Guys: Do you pay all the time?
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I was just thinking..
Guys: When you go out with your gf/wive, are you the 1 who pays for everything? Meaning everytime you go out, you are the 1 paying while she never volunteers to pay before..
In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat? -
Maybe.. most probably =) she is using n abusing u.Originally posted by constancebay:I was just thinking..
Guys: When you go out with your gf/wive, are you the 1 who pays for everything? Meaning everytime you go out, you are the 1 paying while she never volunteers to pay before..
In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat?
But if its my wife.. or gf of course i pay ma. if date , also lo.. unless she insists.. n date has higher chances she may just be using u to get some good free food. But i think a girl has to reasonably like u to go out to eat with u la.. if not eating with someone u dont like is really stress lo.. he he
can still eat meh.. if me i cannot even eat man.. -
sg girls want independence but still expect men to pay for everything.Originally posted by constancebay:I was just thinking..
Guys: When you go out with your gf/wive, are you the 1 who pays for everything? Meaning everytime you go out, you are the 1 paying while she never volunteers to pay before..
In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat? -
i try my best to pay everytime
act gentleman
but deep inside is...
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Well...some understanding ones would go dutch. Of course the 1st date guys pay for everything la. =P
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dates yea la.
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Your gf everytime ask you to pay?Originally posted by rathcycle:i try my best to pay everytime
act gentleman
but deep inside is... -
i know of women who always expect the guy to pay.
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What type of women are they?Originally posted by dragg:i know of women who always expect the guy to pay. -
Depends...
If it is a date, most likely i will treat her...
but if just normal meet up nia then who pay also nvm de... well me and my ex were not stingy on money though...
"In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat?"
It maybe a yes and a no answer...
well again everything depend...
You won't 100% know what someone is thinking... -
So every date that you go out with her, you will treat her in every date?Originally posted by popikachu:Depends...
If it is a date, most likely i will treat her...
but if just normal meet up nia then who pay also nvm de... well me and my ex were not stingy on money though...
"In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat?"
It maybe a yes and a no answer...
well again everything depend...
You won't 100% know what someone is thinking... -
Well... ... I guess it depends on the situation and the people you are going out with.
When I went out with guys, normally I would pay on the first date. And for the rest of the dates, its either going dutch or treating each other on other occasions.
But there is only 1 guy who refused to let me pay. Even if I made it clearly that it would be my treat but it always ended up with him paying. He will get angry if I tried to push him the $.
So, that depends on the situation and the people involved. -
no lah,Originally posted by constancebay:Your gf everytime ask you to pay?
but she is not very rich
and im more financially able..
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materialistic women.Originally posted by constancebay:What type of women are they? -
if you love her more, you pay loh...
if you ok ok only, then go dutch... until the day when you think you cannot live without her, then you pay...
every time pay, very siong one!!! -
Well the guy is richer than me, and I am doing part-time job at the moment as I will be going overseas later. So, his excuse is that "you are unemployed now" even though i insisted that I am working part-time.
Oh well...... -
How come you pay on the 1st date?Originally posted by ILPSY:Well... ... I guess it depends on the situation and the people you are going out with.
When I went out with guys, normally I would pay on the first date. And for the rest of the dates, its either going dutch or treating each other on other occasions.
But there is only 1 guy who refused to let me pay. Even if I made it clearly that it would be my treat but it always ended up with him paying. He will get angry if I tried to push him the $.
So, that depends on the situation and the people involved.
I thought is guys pay on the 1st date de
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Hahaha... because I won't feel bad if there's no 2nd date! hahaha...Originally posted by constancebay:How come you pay on the 1st date?
I thought is guys pay on the 1st date de
Personally, I feel that its better for a lady to pay for the first meal because I think its only fair and we won't give guys the impression that we are cashing on their expenses. Well, we are living in the modern society and women are already working. Thats my personal opinion. -
normal looking, working woman.Originally posted by constancebay:What type of women are they? -
I think if you all want to maintain good and healthy relationship.
Both pay half half.
If not at least must 7:3 or something.
Girls also must take the responsibility in a relationship ma. -
Maintain a ratio of 2:1, GUYS 2 - LADIES 1
Of cos,u don't try to be cheeky. Guys 2 times go hawker centre while the ladies one time is a posh restaurant
Be a gentleman but no need to pay all time.... -
girls also must zi dong
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usually i pay. actually. all the time i pay.
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alot girls very zi dong de...Originally posted by Seven_Dragon:girls also must zi dong
they will hint u like.. for eg...
"i like this very much sia... but very ex sia...
i no money sia..
i really want sia
limited edition sia...
dunno who will buy for me leh" -
She insist or u volunteer to be such great gentleman?Originally posted by dumbdumb!:usually i pay. actually. all the time i pay.
If she insist,dump her
Unless u got some kind of special agreement where all outing pay is fored out by her?