Stuck life
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My life is stagnant. Stuck somewhere. Not moving. Not improving. No growth. Unlike Singapore's 6-7%.
Doing ad-hoc jobs that allow me to support myself. Simple routine life. A life that limits. A life that worries. A life that's mediocre.
Am always hoping for that big break-
that fills up my time fruitfully,
doing what I love to do,
able to treat my loved ones generously,
own a home of my own(even a 2-room HDB is good enough),
car of my own,
a significant other whom I can take care of.
For now, I'm a sheltered mummy's boy. Like an ordinary small character. Like someone of no value. Powerless.
I hate it when folks ask me the same old questions," what are you doing? How much do you earn now? "
You could've been there, done that.
Or rather you're reaching there..
Care to inspire me
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How old are you? What are your dreams? Do you have any? What can you do to achieve your dreams? And finally, be realistic about your dreams.
Make something happen tomorrow! -
I'm in my late 20s.
My dreams are:
that fills up my time fruitfully,
doing what I love to do,
able to treat my loved ones generously,
own a home of my own(even a 2-room HDB is good enough),
car of my own,
a significant other whom I can take care of.
I've been thinking of ways to make $. But the issue is that I haven't gotten my big break. I don't know how to explain, but it's similar to ... someone likes your work & he's willing to pay. Then words spread, & calls start to come in.. then I feel useful, earns money & is able to fulfill (above-mentioned) before I pass away.
Has it happened to you? Or something similar? -
If not, this mediocre life will carry on. (Till death)
May inspiration come.
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don't mean to burst your bubble, but just take what you have and enjoy it. dun think too much about getting more money. think so much also no difference tio bo?
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I felt like that at one time. Now i am just looking at the light at the end of the tunnel. Not the oncoming train.. but the light..
U have to make opportunities yourself. Look around i am sure there are ways. U just need to move your brain of yours a bit. Everyone is looking for the BIG BREAK.. but whether u can grab it when it comes or see it is another thing.
The big break u are talking about..sometimes wont come until later. Just like talent if u are spotted... BANG ! u are on.. but if not , u just gotta MAKE urself seen. Its like that one.. u gotta show what u got man... ppl notice , then its another thing.
Anyways i think SG , if u are in SG , the market very stable and the good ppl stays there and if u are not as good u stay where u are. So a stable market just means less opportunity. Harder.. u gotta be damn good or else u gonna stay there for a long long time. Unless u pioneer something new. -
Why are you doing ad hoc jobs? considered getting a permanent job? past work experience and qualification? any skill?Originally posted by dont know much:I'm in my late 20s.
My dreams are:
that fills up my time fruitfully,
doing what I love to do,
able to treat my loved ones generously,
own a home of my own(even a 2-room HDB is good enough),
car of my own,
a significant other whom I can take care of.
I've been thinking of ways to make $. But the issue is that I haven't gotten my big break. I don't know how to explain, but it's similar to ... someone likes your work & he's willing to pay. Then words spread, & calls start to come in.. then I feel useful, earns money & is able to fulfill (above-mentioned) before I pass away. Has it happened to you? Or something similar?
Breakthrough dont just happen over night, unless it is toto.
Believe with a permanent job, what you wanna acheive (2 rm HDB flat) shouldnt be too hard.
You not young liao, muz buck up. Jia you! -
Originally posted by dont know much:
What The FAG man.. !! You knw wat ? No one here can help u solve your prob unless yourself man,
My life is stagnant. Stuck somewhere. Not moving. Not improving. No growth. Unlike Singapore's 6-7%.
Doing ad-hoc jobs that allow me to support myself. Simple routine life. A life that limits. A life that worries. A life that's mediocre.
Am always hoping for [b]that big break-
that fills up my time fruitfully,
doing what I love to do,
able to treat my loved ones generously,
own a home of my own(even a 2-room HDB is good enough),
car of my own,
a significant other whom I can take care of.
For now, I'm a sheltered mummy's boy. Like an ordinary small character. Like someone of no value. Powerless.
I hate it when folks ask me the same old questions," what are you doing? How much do you earn now? "
You could've been there, done that.
Or rather you're reaching there..
Care to inspire me ?
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Wat i can see from you:
a) Low motivated person
b) Never believe yourself
c) Give up easily
d) YOU'RE STILL DREAMING
e) You cant control yourself of doing something more important
f) Your mind telling you something but your body doing something that is COMFORTABLE for you but your MIND dont wan it bcuz ur conscious mind knw it wont benefit you. BUt your HABIT make your life still the same..and your body recognise your HABIT
You know wat? If you wan to be successful, u have to SACRIFICE alot.. yea.. u got wat i mean,, a lot !!
a) DO things you love to do? -- Y dun use that time to do some part time work ?
b)own a home?? - DOnt u dare to talk bout it if u dun sacrifice enuff..
c) Car of your own ?? How much you sacrifice to be able to get a car?
d) Ppl asking you how much you earn... Whom to blame ? Them ? Hate who ? Them ? or u hate yourself for being that way?
OK enuff !!
What make ppl fail ?
a) No goal
b) Pessimistic
c) No action
Mayb u got your goal, true... Mayb you being positive .. true also,, but wheres your action ?
OUr thoughts and systems can only be considered great if they have successfully overcome resistance. IF this cannot be understood, nothing can achieved.. Hope you understand this..
Let me repeat..
No one can help u but urself.. trust me.. I've been in the place like u did...
The only one who can motivate and inspire you , is none other but the desire in yourself.. I can see u got desire to change.. to improve...
..but let me say this too... ur wil power.. is still not enuff to make you move...
U will knw how strong is the will power required to make you move and sacrifice...
Again.. only u can help yourself.. even if 100 ppl give their advise or encourage you, i can tell you.. none of them works on you but yourself to learn it yourself...
U still dont understand ? Its the will power n determination of you... not ppls advise to you.. if you still cannot move, that means you're just talking... all your dreams n goals.. are just a talk ... Please remember it..
Let me knw whn u finally able to get a car... -
I believe my words here is better than all other ppl here..
Cuz why?
I've been in that place of you before... I was like you. A loser.. Powerless...NO value... Being laughed...
But im here today a totally different ppl from wat i used to be..
Just never give up, my fren..
Even its 1000 times u try to wake up,, and 1000 times you failed..
Wake up again...
Think bout wat ppl said to you to start off your fire in your heart.. Prove to them wat you're capable of doing..
When u did it, the nex time ppl telling you "How much is ur salary now"
You can show them 5 digits of salary .. or just show them a pretty expensive car...
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The big break doesnt just drop from the sky, you gotta work for it
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Join the UN and serve as a humanitarian workers.
It'll be utmost fulfilling -
Will you please Quit typing like a small baby??.Originally posted by boka:Join the UN and serve as a humanitarian workers.
It'll be utmost fulfilling -
lol, nicely saidOriginally posted by angel7030:Will you please Quit typing like a small baby??. -
Originally posted by dont know much:
Uncle, go for a course, study something, you will get friends and make your life more enjoyable, you will learn more things, gain more knowledge. Get busy for something worthwhile ya.
My life is stagnant. Stuck somewhere. Not moving. Not improving. No growth. Unlike Singapore's 6-7%.
Doing ad-hoc jobs that allow me to support myself. Simple routine life. A life that limits. A life that worries. A life that's mediocre.
Am always hoping for [b]that big break-
that fills up my time fruitfully,
doing what I love to do,
able to treat my loved ones generously,
own a home of my own(even a 2-room HDB is good enough),
car of my own,
a significant other whom I can take care of.
For now, I'm a sheltered mummy's boy. Like an ordinary small character. Like someone of no value. Powerless.
I hate it when folks ask me the same old questions," what are you doing? How much do you earn now? "
You could've been there, done that.
Or rather you're reaching there..
Care to inspire me ?
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Now be a good mummy's boy, start to think wisely and mummy will be happy ya. -
hi bytch.Originally posted by angel7030:Will you please Quit typing like a small baby??. -
Ok.Originally posted by Zarks:lol, nicely said
U are on my flamelist. -
Hi Swine.Originally posted by boka:hi bytch. -
Oh, hi its u again..in my blacklistOriginally posted by boka:Ok.
U are on my flamelist. -
Great,u both can be flamers.
Let's play this game,i like challenge and games.
No hard feelings,i just suddenly felt like having flame buddies who can flame.
Don;t u tink challenge are fun?
Challenging for the sake of challenges. -
get married? =P
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nobody stopping u from enjoying the flame war, but pls do it in ur own thread instead of in other ppl's thread.Originally posted by boka:Great,u both can be flamers.
Let's play this game,i like challenge and games.
No hard feelings,i just suddenly felt like having flame buddies who can flame.
Don;t u tink challenge are fun?
Challenging for the sake of challenges. -
It's only when one'd achieved something.. that makes one truly happy. I termed it miracle.
For gentlemen are supposed to bring home the beacon.
I'm able for any stuff & believe there's much more things which I am not aware of.
Not afraid of anything, but a mediocre life- one that is timid, useless, of no value.
Not afraid of death. Although it can be an end to everything, I won't choose it. Until death chooses me.
Speak to me (if you allow).
Make use of me (if you need manpower). -
Originally posted by dont know much:
Why don't u work on a point first... I know u got many dreams but wrok on one at a time. Like that maybe easier to handle.
My life is stagnant. Stuck somewhere. Not moving. Not improving. No growth. Unlike Singapore's 6-7%.
Doing ad-hoc jobs that allow me to support myself. Simple routine life. A life that limits. A life that worries. A life that's mediocre.
Am always hoping for [b]that big break-
that fills up my time fruitfully,
doing what I love to do,
able to treat my loved ones generously,
own a home of my own(even a 2-room HDB is good enough),
car of my own,
a significant other whom I can take care of.
For now, I'm a sheltered mummy's boy. Like an ordinary small character. Like someone of no value. Powerless.
I hate it when folks ask me the same old questions," what are you doing? How much do you earn now? "
You could've been there, done that.
Or rather you're reaching there..
Care to inspire me ?
[/b]
My big break point came when I met a gal friend. She changes some aspect of my life. And I have reach my half of my life goal.... -
Originally posted by rainee:nobody stopping u from enjoying the flame war, but pls do it in ur own thread instead of in other ppl's thread.
Thanks Rainee. To the rest: please respect other's thread.
Cheers -
I already told u.Originally posted by dont know much:It's only when one'd achieved something.. that makes one truly happy. I termed it miracle.
For gentlemen are supposed to bring home the beacon.
I'm able for any stuff & believe there's much more things which I am not aware of.
Not afraid of anything, but a mediocre life- one that is timid, useless, of no value.
Not afraid of death. Although it can be an end to everything, I won't choose it. Until death chooses me.
Speak to me (if you allow).
Make use of me (if you need manpower).
There is great fulfillment in joining and serving as a humanitarian worker,helping those in less fortunate countries.
That fulfillment cannot be measure by monetary value.
I believe u are like u who crave great fulfillment and possess a great passion in doing so,willing to put down personal happiness and lay down our life.
That hunger keeps coming doesn't it?Every night haunting u and leaving u dull the next morning.
I have already given up tons of happiness just to be closer to my dreams.
Help the fortunate,maybe i can see u serving beside me in the years to come.