Which is worst to end one life due to depression or work hard to get out off depression?Originally posted by maurizio13:Most Singaporeans don't understand depression, it's not a matter of him refusing to budge, but sometimes when someone is overcome with depression, they are unable to. I have had 2 friends with depression, one took his life afew years back, another is still managing it. It's not so easy as to just snap out of it (depression).
If you value your company more than a person's life than do as you may. After all this is Singapore, where money comes first and humanity comes last. Sometimes it's tiring to talk with typical Singaporeans, they place money above everything else. It's sad to see society degenerate to greed.
Sometimes I wonder, what is the price of a human life???
But this guy was pissed off by his gf. As a girl, I may have a solution to his problem, so it's quite unfair that you only seek guys opinons and answers.Originally posted by ahshuiger:We are working in all male environment. sad to say, if there is a female around, I am sure the morale of the staff would be better ... sigh . .![]()
oh .. did I specifically asked for guy help only ... my apology.. I would love to hear a feminine side to it .. I am sure it would help ..Originally posted by angel7030:But this guy was pissed off by his gf. As a girl, I may have a solution to his problem, so it's quite unfair that you only seek guys opinons and answers.
Tho the environment maybe male donminant, most should have wives and gfs, who knows?? their contributions may help in one way or the other.
I feel sorry for you. You were unlucky to meet a boss that doesn't appreciate that human have feeling and when it's hurt, it more painful than anything else .. . I can understand your feeling too .. you are very strong indeed .. I wish my colleague could be like you .. I just have some more feedback from the other .. his work is really beyond acceptance ... . sigh .. when he is back to morrow, need really to open table leow ..Originally posted by zeny:Which is worst to end one life due to depression or work hard to get out off depression?
I can understand from your point of view that a person life is important, but my question is did my boss value my life back then?
I got only 2 days to cope with my break up and got a rude shock of my life when I went back to my workplace only to find out that a letter was waiting for me. Do you seriously think anyone care about my life?
After I was asked to leave, I had to fight hard to find a job, to feed myself and my family. I had to leave my pride and ask for help, those were the darkest days of my life but I told myself "no" I will not die so easily and I fought hard to be what I was today.
Maybe you have had feel the pain of seeing your love ones suffer just becos you could not earn enough for them. Back then i had to eat only one meal a day in order to surive.
This is life. No one will pity you if you are weak and cannot make it. Is a lesson only that could be learn if you have nothing left and you are force to do what you can to surive.
The person is lucky to have 2 months, I got 2 days, do you think is fair ?
Since when life is fair anyway?
Yah. Hard being sandwiched in between. I think being his senior, you should at least try your best to help him out as a friend (unless he is just a worker and his life or death doesn't concern you). Maybe he could take 2 weeks no pay leave to sort out his feelings. If all else fails, talk to your boss see what he says. But judging from the way businesses are run (for profit), I think your boss would most likely asked him to leave. And corporation blame workers for no sense of loyalty to the company, I wonder why.Originally posted by ispyyy:wat should u do ???
lol... like u have choice like tat???
Being the middleman, u have to answer to yr boss and care for yr subordinate... If u cant find a diplomatic way to convince yr boss, then, u have to do something to the subordinate... wat other choice do u have???
Tell him : (Must be serious lah)
1) show regrets to him
2) yr situation
3) the company situation and yr boss idea
4) Warn him what the company will do to him
ItOriginally posted by maurizio13:Yah. Hard being sandwiched in between. I think being his senior, you should at least try your best to help him out as a friend (unless he is just a worker and his life or death doesn't concern you). Maybe he could take 2 weeks no pay leave to sort out his feelings. If all else fails, talk to your boss see what he says. But judging from the way businesses are run (for profit), I think your boss would most likely asked him to leave. And corporation blame workers for no sense of loyalty to the company, I wonder why.
yr guy friends is hinting to u to intro him some pretty gals lahOriginally posted by browniebaobao:ever got one guy fren tell me...
if a man is out of love, what his buddy can do is to bring him out and intro nice girl to him..
Hmmm...that is more better,Originally posted by ahshuiger:oh .. did I specifically asked for guy help only ... my apology.. I would love to hear a feminine side to it .. I am sure it would help ..![]()
that guy fren got gf de la.Originally posted by NewAge:yr guy friends is hinting to u to intro him some pretty gals lah![]()