Someone help me!
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Hi all,
Hope someone here can hear me out. About 1 year ago, I met this girl, we went on good and she knew that I like her. But it all had to end when she broke to me the news that she actually has a BF. She asked me to move on and said the usual stuff like 'you can definitely find someone better'. So after weeks of heartbreak, I led my usual life again trying to be the happy-me once more.
It was then when I met this other girl, we went on good and I thought maybe she could make me happy. Til I liked her very much, she told me that she still hasn't got over her ex-BF. So I thought, why not wait on and show that I'm really sincere? Who knows, 2 weeks after, she called me to give up.
I was at that point of time, extremely disillusioned. I vowed to not get myself into something like this again. So I tried my best not to like anyone and avoid heartbreaks. So I had this rather close friend of mine, she was always there to talk to me and etc. After bout 3 months, we sorta grew to like each other. And like before, I fell for her but then outta the blue she just said that she has no feelings for me at all and that I can never have her.
At that point of time, it felt very "normal". So I went to try my luck with this other girl very recently but I didn't tell her that I liked her nor commit any liking for her. And just when I thought it's alright now, and I was gonna tell her I had some feelings for her, she tells me that this guy asked her and there's no way she's gonna reject him. I was like, dang it!
Now I feel extremely sad
Am I cursed or is it just coincidence? -
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wah...u really poor thing wor....
after so many "failures" im sure the right one will come for u soon...
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YES. U r cursed
& the occurrance is also by pure coincidence...do u believe me?
U r cursed to find a Fantastic girl later in ur life & by pure coincidence, these characters 'appear' to be tt Fantastic girl whose not supposed to appear tt early. Be Patient
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Originally posted by startrightnow:
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Did you pee under any tree a few years before?
If not, then most prob ur fated lover is not here yet. -
sad case...
Givache -
HAI~ i really dunno how to say ur love luck.........try go gamble.....
i think u can win alot.... -
Hah, I wish ah... Just lost $100 this week in soccer bets...Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:HAI~ i really dunno how to say ur love luck.........try go gamble.....
i think u can win alot.... -
Hawaiian Koa: Why u tend to love or rather say like a person easily. If u really can commit in one relationship, keep on waiting. Don't be scared of waiting time...
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I must say u are god damn unlucky sia... although i consider myself not lucky(cos nv met much gals since gradute from sec sch) But u worse lor u seen and like them but just can't get them...Originally posted by Hawaiian Koa:Hi all,
Hope someone here can hear me out. About 1 year ago, I met this girl, we went on good and she knew that I like her. But it all had to end when she broke to me the news that she actually has a BF. She asked me to move on and said the usual stuff like 'you can definitely find someone better'. So after weeks of heartbreak, I led my usual life again trying to be the happy-me once more.
It was then when I met this other girl, we went on good and I thought maybe she could make me happy. Til I liked her very much, she told me that she still hasn't got over her ex-BF. So I thought, why not wait on and show that I'm really sincere? Who knows, 2 weeks after, she called me to give up.
I was at that point of time, extremely disillusioned. I vowed to not get myself into something like this again. So I tried my best not to like anyone and avoid heartbreaks. So I had this rather close friend of mine, she was always there to talk to me and etc. After bout 3 months, we sorta grew to like each other. And like before, I fell for her but then outta the blue she just said that she has no feelings for me at all and that I can never have her.
At that point of time, it felt very "normal". So I went to try my luck with this other girl very recently but I didn't tell her that I liked her nor commit any liking for her. And just when I thought it's alright now, and I was gonna tell her I had some feelings for her, she tells me that this guy asked her and there's no way she's gonna reject him. I was like, dang it!
Now I feel extremely sad
Am I cursed or is it just coincidence? But i must tell u nv stop trying.... -
You're really 'cursed' man....Originally posted by Hawaiian Koa:Hah, I wish ah... Just lost $100 this week in soccer bets... -
Nobody loves us Morrissey
Nine times fined
Never mind
Things can only improve
We are just stood here
Waiting for the next great wound
And we just can't wait to make more mistakes
And to fluff our breaks, and to stuff our faces with cake
All in all, imagine this :
Nobody loves us
Dab-hands at Trouble
With four days of stubble, we are
Never loosen the grip on our hand
Call us home
Kiss our cheeks
Nobody loves us
So we ... oh ... we tend to please ourselves
People think all we do
Is lie around and think of how
Rich we'd be if we didn't think
Life could improve
And we just can't wait to make more mistakes
And we just can't wait till the whole thing blows up in our face
Call us home
Kiss our cheeks
Nobody loves us
Dab-hands at Trouble
With four days of stubble, we are
So, never loosen the grip on our hand
Call us home
Make our tea
Nobody loves us
So we ... oh ... we tend to please ourselves
Call us home
Tuck us in
Nobody wants us
Dreamers and schemers
All pie-eyed, and bog-eyed, and cross-eyed
Oh, never loosen the grip on our hand
Whack us, then
Hug us hard
Nobody loves us
So we ... oh ... we tend to please ourselves
And we just can't stress, oh, how more the mess
And complete distress won't make much difference to us
Sing us our
Favourite song
Nobody loves us
Born-again athiests
Practising troublemakers
Make us our
Favourite jam
Nobody loves us
Useless and shiftless
And jobless
But we're all yours -
*pat*pat*
good luck to you man -
wah lau that's just fucked.... i'm quite speechless man.
*slap on the back* i wish u the best man...! -
We are in the same boat man. Heh. Except that it happened to me 6 times.
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Well, the bad-luck struck back. I just knew this girl, I was super super cautious... she knew bout how sad and disllusioned with life i am, so she tried to cheer me up and make me happy. she made everything seem good. and i thought.. 'urgh, just ONE MORE try, maybe she's the one!'
well, she just told me that a guy just asked her to be his gf, and she agreed...
Tears fill my world... And forms a vast ocean... -
/me is speechless ".........."
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Its a funny world isn't it? I can't be bothered with relationships anymore. Heh. Mayb you could try to harden your heart?
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Why?Originally posted by swatchie:Its a funny world isn't it? I can't be bothered with relationships anymore. Heh. Mayb you could try to harden your heart? -
how many tears, flow away
to become the sea of fears
how many hearts, are torn apart
till another torment starts... -
sibei suayz....
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Reminds me of 'Overtime'Originally posted by swatchie:Its a funny world isn't it? I can't be bothered with relationships anymore. Heh. Mayb you could try to harden your heart?
very 'Classic' line......'wei le ai de ren dong jie wo de xin'..touching
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mayb they not ur rite ones dun b too sad muz b more brave to tk all tis as challenges
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Hi H_Koala,
Don't feel sad, or dejected that you have not found the right girl. I nkow it's easier said that done.
Let me share my story with you.
From a rather tender age, things started out for me as puppy love. I see someone whom I think I like and I try to "chase" her. Well, I never really got together with anyone that way.
As the years went by, going through Sec Sch, I thought I really liked someone and made efforts to let her know that I liked her. It was still puppy love. The same happened in JC days. I think you're getting the picture.
Then in my NS days, I met a Malaysian girl. We hit it off quite well. I even called her occasionally over the phone to her place in KL (cost me a lot of NS pay). But that taught how to talk with a girl over the phone (with the short 5min we had each time coz I only could afford $5 phone cards).
That "relationship" (if you can even call it one) didn't last very long.
I then met a church girl in my NS days. I thought she was the one for me. In the end, found out she was only interested in getting me to go to her church (I was "abandoned" once we reached the destination).
Life went on and I was in my NUS days. I met some girls, not for anything but just friends. I liked some of them, but never asked any if we could go steady. Then in my 3rd year, I met a junior. I thought we really had something going. She was nice and all. We went out together sometimes after school. But when I asked her to be my girlfriend, she told me she had boyfriend already (but was going to breakup). So I waited with patience. One day after exams, she left me a note. It was to end our "relationship".
So you see, to that point, I've never really been in a real relationship. Before any could really take off, it already crashed and burned.
Later on, I met someone. We got along very well. We could share happy moments and sad moments together. But at the back of my mind was the preparation that we might not even last beyond this. I was preparing myself for rejection. That way, I wouldn't feel hurt if things didn't work out. I just played the normal guy and was myself all the time. No longer was I all out to impress the girl. I just decided to be myself.
And lo behold, over time, we grew closer and closer and finally now, we are a couple.
The point I'm trying to make is that you don't have to feel sad or miserable that a relationship does not take off. Trust that there will be someone out there for you eventually. You just haven't met her yet.
That was how I found my girlfriend.
I hope this helps.
Regards, Colin Teo