say you are addicted to it.
  
  Sex can bring on the good feelings inside of you.
  It can cover the pain and suffering one feels.
  Is hard for others to understand but I know.
  To be a good guy and a good father and to be married for 8 years is very tough. I dare ask how many people have done it?
  
  To solve your problem you must ask yourself why her?
  Like a drug, you know is addictive but you still take it?
  Cos you know you can feel good about it.
  You ignore the long term effects cos you are willing to risk it all just to feel good.
  
  You go to her cos you feel good, if you feel bad will you do it?
  You are your own key to solving your own problems not others.
  Seat down and think about it.
• RonDaGuy

  25 Jul 07, 21:51

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• ichi87

  25 Jul 07, 22:49

  i think the best way.. is really.. go for an overseas trip wif ur family.
  
  in 1 way, it is to forget abt the lady/sex...
  another thing is that maybe u wan to compensate for ur family.. for this mistake...
  
  every humans make mistake.. its whether u learn ur mistake...
• love kitty

  25 Jul 07, 23:47

  why do u visit a pros in the first place? isn't ur wife good enuff!
  u noe how hard it is for ur wife u bear u a son!!!
  isn't tt good enuff!!!! guys........ haiz
• DC+

  25 Jul 07, 23:49

  You are addicted to the act of paying a prostitute and having sex with her.
  
  Perhaps you can have this fantasy with your wife as foreplay.
• zeny

  26 Jul 07, 00:22

  Originally posted by love kitty:

  why do u visit a pros in the first place? isn't ur wife good enuff!
  u noe how hard it is for ur wife u bear u a son!!!
  isn't tt good enuff!!!! guys........ haiz

  Good guys work hard and provide for family
  Endure so much at work for the sake of family and wife still left them cos they complain no time for them.
  isn't tt good enuff!!!! gals........ haiz
• gigabyte14

  26 Jul 07, 00:25

  Originally posted by zeny:

  Good guys work hard and provide for family
  Endure so much at work for the sake of family and wife still left them cos they complain no time for them.
  isn't tt good enuff!!!! gals........ haiz

  i agree
  
  girls tend to think about themselves only
• browniebaobao

  26 Jul 07, 00:50

  hui tou shi an.
  
  think of ur wife and baby..
  
  if u kena HIV+ one day, who's going to take care of them for the rest of their life?
• icyboiz

  26 Jul 07, 01:51

  just have sex with yr wife
• mancha

  26 Jul 07, 02:19

  I've been there before.
  You're not addicted.
  
  Its a hunger.
  And the prostitute fulfil that hunger.
  
  You want feel important.
  And the prostitute make you feel that.
  The prostitute accept you as you are.
  And you feel, ... on top of the world.
  
  Remember she is a prostitute.
  I don't advocate discrimination against such people.
  But be realistic, a relationship with her would be full of problems.
  And most likey will not work.
  So just stop.
  
  Same for bargirls, and social escorts.
  
  Your wife, she demands a lot from you, because you are her husband, she has expectations of you. Maybe you disappoint her, but you are the father of her child.
  She may belittle you, but remember she is the mother of your child.
  You are committed to your wife and your child.
  Go for contentment in life, with a good family life.
  Don't go for paradise, its a sure road to misery.
  
• latterrain

  26 Jul 07, 03:36

  I think you are not crazy, but faces the temptation that a normal guy will encounter. I can only say that u have to cut away all the contact with the woman and everything will be fine
• addicted.siao

  26 Jul 07, 11:34

  I just can't understand why in the 1st place i would go there and do that.
  
  And i just keep thinking about her.
  
  Could it be some sort of black magic or it's just me thinking too much?
  
  Thanks for all the advice bro/sis.
  
  I am really appericated.
  
  addicted.siao
• TerenceYYK

  26 Jul 07, 11:47

  that's the human nature called 'LUST',
  
  spend more time with your family and have sex more often with your wife....and please..... you are a family man already and should know what to do la....
• turbo_drift

  26 Jul 07, 11:48

  Originally posted by addicted.siao:

  I just can't understand why in the 1st place i would go there and do that.
  
  And i just keep thinking about her.
  
  Could it be some sort of black magic or it's just me thinking too much?
  
  Thanks for all the advice bro/sis.
  
  I am really appericated.
  
  addicted.siao

  It's not about black magic or something.. It's just bring your curiosity out of it and having sex with a prostitute.. I recommend you to go to see a doctor and test if you have any HIV/AIDS..
  
  Sad to say, most of the guys are letting their feelings/curiosity/wildness took control of them instead of them controlling their feelings/curiosity/wildness.. It's sad to see a guy with a 8 years of marriage to end up in the prostitutions.. I'm sure if your wife knows about this, *boom*, 8 years of marriage is gone..
  
  Think about it, why follow a guy whom likes to go there instead of being faithful to your own wife?
  
  Regards,
  turbo_drift
• dumbdumb!

  26 Jul 07, 12:04

  a lick leads to a bite, which leads to eating the whole pie.
  
  its best not to start.
  
  
• secret_boy

  26 Jul 07, 12:42

  let your wife be in charge of All your money and just have what you need To spend fir the day . than u got no extra money so Can't go any Where but home To your Wife and baby
• Ionlytalknoaction

  26 Jul 07, 13:17

  Originally posted by allentyb:

  cut off your penis
  
  problem solved
  
  

  
  
  LOL
  
  wahha The most funny advice ever.
• caleb_chiang

  26 Jul 07, 13:52

  Ask your wife to perform whatever techniques that made you so addicted...
  
  Without those tricks... you don't even want to go back... it is still the same... if you want to do it with diff people at all the time then you ask your wife to wear a mask...
  
  Seriously speaking, people like you don't deserve a family.
• FireIce

  26 Jul 07, 14:37

  yeah! it's black magic! sell ur honda!
• menoob

  26 Jul 07, 14:51

  its very normal to kio kway
  married man form most of the sammyboy members
  important thing is to know how to go home
• allentyb

  26 Jul 07, 14:56

  just remember to wipe your mouth after you have 'eaten' outside, i am sure, there are hundreds or thousand of men out there, who either keep a mistress or find a night hostess or a 'chicken'
  
  remember to wear condom all the time, i think you are hopeless,
  
  either you cut off your dick, or you stop completely, and ask your wife to be involve in roleplay, imagine, your wife as a....... think about it, how would you feel?
  
  i think you are fully aware of the consequences, and you are messing around with fire, so by all means, f u c k around, nobody will stop you as you are already an adult.
  
  and i am still sticking to my usual advice
  
  CUT OFF YOUR BLOODY DICK
• Dead_Man_Inc

  26 Jul 07, 15:35

  Ur friend needs to be whack hard, why bother to keep such a friend who knows that u are married, and brought u to the prositute?
  
  if i am ur son, and i know about this, i will have deep hatred for both of u
  
  don't visit this kind of thing anymore
• sun8

  26 Jul 07, 17:16

  just imagine another way rd ur wife is the one fooling outside, hving sex with gigolo and she so addicted to it.... how u feel ? if ur feeling is great then u can continue with ur hobby, if nt stop it....
  
• de_middle

  26 Jul 07, 17:43

  Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:

  Ur friend needs to be whack hard, why bother to keep such a friend who knows that u are married, and brought u to the prositute?
  
  if i am ur son, and i know about this, i will have deep hatred for both of u
  
  don't visit this kind of thing anymore

  cannot even be considered a friend anymore
  
  but then again, u cannot force a horse to drink if it doesn't want to...