Guys: Do you pay all the time?
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Make her happy once a while loh but don't pamper her too much!Originally posted by rathcycle:alot girls very zi dong de...
they will hint u like.. for eg...
"i like this very much sia... but very ex sia...
i no money sia..
i really want sia
limited edition sia...
dunno who will buy for me leh" -
Yeah I ALWAYS pay. If you were on a date and you didn't pay then I can almost guarantee the girl will think you're a cheap bastard and you won't be going out for much longer. It's not like the girls always ask me to pay though usually they're nice enough to offer to split the bill but you gotta be a gentleman and treat her.
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if first date is ok la... Subsequent can start to share share a bit liao..Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Yeah I ALWAYS pay. If you were on a date and you didn't pay then I can almost guarantee the girl will think you're a cheap bastard and you won't be going out for much longer. It's not like the girls always ask me to pay though usually they're nice enough to offer to split the bill but you gotta be a gentleman and treat her. -
it always happenOriginally posted by CannyOng:Make her happy once a while loh but don't pamper her too much!
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to mi i think guys sld pay for meals de ma - gentleman act ma. but seriously i don mind going on dutch but my dear so nice he say don't wan, he pay for my meals >.< so my bf always pay for my meals but once in a while i pay for our meals too - like if i suggest to go some place like to celebrate his bdae or sth =D only meals he pay then if i wanna buy my own things i will pay by myself though he will tell me he wan buy for me. But once in a while i also let him pay =x like those ear rings or stuff like tt then got memories ma, like this ear ring is he buy de more special =D
i mean meals bf pay ok la but not to the extend of meals he pay buy all wadeva things also he pay that's like money sucker or atm. own things sld ownself pay ba -
first few days definitely must pay.
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yea so you seee the pt....Originally posted by love kitty:to mi i think guys sld pay for meals de ma - gentleman act ma. but seriously i don mind going on dutch but my dear so nice he say don't wan, he pay for my meals >.< so my bf always pay for my meals but once in a while i pay for our meals too - like if i suggest to go some place like to celebrate his bdae or sth =D only meals he pay then if i wanna buy my own things i will pay by myself though he will tell me he wan buy for me. But once in a while i also let him pay =x like those ear rings or stuff like tt then got memories ma, like this ear ring is he buy de more special =D
i mean meals bf pay ok la but not to the extend of meals he pay buy all wadeva things also he pay that's like money sucker or atm. own things sld ownself pay ba
either guys pay
or guys pay a part -
Huh! be gentleman mah, of course guy paid lah, me just wait to chop chop and chop carrots. No money, stay home eat instant noodle lah, want pretty gf, of course must pay some upfront fees (downpayment) mah.Originally posted by constancebay:I was just thinking..
Guys: When you go out with your gf/wive, are you the 1 who pays for everything? Meaning everytime you go out, you are the 1 paying while she never volunteers to pay before..
In such a scenario, is it possible that she does not like you and is just going out with you to get the free treat? -
no such thing as free pussy
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If you are living in your grandma's time - it is OK to pay when the gal is your date or your wife. You see, during my grandma's time, women don't work.
Fast forward today, if the gal works, she got PAY, so can't she pays???
Don't spoil them you silly guys! Oops, there are silly guys. -
last time when me still in army hor... got 1 ger me date always dun let me pay de... of coz later became my gf lah... then b my gf tat time still dun let me pay oso...
aft army le, me working le hor... she let me pay le lo... but now she's pple's wife le
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How did ut happen? U the one unfaithful???Originally posted by sunny6110:last time when me still in army hor... got 1 ger me date always dun let me pay de... of coz later became my gf lah... then b my gf tat time still dun let me pay oso...
aft army le, me working le hor... she let me pay le lo... but now she's pple's wife le -
my thinking abit traditional. so yes, i will pay for everything. if i have no $$ eat, she eats i drink plain water.
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abt half the time.
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Girls like that are hard to come by - you should cherish them when you see such girls.Originally posted by sunny6110:last time when me still in army hor... got 1 ger me date always dun let me pay de... of coz later became my gf lah... then b my gf tat time still dun let me pay oso...
aft army le, me working le hor... she let me pay le lo... but now she's pple's wife le
The point isn't so much an issue about money; rather, it says a lot about her principles and character and I guess women who take an active stake and play her part in a relationship are very attractive wife-material to many mature men. -
ya loh... if I am to die tmr... she's my only regret in life loOriginally posted by walesa:Girls like that are hard to come by - you should cherish them when you see such girls.
The point isn't so much an issue about money; rather, it says a lot about her principles and character and I guess women who take an active stake and play her part in a relationship are very attractive wife-material to many mature men.
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I'm glad I've no such regrets in life for a similar woman fitting the bill you describe is mine - not trying to rub it in, honest!Originally posted by sunny6110:ya loh... if I am to die tmr... she's my only regret in life lo -
I think this sentence sums up it all abt whether who shall be paying whos..Originally posted by walesa:Girls like that are hard to come by - you should cherish them when you see such girls.
The point isn't so much an issue about money; rather, it says a lot about her principles and character and I guess women who take an active stake and play her part in a relationship are very attractive wife-material to many mature men.
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tomorrow is a better dayOriginally posted by sunny6110:ya loh... if I am to die tmr... she's my only regret in life lo