Gf paying for her bf?
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I got a case here I would like to ask your options.
If a girl pays for her bf studies.
Do you think:
1) Her bf is so poor that he has no money to pay?
2) Her bf is cheating of her money?
3) The gf love her bf so much that she is willing to do it for him?
( Does this apply to handsome guys only ?)
( Have anyone seen a gal pay for a ugly guy in real life?)
4) The gf is investing in the bf so that when he completes his studies, he must marry her?
5) any other crazy ideas
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what happened actually?
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ya..pls tell more detail...if not we got no crazy ideas...wagaga...
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haha you guys hor.
Gf pays for bf to study.
bf force himself to go to school to please gf and becos gf pays.
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I think is number 1.
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1 lor
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i like that type of gf
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I seriously doubt a guy with intergrity will accept his gf money..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:I think is number 1.
Btw,I am quite against student going into r/s
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Strangly the guy did and he is able to pay for his school fees if he wants to.Originally posted by CannyOng:I seriously doubt a guy with intergrity will accept his gf money..
Btw,I am quite against student going into r/s -
1 or 2 or 3.
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for me, if i m willing to pay(loan) for my bf's fees,
1st. i will ensure that he is really unable to fork out that amt of money
2nd: i really love him that i m willing to do so & i must forsee that that r/s is a long term r/s (husband traits)
3rd: i expect him to pay me back(any guy with dignity should do so)
4th: for him to further his studies, is actually good for our future. -
1) yes... but seriously why will a guy allow tat? loan is ok but pay full is abit small white face...Originally posted by zeny:I got a case here I would like to ask your options.
If a girl pays for her bf studies.
Do you think:
1) Her bf is so poor that he has no money to pay?
2) Her bf is cheating of her money?
3) The gf love her bf so much that she is willing to do it for him?
( Does this apply to handsome guys only ?)
( Have anyone seen a gal pay for a ugly guy in real life?)
4) The gf is investing in the bf so that when he completes his studies, he must marry her?
5) any other crazy ideas
2) cannot see from here... u need to give full story....
3) tink is not abt looks... its jz tat she is blindly in love wif him....
4) erm most likely... which gal dun wan her bf to marry her?
5) not much... if u give full story then different case... -
I guess you are one of the many people who hold onto this kind of beliefs.Originally posted by CannyOng:I seriously doubt a guy with intergrity will accept his gf money..
Btw,I am quite against student going into r/s
Well.. Have you experience Love during your youth (age 14~17)? You may call that puppy love.
You only can experience your youth one time, and once it's gone, it's gone. -
eat 'soft rice' ar
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i think it's nice that she pays sometimes.
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I have a friend.
His dad sponsored his gf go overseas to study with him and to keep an eye on him.
After that, they got married and have a few kids. -
I don't go for blind love.. I also have my infatuation during my youth but I consider myself luckily that it did not materialise into r/s.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:I guess you are one of the many people who hold onto this kind of beliefs.
Well.. Have you experience Love during your youth (age 14~17)? You may call that puppy love.
You only can experience your youth one time, and once it's gone, it's gone.
I not totally against student love. But must see oneself abilities (finacially and maturity). If u know yrself has no finacial,are u going to force yrself in a r/s just becos youth is once and gone is gone? I know I am not mature that time and irresponsible. Why must I drag another person into misery if I decide not to commit? Just becos of youth is one time, gone is gone?
From what I have experience my time. I will say most of my peer during that time of youth has no finacially abitites in a r/s(including myself). They need to do part time job to sustain their r/s. Some even need to sign on during poly to maintain their r/s and school fees while sacrifacing their future for SAF.
Now I am married and I am satisfy with my family and my courtship with my wife during that very sweet period which happens I am already working adult and have income. We spend quality time and no finacial worry and constraint.
(one fine example,
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=270247 )
I never meant working adult don't have finacial problem but they will still in a better position to cope with it. -
diff case... but his dad rich...Originally posted by DC+:I have a friend.
His dad sponsored his gf go overseas to study with him and to keep an eye on him.
After that, they got married and have a few kids. -
Gf receives money from bf by proxyOriginally posted by BrUtUs:diff case... but his dad rich... -
Things will be perfectly normal is there is real love between them...
Well... this topic don't really belongs to AA. -
chi ruan fan de guys can go and die.
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the guy is eating "soft rice" or genuinely needs financialhelp from the gf?Originally posted by zeny:I got a case here I would like to ask your options.
If a girl pays for her bf studies.
Do you think:
1) Her bf is so poor that he has no money to pay?
2) Her bf is cheating of her money?
3) The gf love her bf so much that she is willing to do it for him?
( Does this apply to handsome guys only ?)
( Have anyone seen a gal pay for a ugly guy in real life?)
4) The gf is investing in the bf so that when he completes his studies, he must marry her?
5) any other crazy ideas -
The cute thing is that the guy is able to pay for himself if he wants to but took up the offer cos the gf is paying.Originally posted by qlqq9:the guy is eating "soft rice" or genuinely needs financialhelp from the gf?
The question is this, should the guy accept the gal help to improve himself or should he be paying for it?