Praising her
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When/at what stage/at what level of friendship is it appropriate to praise a girl for (a)her character (b)her hair (c)her dimples (d)her legs (e)*hmm*..etc?
Sometimes, I feel like praising my female friends, but am held back for fear that the situation will become awkward. Or that they misinterpret and start to think too much (you know, sg gals can hardly take praise without thinkin you may be interested in them or you are some predator..jeeez). Worse, they take on a paranoid attitude towards me, or guys in general.
So,
speak! -
most girls like sweet talking
so start anytime -
ts... same same here...
IA -
start slow.
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well from the start of any friendship/relationship, i've been direct and upfront so most of my female friends like to ask for my opinion. let's say if ur not the sort but you wanna praise and make a comment about a female friend, i'd say u do it, keeping in mind not to cross the barrier too much.
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this just about sums up what i was gonna postOriginally posted by coffeeortea:well from the start of any friendship/relationship, i've been direct and upfront so most of my female friends like to ask for my opinion. let's say if ur not the sort but you wanna praise and make a comment about a female friend, i'd say u do it, keeping in mind not to cross the barrier too much. -
agree...Originally posted by coffeeortea:well from the start of any friendship/relationship, i've been direct and upfront so most of my female friends like to ask for my opinion. let's say if ur not the sort but you wanna praise and make a comment about a female friend, i'd say u do it, keeping in mind not to cross the barrier too much.
just say it... nothings is wrong praising someone... -
some things are better left unsaid......Originally posted by rathcycle:most girls like sweet talking
so start anytime -
speak what, you siao liao! or simply no bosses, just say what you like lah, if u think other think you paranoid, forever keep quiet better.Originally posted by poo-see-boi:When/at what stage/at what level of friendship is it appropriate to praise a girl for (a)her character (b)her hair (c)her dimples (d)her legs (e)*hmm*..etc?
Sometimes, I feel like praising my female friends, but am held back for fear that the situation will become awkward. Or that they misinterpret and start to think too much (you know, sg gals can hardly take praise without thinkin you may be interested in them or you are some predator..jeeez). Worse, they take on a paranoid attitude towards me, or guys in general.
So,
speak!
Control you mind, dun let him control you. -
Speak your mind freely.
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praising people is a good things....
but pls do not praise abt her legs or front (u know wat I mean)...
the girl will surely get the wrong message....
praise abt other things... praise! but do not go overboard!!!
Hm.... u like the girl is it?? notice her so much!!! heehee!!!
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Hehehe.....begin your praise by "Ni jin tian hen piao liang, wo hen xi huan ni".
Just jump the gun and go straight to the end...wouldn't it be better?
Either you prepare to cry later or jump with happiness.
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if its a sincere compliment, it will brighten up my day.
but if its just for entertaining, then i wont care much.
i seriously do not feel offended in any ways.
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Just do it. For me, theres no stage/level for me to do that. Close friends or not, doesnt matter....
If i find what shes wearin today looks good on her, i'd tell her that she has good taste and she looks really good in that. If her hair looks great and i like it, i'd tell her. If she looks really cute today for no good reason but really cute, i'd tell her. If a salesgirl looks very pretty and unique to me, i'd tell her.... she deserves the praise, so why not. Praise with sincerity. Girls will like it.
It's up to em to think bout other stuffs (that i like her or somethin like that) -
i tink if u compliment her things like 'u look sweet in pink', 'u have a v nice smile' etc.. it's ok de..
but if u comment on her legs, cleavage etc.. will make her think u are a pervert. -
hair and clothes are fine. other body parts.... erm...
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Wha TS same as me leh.
I everytime want to say some of my female friends very cute but no dare.
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yeah,Originally posted by browniebaobao:i tink if u compliment her things like 'u look sweet in pink', 'u have a v nice smile' etc.. it's ok de..
but if u comment on her legs, cleavage etc.. will make her think u are a pervert.
remember to notice about her makeup, new cloths/shoes/jewelries, girls like guys who are into details.
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i think is not abt time is abt the person's character. i mean like some will say take it as complement then nth else but some will think you like her
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i think praise leg ok leh not to the extent of her front then jiu ok liao. infact i also like see nice long slim legs
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guys say girls cannotOriginally posted by love kitty:i think praise leg ok leh not to the extent of her front then jiu ok liao. infact i also like see nice long slim legs
girls say guys can.
cuz guys see girls legs means pervert
but girls see guys legs is see he hairy annot -
lol i mean i gal la also will go see gal long nice slim *admire* i also will tell my friend if with my bf i will tell him see too =x haha
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Humans in general like praises. So, no matter which stage of friendship u do that, she will be bound to be happy.Originally posted by poo-see-boi:When/at what stage/at what level of friendship is it appropriate to praise a girl for (a)her character (b)her hair (c)her dimples (d)her legs (e)*hmm*..etc?
Sometimes, I feel like praising my female friends, but am held back for fear that the situation will become awkward. Or that they misinterpret and start to think too much (you know, sg gals can hardly take praise without thinkin you may be interested in them or you are some predator..jeeez). Worse, they take on a paranoid attitude towards me, or guys in general.
So,
speak!
If it is misintepreted, then all I can say is that the girl is too narrow-minded. Praising someone doesn't equal to liking her. -
x2Originally posted by nanren4ever:Humans in general like praises. So, no matter which stage of friendship u do that, she will be bound to be happy.
If it is misintepreted, then all I can say is that the girl is too narrow-minded. Praising someone doesn't equal to liking her. -
Not only she but he also like praises, it just that some guys in their exciting and overly emtion action like to over praise a girl that it become unrealistic. That that is really sarcastic. For eg, if i am fat, how can you praise me as being so slim just to have my body? So be realistic ya, you can praise me as, oh you have a full sexy female body, so nice. that will be better ya.Originally posted by nanren4ever:Humans in general like praises. So, no matter which stage of friendship u do that, she will be bound to be happy.
If it is misintepreted, then all I can say is that the girl is too narrow-minded. Praising someone doesn't equal to liking her.
So praising also need skill ya.