long distance r/s
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time will tell........nothing much u can do.....focus on ur NS & leave the rest to faith
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Stay cool, love conqueror all odds, I also got jp friends, Jp are very emotional peoples and they respect true love. They serve their husband and bf well by treasuring and cherishing the love given to them. However, they have an open mindset to associate (unlike Singaporean, so kiasu, jealous and protective).Originally posted by DjMatrix:my gf who's from japan has been with me for 8 mths now, she has to returb to japan for 6 mths for her school stuff and she'll return back though.though we will keep in touch thru calls/msn, i fear for the worse as i've seen many r/s crumble cos of this.
we're really in love but how do u tink should i prepare so that our r/s doesnt gets into deep sh it?she's leaving mid august and will back by mid-end feb.
please help.
thanks!
Therefore you must show your love and be faithful to her, never to suspect her intention even when she talk to another guy. If you restrict their movement/control them. They will go away. Respect is an important culture in Jp society, respect those who respect you, be it love, friendship or colleague, once your show sincerity and respect to thme, they will to return that respect more than you do. -
hais looks quite bad man...and im not sure can take leave during ns not..tink caont
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Once your BMT's done there will be a break of about 10 days.Originally posted by DjMatrix:hais looks quite bad man...and im not sure can take leave during ns not..tink caont
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ok thanks dr house, where do i book the tickets? can i do it now or is it too early..thanksOriginally posted by Kuali Baba:Once your BMT's done there will be a break of about 10 days. -
U are watching too much anime.Originally posted by angel7030:Stay cool, love conqueror all odds, I also got jp friends, Jp are very emotional peoples and they respect true love. They serve their husband and bf well by treasuring and cherishing the love given to them. However, they have an open mindset to associate (unlike Singaporean, so kiasu, jealous and protective).
Therefore you must show your love and be faithful to her, never to suspect her intention even when she talk to another guy. If you restrict their movement/control them. They will go away. Respect is an important culture in Jp society, respect those who respect you, be it love, friendship or colleague, once your show sincerity and respect to thme, they will to return that respect more than you do.
The truth is most jp people are very materialistic and that explains their porn industry.As they have very high standard of living,they place high piority on $ and realistically speaking,there is no true love in their soicety.
Do learn to seperate anime from reality.. -
wat is yrs , is yrs
wat is not yrs , will not be yrs
No use to keep on stressing yrself on things tat u cant control much...
Let nature take its course... -
i ask her to stay..
or when after ns i made enough money.. i go japan find her -
i dont want her studies to be distrupted...and she'll be bakc in 6 mthsOriginally posted by FBI:i ask her to stay..
or when after ns i made enough money.. i go japan find her -
Good luck, buddy.
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Yes UncleOriginally posted by boka:U are watching too much anime.
The truth is most jp people are very materialistic and that explains their porn industry.As they have very high standard of living,they place high piority on $ and realistically speaking,there is no true love in their soicety.
Do learn to seperate anime from reality.. -
It's not too early. Which day are you enlisting on?Originally posted by DjMatrix:ok thanks dr house, where do i book the tickets? can i do it now or is it too early..thanks -
26 october 8amOriginally posted by Kuali Baba:It's not too early. Which day are you enlisting on? -
U plan to marry her???
Else.. BGR comes and goes... come on... -
ur marriage failure dont tink others will osoOriginally posted by Glennyek:U plan to marry her???
Else.. BGR comes and goes... come on... -
hi TS...
my gf is hoping to go overseas to further her studies UNI, for me same case as u, got to go NS too, and v soon....
my gf is hoping to get into NTU, if not she is strongly considering to go oversea le, i can understand how u feel, i m sure u can understand mine as well......fear is the word........
for now, i hav to just pray she gets into NTU, pray for me too
gd luck in ur rs too -
a silent prayer for u, fellow brotherOriginally posted by ~WiNdzStRikEr~:hi TS...
my gf is hoping to go overseas to further her studies UNI, for me same case as u, got to go NS too, and v soon....
my gf is hoping to get into NTU, if not she is strongly considering to go oversea le, i can understand how u feel, i m sure u can understand mine as well......fear is the word........
for now, i hav to just pray she gets into NTU, pray for me too
gd luck in ur rs too -
well my wife is a jap. we both been married for half year. got to know her when i first touched down on osaka kansei airport. at that time, i was new & not sure of which buses to take me to tottori. so she happened to be on the same destination as me & willing to help me out. told her i was here for new product development & will stay in japan for half a yr.Originally posted by DjMatrix:my gf who's from japan has been with me for 8 mths now, she has to returb to japan for 6 mths for her school stuff and she'll return back though.though we will keep in touch thru calls/msn, i fear for the worse as i've seen many r/s crumble cos of this.
we're really in love but how do u tink should i prepare so that our r/s doesnt gets into deep sh it?she's leaving mid august and will back by mid-end feb.
please help.
thanks!
as time passes, the schedule for me to return to s'pore had arrived. both of us were very sad to part each other.
when i'm in s'pore, she used her hp to call me (almost very days). i also did the same. 1K spent on hp bill in a mth.
but itz worth it. in order to save this amt of $ & able to meet again, she decided to relocate & worked in s'pore. from that time onwards, we r unite again.
since u loved her so much, u must believe in her. mutual trust is very important. juz give her a call once a week will be gd. she will appreciate it. but dun b like me, as the long distance call is quite xpensive. moreover, u r still in ns. -
Originally posted by beagle:my gf gg uk for studies for 3 years. im in ns too. can i complain too?
I think I'll likely be in the same boat in one year's time. I'm in NS now...gf taking A Levels this year so going uni next year.Originally posted by ~WiNdzStRikEr~:hi TS...
my gf is hoping to go overseas to further her studies UNI, for me same case as u, got to go NS too, and v soon....
my gf is hoping to get into NTU, if not she is strongly considering to go oversea le, i can understand how u feel, i m sure u can understand mine as well......fear is the word........
for now, i hav to just pray she gets into NTU, pray for me too
gd luck in ur rs too
Her parents would prefer for her to go overseas uni. For HER personally, she is okay with either staying in SG or going overseas. Actually she's interested in a course in SG, but its not 'prestigious' so her parents would likely not approve...
Even though it's still quite long (one year) before its time for her to go to uni, I'm already starting to feel troubled by this. Hai...
I feel she should just do what she likes...after all uni affects future job and hence her whole life. But I don't feel good influencing her to defy her parents. Still, I'm really hoping she stays in SG...
Good luck to all who are in this kind of screwed up situations... -
nvm i guess worse come worse mus run from ns lo
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since both of you is so in love with each other .. why worry? Anyway.. is only 6 mths.. nowadays days pass very fast.. so no worries. But then if she choose to change her heart.. no matter wat u did .. u also cant stop her. So leave it to fate lah..
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dun be silly, if you do this......ur losing her foreverOriginally posted by DjMatrix:nvm i guess worse come worse mus run from ns lo -
if its yours she can nvr run away. if she isint meant to b urs, u chain her up she still will find ways to escape