Feeling very depressed....
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aiya. human beings like that one. sometimes they claim that they don't love the person, but in actual fact, they really love the person.
Sometimes it takes a while or a duration of time or a long time for you, to realise that you like this person for who that person is.
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Tats crap. Stop acting noble & set the gal free! It might hurt her, but she ll eventually realise u r not the one for her.Originally posted by freestyle:theres still a part of me that cares for her well being. A natural form of responsibility i guess. But i do not love or rather i am not attracted to her in any way physical/personality.
Or get her to read tis forum & she'll know everything. -
you got 2 options, dump her or love her...
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Let's shake hands and be friends pal, we're in the same boat.....Originally posted by freestyle:what if i have been with a girl for 1 year whom i realise ive nvr loved and now she is so into me. what can i do....
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Same to me, on the same boat, but the difference is i go ladies toilet, you guys go to the gents lor.Originally posted by Scion79:Let's shake hands and be friends pal, we're in the same boat..... -
Originally posted by angel7030:Same to me, on the same boat, but the difference is i go ladies toilet, you guys go to the gents lor.
We don't have to shake hands in the washroom isn't it?
Anyway gd luck.. Its unbearable to be in such situations rite.... -
you are trying to dump her? You better not dump her. You will hurt her badly. You have grown tired of her. Just try to rekindle your relationship by thinking of the good times you and her had together, the love she had for you. How you used to like you.
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Whether it is Familiarity breeds contempt or 3 year itch. It is not right for you to dump her, even though u have grown tired of her.Originally posted by norm:you are trying to dump her? You better not dump her. You will hurt her badly. You have grown tired of her. Just try to rekindle your relationship by thinking of the good times you and her had together, the love she had for you. How you used to like you. -
What if its not just being tired of her. What if i came to a self realisation that i have never loved her from the start? But i was able to accomodate and make myself accept all her flaws which i dislike until lately when my patience starts to scream at the slightest tinge?Originally posted by norm:Whether it is Familiarity breeds contempt or 3 year itch. It is not right for you to dump her, even though u have grown tired of her. -
just break up la.. this kind of thing don have to wait.Originally posted by freestyle:What if its not just being tired of her. What if i came to a self realisation that i have never loved her from the start? But i was able to accomodate and make myself accept all her flaws which i dislike until lately when my patience starts to scream at the slightest tinge? -
Ya lor, sweetie, but after crying in the ladies' cubicle, i walk out with pride and honor as a lady in high heel...that's is life, take it or leave it.Originally posted by Scion79:
We don't have to shake hands in the washroom isn't it?
Anyway gd luck.. Its unbearable to be in such situations rite.... -
Freestyle and scion79,
If you really do care for her. You should let her go.
It is very painful and depressing to be in a relationship with someone who no longer is in love.
No matter what one do, it will never be enough to please.
No matter how hard one tries, he/she will always find fault.
In love, every habits are tolerable, sometimes cute.
Out of love, every silly joke is annoying.
You are being unfair to her.
Remaining in this loveless relationship is long term torture.
Breaking up is short term pain.
Stop pretending that you still care. You only worried you will be left behind. Stop lying to her, and most importantly, stop lying to yourself. -
Be fair to her. U are only prolonging her suffering with you pretending to love her. In the end, both of you will suffer. And there should be natural form of responsibility for her well being by telling her the truth.. in the most tactful way u can muster!.
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Tell her the truth then, but be aware you reap what you sow ok?Originally posted by freestyle:what if i have been with a girl for 1 year whom i realise ive nvr loved and now she is so into me. what can i do....
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You may not find another girl who will love you like this girl. -
I dunno why must u go into a relationship when u dun like the person...stupd, u ask for it !
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you'll get karma.
i thot i never loved my ex.
i let her go.
now i realised that she was the best i could ever get.
i'm so regretting this.
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sigh . why do people always commit such foolish mistakes .
poor girl . you know how it feels ?
to pour all your love into a bottomless pit .
its exhausting to keep struggling to fill up that pit .
knowing it can never contain all the love , and return it .
release her . set her free .
let her nurse her wounds .
and start all over again .
dont hurt her anymore by continuing the relationship . -
pack ur bag... run away...
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I am also feeling very very very very depressed...
Feeling Painful =( -
Originally posted by silly&dumb:I am also feeling very very very very depressed...
in much pain =( -
You just gotta give her the cold shoulder and ignore her. It may be cruel doing this to her but it's even more cruel for her to slowly discover that though u r with her, yo've never had feelings for her.......!
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If you don't love her anymore, please let her go....Originally posted by Scion79:Let's shake hands and be friends pal, we're in the same boat.....
Otherwise tell her how you feel and see if both of you can come to terms with just being friends.
Don't drag....
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Problem is the gal is sticking to him. So how? Got anything like 'Goo Gone'?Originally posted by jojobeach:If you don't love her at all.
Don't waste her time.
The best gift for her right now is her freedom.
Since you don't want to cherish her, some one else will.
So stop thinking you are the only guy good enough for her.
You will be surprise how many men out there better than you who is willing to love this girl. -
Yah lor. The girl is the one sticking on to TS.Originally posted by TheGoodEarth:Problem is the gal is sticking to him. So how? Got anything like 'Goo Gone'?
I know how it feels lah.
I also has many guys die die want to throw themselves at me.
I kick them , scold them with vulgarities, they still don't take no for answer.
I tell them to fark off so many times liao.. they still want to stick by. -
Jumping into a relationship with a person without prior understanding -1
Took so darn long to realize you do not love her -1
I'd deduce that you got together at the spur of the moment or crudely put "for fun". Then after a year together, got sick and tired and "realize" you do not love her. Another -1
Well, 2 wrongs do not make 1 right - not even 3
What you could do now if you have a bit of conscience and thoughtfulness is that minimize her hurt and do not waste anymore of her youth.