You can try to find out what went wrong during the relationship. Is there someone new whom you make a comparison? Or did the relationship just became monotonous? Or both of you have character differences? Or she's too temperamental and you can't handle that. Then talk with her to work things out. Maybe you can survive this relatioship.
However, if you have already considered all possible options and you can't work things out. Then letting her go will be the next best thing. Most importantly, be honest with her but as gently as possible. She or her friends may hate you right now, call you names etc. However, it is a form of proper closure. Girlfriends can usually tell instinctively if you are telling the truth or not.
Learning to deal with people be it your mum, your gf, your teacher or your boss is all part and parcel of life.
Sakuraflower
dun think so much !
stay happy and if u do not love the gal, just tell her and let her get over it...
so that the girl can find someone more suitable..
Sakuraflower
if can stay friend with her....
maybe if u know her better, u may fall for her!
relax! relationship should be fun and happy!
yiha093
naturally i wont tell u to break up la but last resort try to get the flame bak...?