Gf paying for her bf?
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those guys who accepts are bas3rds, period.Originally posted by zeny:The cute thing is that the guy is able to pay for himself if he wants to but took up the offer cos the gf is paying.
The question is this, should the guy accept the gal help to improve himself or should he be paying for it? -
if he can pay himself.. mean that he is eating soft rice or cheating his gf lor..
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What is the reason behind the girl ... to want to offer to pay ??Originally posted by zeny:The cute thing is that the guy is able to pay for himself if he wants to but took up the offer cos the gf is paying.
The question is this, should the guy accept the gal help to improve himself or should he be paying for it?
She has too much money ?
She thinks by paying she is buying his love ? -
Is this a real case?Originally posted by zeny:I got a case here I would like to ask your options.
If a girl pays for her bf studies.
Do you think:
1) Her bf is so poor that he has no money to pay?
2) Her bf is cheating of her money?
3) The gf love her bf so much that she is willing to do it for him?
( Does this apply to handsome guys only ?)
( Have anyone seen a gal pay for a ugly guy in real life?)
4) The gf is investing in the bf so that when he completes his studies, he must marry her?
5) any other crazy ideas
Well, you have to ask yourself if the girl will love the boy for a few years and beyond ? Or do they get tired of each other even before he completes his course?
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if the bf go to sch for the seek of pleasing the gf, i suggest that the gf stop paying for the sch fees, as the bf study against his will thus it's just a waste of money and effort on the gf's partOriginally posted by zeny:haha you guys hor.
Gf pays for bf to study.
bf force himself to go to school to please gf and becos gf pays.
simple? -
With no disrespect, what business is it of yours (or anyone else bar the two involved in the transaction) if this is an arrangement both parties have come to a mutual consent on? After all, this issue does not compromise or jeopardise the interests of anyone bar the two of them.Originally posted by zeny:The cute thing is that the guy is able to pay for himself if he wants to but took up the offer cos the gf is paying.
The question is this, should the guy accept the gal help to improve himself or should he be paying for it?
I mean, you don't even know the genuine reason behind their arrangements and are merely speculating the basis for such a deal. Even assuming the guy's just living off the girl but if such a consensus had been reached amicably, I don't see any issue between the two of them or how external influence would alter the status quo.
That said, if this is merely a source of gossip, I don't see any agony. -
Well, if the bf is really in love with his gf, both will be together. But the gf should tell his bf that she will help him pay his sch fees and he still needs to pay it back as an assurance. Base on your little info, think the bf only using gf to pay for his fees. After that, work, then got money and got new gf, find old gf not up to his standard and finally, bye bye to old gf. But every outcome still lies on the bf whether he has decided and make up his mind that he will marry gf for the things she has done for him.
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maybe if he reject offer, GF will be angry
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If a girl pays for her bf studies.
Do you think:
1) Her bf is so poor that he has no money to pay?
Most likely.
2) Her bf is cheating of her money?
Don't think so,coz if want to cheat,will cheat something else rather than study.
3) The gf love her bf so much that she is willing to do it for him?
Very likely.
( Does this apply to handsome guys only ?)
Depends
( Have anyone seen a gal pay for a ugly guy in real life?)
Yes and no.
4) The gf is investing in the bf so that when he completes his studies, he must marry her?
Must ask the girls for opinion. -
Depends oh how her bf's reacting to it. If he's grateful and is determined to make the best of the opportunity + repay her kindness, I'd see him as a rare example. But if he's ungrateful and/or thinks he completely deserves what he's getting, I'd see him as just another balI-ess, faceless male leech we could do without.
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I am curious to know how the girl gets the $$$, from her parents, by working decently or by selling her body
Previously, there is a case whereby one girl support her bf through university studies by selling her body. She treat this as an investment and hope that the bf will marry her in future... but no loh, a guy with so-called rightful of mind and with a university cert, will not want to marry a girl whom sells her body...
And i think the story ends up in a disaster
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lol...Originally posted by zeny:I got a case here I would like to ask your options.
4) The gf is investing in the bf so that when he completes his studies, he must marry her?