i feel so sux
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sososo sucky.Coz i happened to see my crush in other guy's arm posing for pic.damn.It was a birthday pic,this guy created this confession situation with help of some frens like u saw in tv.i'm feeling damn down now.Ever since i saw that picture,my mind has been pre occupied with that picture that i rather never ever see.hai.what should i do.I am very tempted to ask her about what's their relationship like though i wanna act blur,asking her if she's still single.
i don't know what i am to her.I wonder if my actions are obvious to her,my feelings for her.Confused.
need some time for this sorrows man..
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Sounds like you are nowhere close to your crush at all.
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It's painful. I know how you feel. Your heart is as though 1000 arrows piercing through your heart continuously.
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thanks u noe.hacker 99,u always reply to my threadsOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:It's painful. I know how you feel. Your heart is as though 1000 arrows piercing through your heart continuously. -
acutally we r considered as close by her.But seriously i m confused,cause there's like many guys spinning around her and i'm not sure where i stand.Originally posted by Rock^Star:Sounds like you are nowhere close to your crush at all.
I can also see that you have little confidence on any future developments with her.
we msn sms everyday,talking about her everyday.hai -
that is an understatement... should be 10000 arrows mah... wan jian chuan xinOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:It's painful. I know how you feel. Your heart is as though 1000 arrows piercing through your heart continuously. 
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What I meant was that you're nowhere even close to winning her hand. Sorry, this deduction is based on my interpolation of your post.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:acutally we r considered as close by her.But seriously i m confused,cause there's like many guys spinning around her and i'm not sure where i stand.
we msn sms everyday,talking about her everyday.hai
You just need to date her out on an individual basis and see if she reacts to you. Normally girls will go out on twosome dates with a guy if she likes him. If she feels awkward, then I have little more advice to offer. -
Dont you think its time for you to confess your own feelings?
At least you know you have tried, it beats better than to see that guy ard her while you did not even make a single move or show any expression. If she reject you, be gracious, accept it. I wont deny you would feel pain, but if you still like her, you can wait for a short while and confess to her again. If you can let it go, all the better.
If she accepts, den gong xi gong xi!! -
i think before its too late, you better confess. just blurt it out rather than me who nvr say anything and today nvr get to see her anymore..
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i did went "dating" with her a couple of times.Only the 2 of us.But i thought its quite common?i dun know.I'm confused.I just need a platform for me to vent out my esasperated thoughts and feelings.Originally posted by Rock^Star:What I meant was that you're nowhere even close to winning her hand. Sorry, this deduction is based on my interpolation of your post.
You just need to date her out on an individual basis and see if she reacts to you. Normally girls will go out on twosome dates with a guy if she likes him. If she feels awkward, then I have little more advice to offer. -
My...you have already gone dating with her a few times and still lost?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:i did went "dating" with her a couple of times.Only the 2 of us.But i thought its quite common?i dun know.I'm confused.I just need a platform for me to vent out my esasperated thoughts and feelings.
Why have you not tried little things like stroking her hair or tickling her hand?
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well,is it?but its only recently that i know about this guy.I'm at the losing end,the guy has known her for 10years.me only 3 short years.Those indications you stated,i don't know.Even if i did,she won't really mindOriginally posted by Rock^Star:My...you have already gone dating with her a few times and still lost?
Why have you not tried little things like stroking her hair or tickling her hand?
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If you have no confidence in yourself, dun go into a relationshipOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:well,is it?but its only recently that i know about this guy.I'm at the losing end,the guy has known her for 10years.me only 3 short years.Those indications you stated,i don't know.Even if i did,she won't really mind -
just try lor... it's always better to die knowing then to die not knowing...
at least u noe u tried and though the outcoem may not always be the one u want, you won't be second guessing yourself all your life... asking yourself what if everyday...
sakali ... many years later she tell u cos u never ask her, she thot u dun like her, so she agreed to be with another guy...
i noe like very drama... but maybe it's true???
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Stroking her hair is a very good indicator . If she allows you to stroke her hair , it can mean she accepts you a little or she considers you as her very close fwen.Originally posted by Rock^Star:My...you have already gone dating with her a few times and still lost?
Why have you not tried little things like stroking her hair or tickling her hand?
These are killer indications of whether she accepts you a not.
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1) Have she done anything for you?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:sososo sucky.Coz i happened to see my crush in other guy's arm posing for pic.damn.It was a birthday pic,this guy created this confession situation with help of some frens like u saw in tv.i'm feeling damn down now.Ever since i saw that picture,my mind has been pre occupied with that picture that i rather never ever see.hai.what should i do.I am very tempted to ask her about what's their relationship like though i wanna act blur,asking her if she's still single.
i don't know what i am to her.I wonder if my actions are obvious to her,my feelings for her.Confused.
need some time for this sorrows man..
2) have you done anything for her? -
Just buy a bouquet of flower to test water first...
Those small and colorful type will do. No need 99 big red roses,ok?
Btw,daily sms and a few dates without significant events does not indicate any lvl of intimation. As u mention she got alot of suitors. It may appear common for her to engage such situation. -
of coz i did things for her...birthday,she always complain to me about her sickness,her problems with frens.Simply always be there for her...
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Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:sososo sucky.Coz i happened to see my crush in other guy's arm posing for pic.damn.It was a birthday pic,this guy created this confession situation with help of some frens like u saw in tv.i'm feeling damn down now.Ever since i saw that picture,my mind has been pre occupied with that picture that i rather never ever see.hai.what should i do.I am very tempted to ask her about what's their relationship like though i wanna act blur,asking her if she's still single.
i don't know what i am to her.I wonder if my actions are obvious to her,my feelings for her.Confused.
need some time for this sorrows man.. 
Why even bother in the first place?
If you so affected over your 'competitors' (when you should be focusing in yourself by selling both your tangible and intangible qualities to her), then you will forever be insecure because guys will still be flocking to her even if she is attached with you.
It's always never about competitors - it's always about yourself and your inferior complex.
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got better girls out there...
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Where? So easy to say, everyone also said got better boy out there, but where?Originally posted by selfobliged:got better girls out there... -
You are in sorrow because only you are in love with her. She got nothing to do with you except as friend, so dun be stupid and do so much for her ya, as frens is ok, but love cannot be force. Please be more apprehensive about lover and frens ya. Never assume love until you are sure, if not one sided love is hard to bear...unless you ask for it. Like me, she has her right to choose her bf.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:sososo sucky.Coz i happened to see my crush in other guy's arm posing for pic.damn.It was a birthday pic,this guy created this confession situation with help of some frens like u saw in tv.i'm feeling damn down now.Ever since i saw that picture,my mind has been pre occupied with that picture that i rather never ever see.hai.what should i do.I am very tempted to ask her about what's their relationship like though i wanna act blur,asking her if she's still single.
i don't know what i am to her.I wonder if my actions are obvious to her,my feelings for her.Confused.
need some time for this sorrows man.. -
its painful,but i never assume that she will like me.It's one sided love.
I don't know why,this is the 2nd time i'm caught in this whirlpool.It sucks cause i know i'm not bad as a person.hai -
Hey! where is your boyhood pride ya, stand up and face the world as a man lah, not only 2 times, 10 times also like that, we know you are good, just that those gals dun appreciate you and missed the opportunity, cheer up, it not the last gal around, you get your opportunity again.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:its painful,but i never assume that she will like me.It's one sided love.
I don't know why,this is the 2nd time i'm caught in this whirlpool.It sucks cause i know i'm not bad as a person.hai
Dun worry boy, i am still here, if all relationship fail, Angel is the last resort. -
Seems like you really need some balls (made of steel, if possible).Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:well,is it?but its only recently that i know about this guy.I'm at the losing end,the guy has known her for 10years.me only 3 short years.Those indications you stated,i don't know.Even if i did,she won't really mind
That means you haven't tried. I think you have a confidence problem and you are unsure of yourself. You sound like you want her so bad or you will die.
Get your grip together or you will never get her. Your friend has known her for 10 years and you, 3 years. Man, you don't get it, do you? The duration does not matter.
Too harsh for you to accept? Too bad. You need to get out of your current mental framework.