Advice Pls.. Urgent..
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It is more like you think too much, keeping the pics can mean absolutely nothing. It might mean that she doesnt have time to clean it out, doesn't mean she is still attracted to the ex...Originally posted by Zarks:thats why lor.. i just couldnt understand why still keeping the ex's thing..whats worse , the guy might saw the ex's clothes? I mean, if your goin out with some1, y still keep it? yea, its not wrong like what some ppl might say,, but.. just imagine what would u think if your goin-to-b-gf still keep her ex pic and also CLOTHES...
sory man, i coudlnt accept it.. how can i know if shes still liking that ex? sometimes , u know u can trust.. but u cant just ignore what'd u saw.. Seeing is believing.. even if she said its nothing.. but somehow i will feel something..
Its more to respect anyway, i would have just throw away my ex's pic. Presents still can keep.. but pics.. its already over.. if im with new gal, i don expect her to see my ex pic.. cuz now im with her.. the past shud be thrown away.. not to delay or lazy..
I dont know man, im not that open-minded if the gal i like still keep their ex's pic... sometimes u never know if a gal you like or trust telling you lies.. i believe some of us were being foolish to trust the gal they like and ended up they didnt even love u at the 1st place..
You can only understand someone if you understand their lies...
A guy who is confident and secure in the rs will not be affected by a small thing like this, or at least would talk it out with the gf before going MIA
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are u tat guy in lead?Originally posted by Zarks:WTf is that !!! if u really wan him, u wud mind if its a committed r/s or not la.. wtf wtf, i cant believe this gal !
why is ur reaction so so big???
it takes 2 hands to clap, dun put all the blame to TS la...
i wont say she is right but obviously, not totally her fault given tat its the guy who doesnt wan any string attached ma..
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I reckon this MIA thingy is just an excuse to terminate the R/S. (Sorry no pun intended but this is just a fact of life )Originally posted by Ke_Xin:If it really due to my ex stuff i admit it my fault. He knows how much i like him and the is he who dont wan to commit. All the time we been in a no string attach r/s e also never mention that he wan us to be official. It not i want a no string attach r/s actually im also hurting badly inside but im afraid if i force him to make a decision i may scared him away. I cant bear to lose him. Some of you may say i broke the rules of the game and yes i did cos i really fell for him.
In my opinion, a guy who never wants upfrontal commitment in the 1st place would never want to commit eventually. Relax though, this is just my own subjective view, being a guy who is non-commital as well.
Remember, words are cheap... Gd luck
Cheers
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Hp off coz he's now in a session humping someone else and doesn't want interruptions to his rythm lor......... Off 10 times = hump 10 others, get it?
No strings attached=free for all right? So........
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well u nv know if tat guy is a player?
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my ex return everything to me wihch belong to me even those Unnecessary things..Originally posted by Ke_Xin:It because me and my ex was together for 5 yrs so his things are quite alot and my place is going to renovate soon, alot of stuffs will be thrown so lazy to pack his stuffs away.. SAD..
but she never return me my HDD which alot of movies songs games photos inside -
aih just forget him la..
he proves himself an irresponsible guy, dont u thk so ? ok , mayb the ex's thing make him run away,, but i totally dont agree with guy running away without explanation.. guy who do that is a totally irresponsible guy.
just do watever u wan to do, renovate your house or something like that.. do more important stuff.. u did ur best to contact him but it is he doesnt wan to talk to u.. so why not give up and do your own things 1st? do u really wan to waste your time for this irresponsible guy ?
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Dear Ke-Xin,
Ur Post is like slapping ur own face..1st u said it is a no-string attached r/s, then u said he suddenly MIA, PROBABLY cos he had saw ur ex's items in ur house.
Now, WHY wld anybody mind anything if it's a no-string attached r/s??
& if u really mind, do something. From my understandin of ur post, it seems like tat guy cares too, so wat's seem to be the prob tat is hinderin him & keepin away frm u? If it's onli about the items in ur house tat is upsetting him, a man wld speak up, not run away & avoiding ur calls. Wat is tis? A TCS drama, huh?
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no string attached relationship means just hugs/kisses/whatever whenever you guys feel like it and do not hold the other party responsible...
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Tats why i PUI at this kind of guy also,, my opinion is that this guy is not the responsible guy or committed guy. TO be with him in future means disasterOriginally posted by RedizAlertz:Dear Ke-Xin,
Ur Post is like slapping ur own face..1st u said it is a no-string attached r/s, then u said he suddenly MIA, PROBABLY cos he had saw ur ex's items in ur house.
Now, WHY wld anybody mind anything if it's a no-string attached r/s??
& if u really mind, do something. From my understandin of ur post, it seems like tat guy cares too, so wat's seem to be the prob tat is hinderin him & keepin away frm u? If it's onli about the items in ur house tat is upsetting him, a man wld speak up, not run away & avoiding ur calls. Wat is tis? A TCS drama, huh?
I wonder.. if he got kidnapped.. or mayb suddenly he went to doc and diagnosed he had cancer so he doesnt wan to tell this TS lol.. well.. if thats the worst case scenario -
I tried asking my ger friend to call one of his friend and i hear his voice but did not manage to understand wat he was saying cos i am very drunk tat day but i can sense he is also high. I did msg his friend to ask him to give me a call but yet i did not hear from him. It had been 2 days le. I really dont know wat i did wrong. Really dont wish to be sentence to death without any reason. Wat should i do?
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Ke_xin,Originally posted by Ke_Xin:I tried asking my ger friend to call one of his friend and i hear his voice but did not manage to understand wat he was saying cos i am very drunk tat day but i can sense he is also high. I did msg his friend to ask him to give me a call but yet i did not hear from him. It had been 2 days le. I really dont know wat i did wrong. Really dont wish to be sentence to death without any reason. Wat should i do?
You are feeling
because you are being dumped.
It's not necessary you have feelings for him.
You feel like the loser.
It's like a game of SNAP.
You win some, you loose some.
Don't be too hard on yourself.
Can't hold your ground?
Can't take the heat ?
Don't play the no strings attached r/s game.
Just stick to the conventional ones.
Still wanna be the player ?
Rule number 48.
NEVER bring him HOME.
Rule number 15.
If he goes missing, it's HIS loss.
Get over it.
The more you try to contact him, the bigger he is the winner.
So stop making yourself the pathetic loser and move on.
There are other fishes out there for you to play with.