Girls got cheated?????
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Sometime I felt whether to pity them or to blame them?
Often when girls came here to whine that they got cheated... all the people started to side her and think the guy is a basket.... But there could be other case where its not really the guy who is at fault... I heard that there are some girls who are charged by court because they tried to report for rape on guys who dumped her...
When girls are dumped.... the whole world would console her... but when guys are dumped.... (Like man case we read from aunty agony... Who gives us a tissue?
If the girl willing to offer pre marital sex to the guy.. doesn't she be the one to accept the consequence if such thing happens? Its not like she is underage with no mature minds like that or raped... She consent willingly... Than starting to come online to destroy the person who dumped her?
Moral of the story? Don't fornicate? Don't be fooled by riches and handsome guys lor...
What is your say in this? -
Girls lose their virginity when they are cheated by playboys.
Guys don't lose anything if they get dumped by a girl. They just lose face & self confidence. -
Yea but its really phsychologically guys were shattered...Originally posted by norm:Girls lose their virginity when they are cheated by playboys.
Guys don't lose anything if they get dumped by a girl. They just lose face & self confidence.
An survey had found out that in Britain... Divorce Guys are harder to recover than Divorce Woman..
I'm not saying which is better but the fact that...
We should look at the issue fairly... who knows its really the girl being basket come here just to destroy the man... -
not all guys are as emotionally strong.
like me
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there are many emotional guys out there tooOriginally posted by norm:Girls lose their virginity when they are cheated by playboys.
Guys don't lose anything if they get dumped by a girl. They just lose face & self confidence.
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O_O... Dude. Guys also lose their virginity in the process lorOriginally posted by norm:Girls lose their virginity when they are cheated by playboys.
Guys don't lose anything if they get dumped by a girl. They just lose face & self confidence. -
i agree with this, mainly because it doesn't look good on girls when she actually sleeps with a guy who cheats her. lets face it, our society is still conservative. for guys, ppl will say that since he already sleep with the girl then at least he "zhuan4 dao4", or got some.Originally posted by norm:Girls lose their virginity when they are cheated by playboys.
Guys don't lose anything if they get dumped by a girl. They just lose face & self confidence. -
guys dont lose virginity?Originally posted by norm:Girls lose their virginity when they are cheated by playboys.
Guys don't lose anything if they get dumped by a girl. They just lose face & self confidence.
and self confidence is 1000x more important than virginity, in fact, who gives a shit about virginity these days? -
I have been trying to hammer this point all along.Originally posted by banzie:Sometime I felt whether to pity them or to blame them?
Often when girls came here to whine that they got cheated... all the people started to side her and think the guy is a basket.... But there could be other case where its not really the guy who is at fault... I heard that there are some girls who are charged by court because they tried to report for rape on guys who dumped her...
When girls are dumped.... the whole world would console her... but when guys are dumped.... (Like man case we read from aunty agony... Who gives us a tissue?
If the girl willing to offer pre marital sex to the guy.. doesn't she be the one to accept the consequence if such thing happens? Its not like she is underage with no mature minds like that or raped... She consent willingly... Than starting to come online to destroy the person who dumped her?
Moral of the story? Don't fornicate? Don't be fooled by riches and handsome guys lor...
What is your say in this?
Girls are not angels. They are not as soft as we make them out to be.
To be fair, not all are bad. But those who consent to sex on the first date with a guy they hardly know when in fact, they are really attracted to the guy and then to complain she was cheated? Hey, girls are also horny creatures as well.
No. Sad to say, it doesn't really put them in a good light, like what Focuspoint said in another thread. Such girls are not even worth considering a second look, unless they are for flings. Flings are strictly for flings only.
Bottomline is, they consented to sex and they only have themselves to answer for it. But don't whine they got emotionally cheated. Hopefully, their next boyfriend doesn't know about it or doesn't mind.
doko -
It is OK, banzie, next time if you are dumped, come to me and I will give you the tissue. I have lots of it, just tell me how many boxes or packs you need.Originally posted by banzie:Sometime I felt whether to pity them or to blame them?
Often when girls came here to whine that they got cheated... all the people started to side her and think the guy is a basket.... But there could be other case where its not really the guy who is at fault... I heard that there are some girls who are charged by court because they tried to report for rape on guys who dumped her...
When girls are dumped.... the whole world would console her... but when guys are dumped.... (Like man case we read from aunty agony... Who gives us a tissue?
If the girl willing to offer pre marital sex to the guy.. doesn't she be the one to accept the consequence if such thing happens? Its not like she is underage with no mature minds like that or raped... She consent willingly... Than starting to come online to destroy the person who dumped her?
Moral of the story? Don't fornicate? Don't be fooled by riches and handsome guys lor...
What is your say in this?
Hey, man, you gotta look at it on a case to case basis. There is no general answer to the above you mentioned. 
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y post this here? spam?
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as a girl, i know many guys cannot empathise with it. when girls make such a mistake, they know that they are not absolved completely from blame. but to them, it's really embarrassing because ppl who are narrow-minded and judgemental might say that they're cheap and stupid. it's ok for the guy who cheated them, 'cos the guy doesn't lose anything what.
how many guys can honestly say that they dun mind being with a girl who got cheated of sex by a bastard? most of you guys just think that these girls ask for it since they consented. but seriously, kenna conned means tio pian. means she didn't know she shouldn't have trusted the guy. a lot of girls are still very naive. sometimes u guys need to be more sensitive when talking about such stuff, 'cos this leaves a bad mark on the girl. i know 'cos i got friends who kena conned before and until now they still cannot get over it. quite traumatising, really. -
I hate those guys!
It goes against natural selection!
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As what many says... The gal consent to the sex. They are not cheated. They have the power to make the decision. They all know pre-marital sex is bad.
I wouldn't use the word 'cheat' ,maybe put it naive will be better.
But I know gal are very emotional creature. It is not difflicult to make them consent to pre-marital sex. -
Wow.
I just saw that airjimbo's pic on the other thread.
I can understand why girls falls for him.
He is not handsome per se, but he does have a innocence face.
Like the boy next door look, someone whom you will let your guard down.
(Handsome = Takeshi Kaneshiro ).
This guy knows how to flaunt and make use of his assets.
Same way a pretty girl who knows how to work her charm to attract guys to be her servants.
And I can also understand why he went nuts with Singaporean girls.
In the US, he'd probably have a hard time getting himself a decent mate.
The decent looking ones are either too materialistic or has a caucasian partner.
He probably thought he found gold when he comes to Singapore and see TONS of pretty Asian girls WITH Asian values and speaks ENGLISH. He's in heaven !
But remember, the rules of their relationship game is different from Asian ones.
What this guy did is nothing different from what Singaporean men did when they got sent to Taiwan for training.
My Taiwanese girl friend told me they hated SG men for the same reason. -
wat...that guy spoil singapore name sia..OMG...no wonder all tai mei so cold to me..i say i from sg..
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Originally posted by banzie:Sometime I felt whether to pity them or to blame them?
I am not so sure if cheating is the right term to use like in a game or gambling where one party uses unfair means or deceit to win. In a relationship (no matter how brief), there must be some attraction. If the gal doesn't like or wasn't attracted to the guy, how could she ended up in bed with him? If a gal is looking for affection, attention and 'connection' with a guy, isn't she seeking self-gratification? And what does she expects? The guy to become husband?
So pity not, nor blame her. She has a choice, she chose, she consented.
Often when girls came here to whine that they got cheated... all the people started to side her and think the guy is a basket.... But there could be other case where its not really the guy who is at fault... I heard that there are some girls who are charged by court because they tried to report for rape on guys who dumped her...
They whine bcos their expectations were not met. What that expectations are, only the cheated can tell. For instance, the gal wants to keep the guy for herself. When this is not so, she felt cheated!
When girls are dumped.... the whole world would console her... but when guys are dumped.... (Like man case we read from aunty agony... Who gives us a tissue?
We have more sympathy for gals bcos they are perceived as the weaker sex. But actually it's the guys who need Kleenex but the macho-ego self denies reality.
If the girl willing to offer pre marital sex to the guy.. doesn't she be the one to accept the consequence if such thing happens? Its not like she is underage with no mature minds like that or raped... She consent willingly... Than starting to come online to destroy the person who dumped her?
When you can't get the fruit you desire, that's called sour grape. What's the opposite of sour grape?
Moral of the story? Don't fornicate? Don't be fooled by riches and handsome guys lor...
Easier said than done. There will be a sucker born every minute.
What is your say in this?
I say it is not CHEATING! -
a person's self confidence is worth a thoursand times more then their virginityOriginally posted by norm:Girls lose their virginity when they are cheated by playboys.
Guys don't lose anything if they get dumped by a girl. They just lose face & self confidence. -
some girls are just too silly
the guy handsome tall can liao
character like shyt also never mind
in the end get cheated then whine cry and complaint everywhere then emo
then some cut wrist some cry whole day some binge some become bimbo/flirt
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People who are terminally ill through no fault of their own are no less traumatising and far more innocent. I mean, what sort of sympathy are you expecting? Sympathy for stupidity or naivety?Originally posted by luvelle:as a girl, i know many guys cannot empathise with it. when girls make such a mistake, they know that they are not absolved completely from blame. but to them, it's really embarrassing because ppl who are narrow-minded and judgemental might say that they're cheap and stupid. it's ok for the guy who cheated them, 'cos the guy doesn't lose anything what.
how many guys can honestly say that they dun mind being with a girl who got cheated of sex by a bastard? most of you guys just think that these girls ask for it since they consented. but seriously, kenna conned means tio pian. means she didn't know she shouldn't have trusted the guy. a lot of girls are still very naive. sometimes u guys need to be more sensitive when talking about such stuff, 'cos this leaves a bad mark on the girl. i know 'cos i got friends who kena conned before and until now they still cannot get over it. quite traumatising, really.
Perhaps, you would like to take a macro view on things. Would you sympathise with an alcoholic or drug-addict who engages in self-destruction? Or perhaps, someone who's sent to the gallows for having committed murder? Where will this stop and end?
I'm by no means trivialising the plight of those you seem to defend. That said, I have as much sympathy for those you've mentioned as I do for an ailing sod on his deathbed with a malfunctioning liver arising from a lifetime of alcohol abuse - which isn't very much. -
haha and you guys say that you're not demanding. no wonder so many of u singaporean men r single. tsk tsk.Originally posted by walesa:People who are terminally ill through no fault of their own are no less traumatising and far more innocent. I mean, what sort of sympathy are you expecting? Sympathy for stupidity or naivety?
Perhaps, you would like to take a macro view on things. Would you sympathise with an alcoholic or drug-addict who engages in self-destruction? Or perhaps, someone who's sent to the gallows for having committed murder? Where will this stop and end?
I'm by no means trivialising the plight of those you seem to defend. That said, I have as much sympathy for those you've mentioned as I do for an ailing sod on his deathbed with a malfunctioning liver arising from a lifetime of alcohol abuse - which isn't very much. -
he is 184 cm tall and know how to sweet-talk gals leh.Originally posted by jojobeach:Wow.
I just saw that airjimbo's pic on the other thread.
I can understand why girls falls for him.
He is not handsome per se, but he does have a innocence face.
Like the boy next door look, someone whom you will let your guard down.
(Handsome = Takeshi Kaneshiro ).
This guy knows how to flaunt and make use of his assets.
Same way a pretty girl who knows how to work her charm to attract guys to be her servants.
And I can also understand why he went nuts with Singaporean girls.
In the US, he'd probably have a hard time getting himself a decent mate.
The decent looking ones are either too materialistic or has a caucasian partner.
He probably thought he found gold when he comes to Singapore and see TONS of pretty Asian girls WITH Asian values and speaks ENGLISH. He's in heaven !
But remember, the rules of their relationship game is different from Asian ones.
What this guy did is nothing different from what Singaporean men did when they got sent to Taiwan for training.
My Taiwanese girl friend told me they hated SG men for the same reason. -
some girls are still very innocent and naive. If a man showers attention on her and sweet talk her, she will feel very flattered and rise to cloud nine. Such girls usually have low self esteem and feel very happy when men fawn over them.
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lol yeah girls normally fall for that, sadly. got the "charm".Originally posted by norm:he is 184 cm tall and know how to sweet-talk gals leh.
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they easily fall prey to men whom they meet from internet. Internet sex predators. In the first place, they are the lonely girls who don't have much male friends.Originally posted by norm:some girls are still very innocent and naive. If a man showers attention on her and sweet talk her, she will feel very flattered and rise to cloud nine. Such girls usually have low self esteem and feel very happy when men fawn over them.