Not sure if this is allowed...
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since it is aunt agony but i posted a thread a few months ago and i thought i'd let you know how things worked out.
I'm the girl from this thread: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=243583&page=0
I was in love with my best friend and a couple of months after i posted this thread i found out he had had feelings for me all along, he just didnt want to admit it to himself. I tried to fight it but i really loved him and i didnt want to lie to myself or my boyfriend so i broke up with my boyfriend. Now me and my friend are together and we make each other happy. I just want to hold him and never let him go.
I guess my point is...dont stay with someone just to make them happy. If you're miserable they'll sense it and neither of you will be completely happy. It's not worth it, it's best to let go so both of you can start over. Follow your heart -
Congrats.
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Loving the right person at the wrong time,
Having the wrong person when the time is right,
And finding out you love someone right after
That person walks out of your life.
And sometimes, you think you're already over a person,
Until you see them smile at you again,
You'll suddenly realize that you're really not.
For some, they think that letting go is one way
Of expressing how much you love the person,
By sacrificing your happiness for theirs,
Without realizing that the other person's
Doing the same thing for them.
Most relationships tend to fail
Not because of the absence of love;
Love is always present,
It's just that one is being loved too much
And the other was being loved too little.
We always fall in love with the person we think we love,
Only to discover that what we loved about them fades.
Bad experiences are always remembered,
But it's the wonderful memories that are captured
To remind us that there are brighter days ahead
And that happiness exists.
You need to learn to let go when you're hurting too much,
Realize that sometimes love just isn't enough
And accept the fact that things aren't always gonna be the same.
There is someone out there who will love you more.
It's all the thought you put into your decisions
That impairs your judgement
When your heart already knows what you need to do.
Listen to your heart. Even though it's on the left side, it's always right. -
Thanks for sharing with us your thoughts on your experience.Originally posted by red|pixie:since it is aunt agony but i posted a thread a few months ago and i thought i'd let you know how things worked out.
I'm the girl from this thread: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=243583&page=0
I was in love with my best friend and a couple of months after i posted this thread i found out he had had feelings for me all along, he just didnt want to admit it to himself. I tried to fight it but i really loved him and i didnt want to lie to myself or my boyfriend so i broke up with my boyfriend. Now me and my friend are together and we make each other happy. I just want to hold him and never let him go.
I guess my point is...dont stay with someone just to make them happy. If you're miserable they'll sense it and neither of you will be completely happy. It's not worth it, it's best to let go so both of you can start over. Follow your heart
Cheers -
Yo, so when will the wedding bells ring, and also, dun get anymore best friend ya, just afraid after this posting, u may post again indicating in love with another best friend.Originally posted by red|pixie:since it is aunt agony but i posted a thread a few months ago and i thought i'd let you know how things worked out.
I'm the girl from this thread: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=243583&page=0
I was in love with my best friend and a couple of months after i posted this thread i found out he had had feelings for me all along, he just didnt want to admit it to himself. I tried to fight it but i really loved him and i didnt want to lie to myself or my boyfriend so i broke up with my boyfriend. Now me and my friend are together and we make each other happy. I just want to hold him and never let him go.
I guess my point is...dont stay with someone just to make them happy. If you're miserable they'll sense it and neither of you will be completely happy. It's not worth it, it's best to let go so both of you can start over. Follow your heart -
then how abt the girl that he loved?
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of course its allowed
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dun be so evil larhhOriginally posted by angel7030:Yo, so when will the wedding bells ring, and also, dun get anymore best friend ya, just afraid after this posting, u may post again indicating in love with another best friend.
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Follows your heart.
Don't regret whatever path you take ^^
Being happy is the most important!
Congrats that you have chose a path that you like ^^ -
so sad.
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grats.. *blows nose into tissue*
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That's soo sweet!
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Yo, evil is the begining of good.Originally posted by hiphop2009:dun be so evil larhh 
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I hope both of you will last long till eternity!
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like this also can~Originally posted by angel7030:Yo, evil is the begining of good. -
Originally posted by red|pixie:I dont know but i get the feeling you didnt read it properly..either that or you have a very short memory. no offence attended.
I asked how to get over him and said i intended to stay with my bf cos i dont want to hurt him.
And no..i was never using my boyfriend. It was over between me and my friend when i met my boyfriend. We both moved on and i fell in love with my current boyfriend. But now the old feelings are starting to come back. And i'm not going to dump my bf even if my friend says he loves me. I just cant. I need something to help me get over him
Wow? Now what happen???Originally posted by red|pixie:since it is aunt agony but i posted a thread a few months ago and i thought i'd let you know how things worked out.
I'm the girl from this thread: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=243583&page=0
I was in love with my best friend and a couple of months after i posted this thread i found out he had had feelings for me all along, he just didnt want to admit it to himself. I tried to fight it but i really loved him and i didnt want to lie to myself or my boyfriend so i broke up with my boyfriend. Now me and my friend are together and we make each other happy. I just want to hold him and never let him go.
I guess my point is...dont stay with someone just to make them happy. If you're miserable they'll sense it and neither of you will be completely happy. It's not worth it, it's best to let go so both of you can start over. Follow your heart
But I still wish u all the best with yr r/s but pls don't hurt another innocent person heart again.... -
"Don't stay with someone just to make them happy..." - This verse sure struck my heart with my current situation. However...love to me is never about making myself happy, sometimes...you stayed with that someone because you know that they will be more miserable than you if you chose to leave them. Probably the strongest reason why I'm still with someone just to make them happy...probably until they don't need me anymore, then I will be happy leaving them without feeling guilty. Abandoning someone heartlessly is something that I'm incapable of.Originally posted by red|pixie:since it is aunt agony but i posted a thread a few months ago and i thought i'd let you know how things worked out.
I'm the girl from this thread: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=243583&page=0
I was in love with my best friend and a couple of months after i posted this thread i found out he had had feelings for me all along, he just didnt want to admit it to himself. I tried to fight it but i really loved him and i didnt want to lie to myself or my boyfriend so i broke up with my boyfriend. Now me and my friend are together and we make each other happy. I just want to hold him and never let him go.
I guess my point is...dont stay with someone just to make them happy. If you're miserable they'll sense it and neither of you will be completely happy. It's not worth it, it's best to let go so both of you can start over. Follow your heart
And yes, it's probably true that they can sense it and at the moment, I'm not happy with the way I'm being treated. I will leave eventually..... -
My boyfriend is my best friend.Originally posted by angel7030:Yo, so when will the wedding bells ring, and also, dun get anymore best friend ya, just afraid after this posting, u may post again indicating in love with another best friend. -
Still, see this story...Originally posted by red|pixie:My boyfriend is my best friend.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=259363 -
Thats wonderful news for you.
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He said he fell for her because she was there for him when i was away at school and she paid attention to him. I mean..i had a boyfriend so he didn't think i'd be interested in him. And the girl..well...funny really...she's now dating her best friend.Originally posted by browniebaobao:then how abt the girl that he loved?
And btw my boyfriend has recovered and is moving on with his life. We're still good friends. -
it's not sad..everyone's much happier now.Originally posted by hisoka:so sad. -
The world is always unfair, we just try to make it fair for everyone as much as possible. Do what you can to make your life a happy one. You only live once! Dun worry of what ppl say, think or talk about you. Love and happines must fight for one, it won't drop from the sky.Originally posted by red|pixie:since it is aunt agony but i posted a thread a few months ago and i thought i'd let you know how things worked out.
I'm the girl from this thread: http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=243583&page=0
I was in love with my best friend and a couple of months after i posted this thread i found out he had had feelings for me all along, he just didnt want to admit it to himself. I tried to fight it but i really loved him and i didnt want to lie to myself or my boyfriend so i broke up with my boyfriend. Now me and my friend are together and we make each other happy. I just want to hold him and never let him go.
I guess my point is...dont stay with someone just to make them happy. If you're miserable they'll sense it and neither of you will be completely happy. It's not worth it, it's best to let go so both of you can start over. Follow your heart
All the best -
That's what i though..I have to stay with my boyfriend because he's given me so much. I need to give him something in return..but...I was miserable..and that made him miserable. I dont think it's right to stay with someone you dont love - you're basically lying to them(thus hurting them even more when they eventually find out you didnt love them) and keeping them attached to you when they could go on and start over. They deserve to find someone who truly loves them and they cant do that as long as you still hang on to them.Originally posted by parn:"Don't stay with someone just to make them happy..." - This verse sure struck my heart with my current situation. However...love to me is never about making myself happy, sometimes...you stayed with that someone because you know that they will be more miserable than you if you chose to leave them. Probably the strongest reason why I'm still with someone just to make them happy...probably until they don't need me anymore, then I will be happy leaving them without feeling guilty. Abandoning someone heartlessly is something that I'm incapable of.
And yes, it's probably true that they can sense it and at the moment, I'm not happy with the way I'm being treated. I will leave eventually.....