Praising her

• coffeeortea

  12 Aug 07, 15:29

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Not only she but he also like praises, it just that some guys in their exciting and overly emtion action like to over praise a girl that it become unrealistic. That that is really sarcastic. For eg, if i am fat, how can you praise me as being so slim just to have my body? So be realistic ya, you can praise me as, oh you have a full sexy female body, so nice. that will be better ya.
  
  So praising also need skill ya.

  wow, if that kinda guy didn't say anything, we wouldn't have known that he's retarded.
• Zarks

  13 Aug 07, 17:34

  Originally posted by poo-see-boi:

  When/at what stage/at what level of friendship is it appropriate to praise a girl for (a)her character (b)her hair (c)her dimples (d)her legs (e)*hmm*..etc?
  
  Sometimes, I feel like praising my female friends, but am held back for fear that the situation will become awkward. Or that they misinterpret and start to think too much (you know, sg gals can hardly take praise without thinkin you may be interested in them or you are some predator..jeeez). Worse, they take on a paranoid attitude towards me, or guys in general.
  
  So,
  
  speak!
  
  

  If for friendship, i believe the best you can praise is only her characteristics.. her hair seems ok to praise.. but .. legs.. and *Hmm*.. lol it will give them the idea that you just a stalker and only love superficial.. if any of them felt that, you're doom man.. if you thk u can make gal think bout if u praise her superficial.. it wont work man.. saying gals pretty doesnt make them feel anyting cuz u knw why ? dozens of men already said that to her earlier than you.. so save it n do something different.. praise her characteristic. No matter wat stage of frenship.. unless you n her is already a couple
• Zarks

  13 Aug 07, 17:43

  One more thing.. some ppl are just saying their opinions but they themself never put it to the test. so beware of them..
  
  One thing for sure.. if you like this gal.. instead of praising her.. tease on her beauty or watsoever.. get her attracted to you cuz she cant believe that she THINKS she really pretty ( yea she is mayb) and you're like bust her on her that saying its a ridiculous for her to be beauty..then say something sweet.." but i like your characteristic, your beauty ? Sorry.. you're not even above average looking gal got wat i mean?Dont let her predict wat your goin to say
  
  if theres any accesories , complain it to her n tease her.. saying "what? is these thing from wet market" ? She'll love it
• sheri

  13 Aug 07, 23:51

  I don't get it. Why do you need to priase in the first place. Being a female, I hardly praise my female colleagues lei ....unless say the dress is pretty and I want to know where to buy.
  
  Coz like if you praise a person, they usually do not know how to react. E.g. if tommorrow your female colleague says "hey! nice trousers"...think you will feel weird too bah.
• comberbache

  14 Aug 07, 09:52

  i wouldnt worry too much abt it, as long as you keep the tone friendly and light. dont do it all the time of course, use moderation