this just about sums up what i was gonna postOriginally posted by coffeeortea:well from the start of any friendship/relationship, i've been direct and upfront so most of my female friends like to ask for my opinion. let's say if ur not the sort but you wanna praise and make a comment about a female friend, i'd say u do it, keeping in mind not to cross the barrier too much.
agree...Originally posted by coffeeortea:well from the start of any friendship/relationship, i've been direct and upfront so most of my female friends like to ask for my opinion. let's say if ur not the sort but you wanna praise and make a comment about a female friend, i'd say u do it, keeping in mind not to cross the barrier too much.
some things are better left unsaid......Originally posted by rathcycle:most girls like sweet talking
so start anytime
speak what, you siao liao! or simply no bosses, just say what you like lah, if u think other think you paranoid, forever keep quiet better.Originally posted by poo-see-boi:When/at what stage/at what level of friendship is it appropriate to praise a girl for (a)her character (b)her hair (c)her dimples (d)her legs (e)*hmm*..etc?
Sometimes, I feel like praising my female friends, but am held back for fear that the situation will become awkward. Or that they misinterpret and start to think too much (you know, sg gals can hardly take praise without thinkin you may be interested in them or you are some predator..jeeez). Worse, they take on a paranoid attitude towards me, or guys in general.
So,
speak!
yeah,Originally posted by browniebaobao:i tink if u compliment her things like 'u look sweet in pink', 'u have a v nice smile' etc.. it's ok de..
but if u comment on her legs, cleavage etc.. will make her think u are a pervert.
guys say girls cannotOriginally posted by love kitty:i think praise leg ok leh not to the extent of her front then jiu ok liao. infact i also like see nice long slim legs
Humans in general like praises. So, no matter which stage of friendship u do that, she will be bound to be happy.Originally posted by poo-see-boi:When/at what stage/at what level of friendship is it appropriate to praise a girl for (a)her character (b)her hair (c)her dimples (d)her legs (e)*hmm*..etc?
Sometimes, I feel like praising my female friends, but am held back for fear that the situation will become awkward. Or that they misinterpret and start to think too much (you know, sg gals can hardly take praise without thinkin you may be interested in them or you are some predator..jeeez). Worse, they take on a paranoid attitude towards me, or guys in general.
So,
speak!
x2Originally posted by nanren4ever:Humans in general like praises. So, no matter which stage of friendship u do that, she will be bound to be happy.
If it is misintepreted, then all I can say is that the girl is too narrow-minded. Praising someone doesn't equal to liking her.
Not only she but he also like praises, it just that some guys in their exciting and overly emtion action like to over praise a girl that it become unrealistic. That that is really sarcastic. For eg, if i am fat, how can you praise me as being so slim just to have my body? So be realistic ya, you can praise me as, oh you have a full sexy female body, so nice. that will be better ya.Originally posted by nanren4ever:Humans in general like praises. So, no matter which stage of friendship u do that, she will be bound to be happy.
If it is misintepreted, then all I can say is that the girl is too narrow-minded. Praising someone doesn't equal to liking her.