Advice Pls.. Urgent..
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From my previous post i state that i am having a no string attached relationship... It lasted well till a few days back when i brought him to my place. At my place i think he saw clothes and photos of my ex which i have not thrown away.. He never say anything but after that he went m.i.a. He did not on his hp. although he got reply to me once saying his hp is spoil but when he off his hp again i find the resaon wierd because he can easily get a new hp. My friend think that mayb he is unhappy about the stuffs he saw at my place but cant ask because we are not offical and he is in no position to ask. If he ask i may ask him for status and if he did not want to committ then i will be like slapping himself on the face. I dunno if my friend is right? I am starting to worry wat happen to him.. Any advice?
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if u mentioned its no string attached, y are u so worried?
its gonna end someday, just how soon -
no strings attached then think so much for what
just screw and forget. -
y u still ur x's stuff in the 1st place?
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I may be silly but i cant let go.. I still care alot for him. I dun mnd a non committed r/s because this is wat he wants.. Actually im hoping one day we can b official but suddenly this happen. Even if he wants to end it i still hope we can remain as friends. I dont wan to lose all news of him.. My whole mind is in a mess now
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It because me and my ex was together for 5 yrs so his things are quite alot and my place is going to renovate soon, alot of stuffs will be thrown so lazy to pack his stuffs away.. SAD..
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haha, so much for a no strings attached relationship
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There is no way out of your situation. You broke the rules of the game and fell for him. You have to take the risk. Ask him outright - "Do you think there is a possibility of us being an item since we are having sex already?"
That is assuming you both ARE engaging in sexual intimacy.
If he said yes to your question then good for you but if he say no, what will your reaction be? Are you able to handle the rejection? -
honestly, there is still some strings attached in every rs.
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it jus depends how many. and when it ends, depends hw many u want to cut....
u decide la. hw u wan this relationship to go on? do u want it? dun wan it? -
U are worryign now,there is already string attached.
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Let me tell u one thing la..Originally posted by Ke_Xin:From my previous post i state that i am having a no string attached relationship... It lasted well till a few days back when i brought him to my place. At my place i think he saw clothes and photos of my ex which i have not thrown away.. He never say anything but after that he went m.i.a. He did not on his hp. although he got reply to me once saying his hp is spoil but when he off his hp again i find the resaon wierd because he can easily get a new hp. My friend think that mayb he is unhappy about the stuffs he saw at my place but cant ask because we are not offical and he is in no position to ask. If he ask i may ask him for status and if he did not want to committ then i will be like slapping himself on the face. I dunno if my friend is right? I am starting to worry wat happen to him.. Any advice?
You're a shyt !! Are you goin out dating with him for sometime?
if yes, then why you still keep your ex photo ? Still miss him ar ? or you just feel lonely and wan some1 to accompany you after broke up with your ex, and happened this guy who likes you are there for you,..
Are you playing with this guy's feeling ar ? So shyt.. You really like your current guy or wat?
If i were tat guy ar , let me tell you la.. i think you're nothing but a jerk.. goin out with me n suddenly , boom.. your ex photo still there hugging you???
Conclusion, you're a shyt.. if you never know wat you want , i think u better dun play with this guy's feeling.. by the way he acted, it seems this is not his 1st time experienced this thing... for sure if i were him, i dont wan to be with a gal who still cant forgot her ex... what for ? to play with my heart then go back to ex again ???
YOu're a piece of shyt -
x2Originally posted by newcomer:honestly, there is still some strings attached in every rs. -
Fark, i did not read bout your " EX CLOTHES" oh, no wonder he ran away !!Originally posted by Ke_Xin:From my previous post i state that i am having a no string attached relationship... It lasted well till a few days back when i brought him to my place. At my place i think he saw clothes and photos of my ex which i have not thrown away.. He never say anything but after that he went m.i.a. He did not on his hp. although he got reply to me once saying his hp is spoil but when he off his hp again i find the resaon wierd because he can easily get a new hp. My friend think that mayb he is unhappy about the stuffs he saw at my place but cant ask because we are not offical and he is in no position to ask. If he ask i may ask him for status and if he did not want to committ then i will be like slapping himself on the face. I dunno if my friend is right? I am starting to worry wat happen to him.. Any advice?
EX CLOTHES ??? WTF !!! -
then tell it to him.......what are u waiting forOriginally posted by Ke_Xin:I may be silly but i cant let go.. I still care alot for him. I dun mnd a non committed r/s because this is wat he wants.. Actually im hoping one day we can b official but suddenly this happen. Even if he wants to end it i still hope we can remain as friends. I dont wan to lose all news of him.. My whole mind is in a mess now
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Yalor yalor! Wham bham! Goodbye Ma'am/Man!
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WTf is that !!! if u really wan him, u wud mind if its a committed r/s or not la.. wtf wtf, i cant believe this gal !Originally posted by Ke_Xin:I may be silly but i cant let go.. I still care alot for him. I dun mnd a non committed r/s because this is wat he wants.. Actually im hoping one day we can b official but suddenly this happen. Even if he wants to end it i still hope we can remain as friends. I dont wan to lose all news of him.. My whole mind is in a mess now -
mess mess mess,, think of a way to meet him face to face la.. think mess for wat??Originally posted by Ke_Xin:I may be silly but i cant let go.. I still care alot for him. I dun mnd a non committed r/s because this is wat he wants.. Actually im hoping one day we can b official but suddenly this happen. Even if he wants to end it i still hope we can remain as friends. I dont wan to lose all news of him.. My whole mind is in a mess now
Plus if he dun wan a commited r/s , y still be with him ? this proves hes just a jerk playing around with your feeling la. This also proves he dont wan to get attached and by that he can still go out with other gal frens !!! What a jerk man !
Sory la, i dont thk he really loves you... if a guy loves a gal, they wud have commited themself into r/s . If he really loves you, he would have talk like a MAN about ur ex stuff instead of running away ! Pui ! I look down on this man ! -
It's a no string attached relationship. I guess that how the guy could react, no obligation to reply you. Is this period of time a trial? If he really like you, i don't think he will really care whether you have had your ex-bf stuffs. On the other hand, perhaps you can ask him why he didn't get a hp causally.Originally posted by Ke_Xin:From my previous post i state that i am having a no string attached relationship... It lasted well till a few days back when i brought him to my place. At my place i think he saw clothes and photos of my ex which i have not thrown away.. He never say anything but after that he went m.i.a. He did not on his hp. although he got reply to me once saying his hp is spoil but when he off his hp again i find the resaon wierd because he can easily get a new hp. My friend think that mayb he is unhappy about the stuffs he saw at my place but cant ask because we are not offical and he is in no position to ask. If he ask i may ask him for status and if he did not want to committ then i will be like slapping himself on the face. I dunno if my friend is right? I am starting to worry wat happen to him.. Any advice? -
i think you are too much.Originally posted by Zarks:Let me tell u one thing la..
You're a shyt !! Are you goin out dating with him for sometime?
if yes, then why you still keep your ex photo ? Still miss him ar ? or you just feel lonely and wan some1 to accompany you after broke up with your ex, and happened this guy who likes you are there for you,..
Are you playing with this guy's feeling ar ? So shyt.. You really like your current guy or wat?
If i were tat guy ar , let me tell you la.. i think you're nothing but a jerk.. goin out with me n suddenly , boom.. your ex photo still there hugging you???
Conclusion, you're a shyt.. if you never know wat you want , i think u better dun play with this guy's feeling.. by the way he acted, it seems this is not his 1st time experienced this thing... for sure if i were him, i dont wan to be with a gal who still cant forgot her ex... what for ? to play with my heart then go back to ex again ???
YOu're a piece of shyt
firstly, she is not in a committed r/s with him.
secondly, even tho break up le, she still has the right to keep photos of her exs. got anything wrong meh? if the guy is confident with himself, juz an ex's pic wun affect him that great. -
can someone explain what a non-commited R/S is all about not even emotional strings
i am seriously wondering how this is so.....the guy is just protecting himself knowing that girl still thinks of EX & guy has no confident so he can just MIA w/o explaining since its non-committed.
in this case, then TS shouldn't fret a least bit. -
thats why lor.. i just couldnt understand why still keeping the ex's thing..whats worse , the guy might saw the ex's clothes? I mean, if your goin out with some1, y still keep it? yea, its not wrong like what some ppl might say,, but.. just imagine what would u think if your goin-to-b-gf still keep her ex pic and also CLOTHES...Originally posted by de_middle:can someone explain what a non-commited R/S is all about not even emotional strings
i am seriously wondering how this is so.....the guy is just protecting himself knowing that girl still thinks of EX & guy has no confident so he can just MIA w/o explaining since its non-committed.
in this case, then TS shouldn't fret a least bit.
sory man, i coudlnt accept it.. how can i know if shes still liking that ex? sometimes , u know u can trust.. but u cant just ignore what'd u saw.. Seeing is believing.. even if she said its nothing.. but somehow i will feel something..
Its more to respect anyway, i would have just throw away my ex's pic. Presents still can keep.. but pics.. its already over.. if im with new gal, i don expect her to see my ex pic.. cuz now im with her.. the past shud be thrown away.. not to delay or lazy..
I dont know man, im not that open-minded if the gal i like still keep their ex's pic... sometimes u never know if a gal you like or trust telling you lies.. i believe some of us were being foolish to trust the gal they like and ended up they didnt even love u at the 1st place..
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If it really due to my ex stuff i admit it my fault. He knows how much i like him and the is he who dont wan to commit. All the time we been in a no string attach r/s e also never mention that he wan us to be official. It not i want a no string attach r/s actually im also hurting badly inside but im afraid if i force him to make a decision i may scared him away. I cant bear to lose him. Some of you may say i broke the rules of the game and yes i did cos i really fell for him.
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Then you are selling yourself short young lady. You have yourself to blame as you went along with this so-called n/s attached relationship right from the start. Because you are afraid of losing him even from the beginning that is why you refuse to voice out. Have you sounded out right from the beginning you wouldn't have to be in your present dilemma. Zhi zao fan nao.Originally posted by Ke_Xin:If it really due to my ex stuff i admit it my fault. He knows how much i like him and the is he who dont wan to commit. All the time we been in a no string attach r/s e also never mention that he wan us to be official. It not i want a no string attach r/s actually im also hurting badly inside but im afraid if i force him to make a decision i may scared him away. I cant bear to lose him. Some of you may say i broke the rules of the game and yes i did cos i really fell for him.
So, now there is no way to go about your situation but brave the storm and face the 'dong dong chiang'. Ask him!!! If he don't want well, nothing more to lose liao since you oredi lose so much. Start a fresh with someone new and don't be so dumb as not to state your intention right from the start this time. -
Go reflect yourself on the mirror, usually a guy dun call back or m.i.a is that he dun like your face, not pretty and also your character suck. So, start to change ya.Originally posted by Ke_Xin:From my previous post i state that i am having a no string attached relationship... It lasted well till a few days back when i brought him to my place. At my place i think he saw clothes and photos of my ex which i have not thrown away.. He never say anything but after that he went m.i.a. He did not on his hp. although he got reply to me once saying his hp is spoil but when he off his hp again i find the resaon wierd because he can easily get a new hp. My friend think that mayb he is unhappy about the stuffs he saw at my place but cant ask because we are not offical and he is in no position to ask. If he ask i may ask him for status and if he did not want to committ then i will be like slapping himself on the face. I dunno if my friend is right? I am starting to worry wat happen to him.. Any advice?