Originally posted by Zarks:
FOr this one, i dont have wide knowledge bout this... in the laws, yes. Im not sure if Crystal Gal wan to bring this into laws and check if she could sue that manager.
Hi Zarks, thanks....but i do not intend to sue him..i have known him for two years, and only i know his character well enough..though I may not like him, but he has always been like a fatherly figure to me..many times, he confided to me his family probs and there were many times when i did confide in him when i had problems with my ex-bf's mum and cant confide with my ex-bf..
He has never done anyting ungentlemanly to me before..and on that fateful night itself..we were both high in emotions and heavily intoxicated...
As I mentioned in my past postings....i don't dare to say that I am 100% unaware of what was going on.........i was drunk..yes....but if i say i totally don't know what is happening...then i am lying...i keep thinking over the past month....on that night...i did think he was my boyfriend then...but maybe it was also because of his sense of security and reassurances/maturity (which i had really hoped to receive from my ex-bf)...that caused me to make such a mistake..i did make the first move first...and sadly to say...a willing party in the wrong sense...
I hate to say it....but i am really grateful to my manager...i don;t blame him for what happened...i know he is having a horrible time too....he is feeling very guilty for what happened as well...maybe others may think i am naive to believe him....but i know him long enough to judge him....he is a perfect gentleman...the reason why he confided his love for me is because he is confused just like me at that time....his family problems is really too complicated..
The fateful night should never have happened...and i take full responsibility for my current situation....by confessing to my ex-bf and leaving my manager once and for all...i hope to move on with life....i will live with this guilt forever, but i do hope that all will move on..