I Can't Live With This Guilt Anymore!
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nope... i think the boyfriend never try HARD enough to pop her cherry, lame crap all the timeOriginally posted by stellazio:i think its more of she remained a virgin for so long hoping to give it up during the wedding night or so and this thing happened. -
how on earth did u guys know she hasn't had sex before in ur teens,with her bf or ex's?Originally posted by stellazio:i think its more of she remained a virgin for so long hoping to give it up during the wedding night or so and this thing happened. -
i think the boyfriend have no skill at all in popping a cherry. it is his loss, and another gain. -
I agree with you...in fact...that's how i feel now about myself..being dirty...i will definitely tell my bf the truth...even if he forgives me..i will leave him..he deserves better..i have made up my mind to tell him now..Originally posted by boka:U shouldn't carry on with the marriage and just tell your bf what happened that night.
A good person like him don't deserve someone that dirty and lose like u. -
I believe many people have been drunk before. But i have not heard of anyone getting drunk and mistake one person for another. Honestly, thought that only happens in the tv?Originally posted by GoodBook:Is this even possible? Drunk + emotional can mistake another guy for the boyfriend and give virginity to him.
Or there has to be a lot of interest in that other guy to start with? A lot more than the boyfriend whom she has kept chaste with for so many years.
Answers anyone?
And, I think someone who take so much discipline to preserve her virginity wouldnt give it away so easily too.
Thirdly, TS's engish is really pretty gd for a cosmetic promoter i think.
Last but not least, a manager giving out diamond necklace to express love in this age. hmmm.... quite rare too. i dont think retail floor manager who manages promoters earn a lot.
Well, since this is AA, lets just give TS the benefit of the doubts? -
think of the positive side lah, you are so naive, and yawn~~ what if your boyfriend still wants you, and ask you to rethink, after all, both of you have spend 4 years together and at the verge of getting married.Originally posted by Crystal_Gal:I agree with you...in fact...that's how i feel now about myself..being dirty...i will definitely tell my bf the truth...even if he forgives me..i will leave him..he deserves better..i have made up my mind to tell him now..
you are escaping from reality, grow up kid -
u r back~~!!Originally posted by blu_sky:I believe many people have been drunk before. But i have not heard of anyone getting drunk and mistake one person for another. Honestly, thought that only happens in the tv?
And, I think someone who take so much discipline to preserve her virginity wouldnt give it away so easily too.
Thirdly, TS's engish is really pretty gd for a cosmetic promoter i think.
Last but not least, a manager giving out diamond necklace to express love in this age. hmmm.... quite rare too. i dont think retail floor manager who manages promoters earn a lot.
Well, since this is AA, lets just give TS the benefit of the doubts?
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Life is not all about justice and morals only. At times, justice or morals may be sacrificed if we can produce greater goods to everyone.Originally posted by boka:I will not be happy nor will i be sad.
The aftermath of judgement does not concern me.
She did something wrong and by justice and morals,she has to admit without weighing her options.
What happens after does not involve me just like how criminal sucide does not concern the judge.
Maybe you are still too young to understand that. -
Yes i amOriginally posted by sunny6110:u r back~~!! 
So touched i am remembered -
u know thats very against the code of justice don't u?Originally posted by allentyb:think of the positive side lah, you are so naive, and yawn~~ what if your boyfriend still wants you, and ask you to rethink, after all, both of you have spend 4 years together and at the verge of getting married.
you are escaping from reality, grow up kid -
you are also a naive person. from what you have been posting in this thread so farOriginally posted by blu_sky:Life is not all about justice and morals only. At times, justice or morals may be sacrificed if we can produce greater goods to everyone.
Maybe you are still too young to understand that. -
u oso got things to confide in AA ar?Originally posted by blu_sky:Yes i am
So touched i am remembered -
men are cheapOriginally posted by boka:u know thats very against the code of justice don't u? -
and in what position are you to judge?Originally posted by boka:I will not be happy nor will i be sad.
The aftermath of judgement does not concern me.
She did something wrong and by justice and morals,she has to admit without weighing her options.
What happens after does not involve me just like how criminal sucide does not concern the judge.
everyone makes a mistake, do everyone have to die for it? -
Time and time again i've stressed that justice shouldn' be reformative.Originally posted by blu_sky:Life is not all about justice and morals only. At times, justice or morals may be sacrificed if we can produce greater goods to everyone.
Maybe you are still too young to understand that.
justice is not affiliated with compassion,don't intewind them together. -
hah! nah... just some time to killOriginally posted by sunny6110:u oso got things to confide in AA ar?
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Anyone can judge as long as they follow the judicial code.Originally posted by stellazio:and in what position are you to judge?
everyone makes a mistake, do everyone have to die for it?
When in any post have i proclaim her death?
i merely said that judgement and corrections has to be made but what her emotion decides to direct her after is no concern of mine or anyone. -
i must say i felt a hard-on coming on while reading the sharing.
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then why is there such a thing known as leniency in the court?Originally posted by boka:justice is not affiliated with compassion,don't intewind them together. -
Can see some of the insensitve and childish comment here. Doesnt mean ur occupation = personal character! And at this point of time still can ask her to find new bf!!!
Well my friend told me before, when if u want to bed a gal, best time is to get her drunk when she is feeling down. Cos by that time gals cant differentiate what is right and wrong. In ur case I think its a mistake that can be prevent but what done is done, no point thinking why u did it in the first place. Some gals do make this mistakes and u r not the first......
I suggest...
1) u dun tell him the suituation unless u wana ruin ur relationship. End ur personal contact with ur manager and carry on ur life.
2)If u cant take the gulit, its best to heart to heart with ur bf and prepare for the worse. At least u can live ur life with nothing to hide.
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haha! you think i will bother about what a person who is as naive and childish as to "Originally posted by allentyb:you are also a naive person. from what you have been posting in this thread so far
wants to be king and dethrone FI" think? Talking about childishness and naivety! -
generally are but idealogist and prideful individual like me never fallen prey.Originally posted by allentyb:men are cheap -
Law are above all but humans have meddle with the laws to suit the needs of their people and land,thus making it fallible.Originally posted by stellazio:then why is there such a thing known as leniency in the court? -
i will reserve my opinion on TS, and i am not going to be harsh on my comment on this thread, i still think blu_sky, you are too naive, and there is no benefit of doubt here, it is very crystal clear of what have happen so far, and you lack of the ability to comprehend this matter,
TS shouldn't have accepted the diamond necklace at all, shouldn't she have think of what is the manager intention, and since she should have avoid him, why did she has to call him up? and isn't there anybody that she can call up to pours her woes to?
and seriously, i think TS is a terrible mood, i shalt not provoke her at all, she very well, knows that manager likes her, and since he is available that times, oh well, things have happen, and now she is escaping from reality, you are just another girl, that i have seen, tsk tsk, i pity singaporean woman -
u got time ar?Originally posted by blu_sky:hah! nah... just some time to kill
me got a lot of xim shi to tell u leh...