I think i am crazy. Help~!~!
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true trueOriginally posted by de_middle:cannot even be considered a friend anymore
but then again, u cannot force a horse to drink if it doesn't want to...
just like that time i took a cig, wanna experience it. now quitting is hard already (this sentence is out of topic
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You addicted to a prostitute or you addicted to looking for prostitutes?
most people who look for prostitutes know that they cannot be serious with prostitutes.
Just weigh between the values of faithfulness and integrity (that represent marriage) vesus risk and unknown (that represent change of heart)
ultimately it is your choice. -
Hope u are just addicited to the act and not the gal.
Very hard to be rational at this point of time, or else u would not be in this forums.
You, like all fellow brothers, have neglected the needs of the most important person of your life - Yourself.
Considering now your wife is too tired to have any kinky fun and your zero social life due to over-work, it is normal for you to be addicted - just like a new toy to a baby.
You have already done yourself a great service to ask for help.
So, just find a replacement for the activities.
The best way is still to sweat it out through exercise.
Or else, apply one day leave and over-addict yourself.
Guarantee you will stop being a addict for the next day. -
Well... i will treat this as addiction.
It's good that you wanted to solve it.
It's already the first step to stop addiction.
Next you need to endure...
Resist the temptation...
well... you need to have a very strong mind now.
One word,
Endure -
Do not look for her for 21 days. then u'll automatically stop thinking abt her liaox. my teacher told me de. =X she said if we pay attention in class for 21 days, we wont have problem focusing after that le..cos it's become a habit..
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the more you want to resist an idea, the more frequent you will think of it..
don't resist, then the idea will die off.
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Go to church?
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lol fireice seems to know something...Originally posted by FireIce:din know u married........ -
TS must be a clone!Originally posted by dibilo:lol fireice seems to know something...
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Thats hilariousOriginally posted by allentyb:cut off your penis
problem solved
How about giving your entire fortune to me? or find ways to get yourself so broke that you cant afford it any more ... -
Chant for 7 7 49 times.
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Originally posted by addicted.siao:
Huh! Addict to a pros, I thought ppls addict to drug, alcohol or gambling kind of stuffs, aiyo! you cham liao! We gals use to heard about those pros black magic...maybe you kenna some of those magic...better go pray pray ya.
Hi all,
Just wanted to sound out something that have been hidden inside my heart for a period of time.
1st of all i am a happily married man with a 19 months old son.
i love my wife and son alot. Have been working really hard to provide them the best of all. Everything have been going well till 1 fine day i went to prositution.
I turn out to be addicted and keep thinking about her. I know its [b]IMPOSSIBLE.
But truth is that i am really addicted. Told my friends about it and they just thought i am joking. I really wanted to stop all this nonsene and be my old self.
But how?
I need serious advice on this.
Thanks for your advice.
addicted.siao[/b]
On the other hand, when you go for the pros and happily enjoying your moment, what is your wife doing at home? -
should be 7 7 49 daysOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Chant for 7 7 49 times. -
You keep thinking about her, because you know you can't have her.Originally posted by addicted.siao:I just can't understand why in the 1st place i would go there and do that.
And i just keep thinking about her.
Could it be some sort of black magic or it's just me thinking too much?
Thanks for all the advice bro/sis.
I am really appericated.
addicted.siao
(Jian nan ren syndrome)
Do you want to have a relationship with her ?
Will you be able to accept it that she will be sleeping with many different men every night ?
If your wife finds out you have a relationship with a prostitute, she will find you filthy forever, even touching you will be repulsive to her. Is this worth it ?
You will also need to go for blood test very often to check for STD/AIDS. Would you be able to face it ?
It can take up to 6 months to detect a HIV. Will you be in constant stress to find out the results of your tests ?
Was it because you slept with her, that's why you keep thinking about her ?
If she is not a prostitute, would you feel differently ?
A friend of mine, business man.
3 sons. Housewife...
I asked him if he ever get tempted by those pretty young girls.
He says " I have 3 beautiful son, a loving wife "
I asked him " Why not just keep a secret mistress, you can afford to get her a private condo and maintain her, so many of your business partner has them "
He says " Why would I want to give up all that I have for someone I hardly know?"
I asked " But isn't it true that men has a hard time controlling their urge ?"
His direct reply " Rubbish !!" -
You like the PERSON or the ACT carried out with her?
Maybe try doing other things to occupy yourself like what someone has said, exercising, etc (Something you like and it's HEALTHY for you)
This is the maximum i can give, good luck in the process of returning to your old self...
Jiayou jiayou -
Go find a super ugly one and do it one more time.
Then will not think of any prostitute liao -
After looking hard at yr post...
U got 2 key issues to look at...
1. U really work too hard - Try to find a way to relax. I believe yr so-called friend see that in you, that's why he is able to hoax u into going for such activities with him. When one over-work, stress can build up and when u can't find the relieves available in your own home, u nid another source to relieve that stress... there are other ways... try more healthy activities. There should be something that u like in the past and quite good at it... Seek alternatives FAST.... before is too late.
2. Remind yourself that u are happily married and keeping any other girl, or mistress whom simply u seem to like or love becos they provided a false sense of stress relieve... eventually, that relationship will need u to provide more monies and U end up working harder to earn more to satisfy no 1 but 2 families... Compare that to providing for just one family and having the extra to bring them for holiday with you to relieve the stress built up at work.
Be it sex or stress relieve, the girl will sooner or later ask u for more money and u end up spending more and more... in the end, u cant provide for her and your own family, and the beans will spills and u will lose not just yr false sense of new love in her, u also lose your beloved wife and son.
By then, regretting will be way too late. -
AIDS = Actually Its Dangerous & SuicidalOriginally posted by Lin Yu:think AIDS, STD, HIV, syphilis etc......
STD = Sure To Die
HIV = Hell In Vagina
syphilis - a new car model from ......?