i feel so sux
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i admit i don't have confidence
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you are just her admirer...
and she never did actually notice you...
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Bear with this .Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:i admit i don't have confidence
No confidence = chances of getting near to her is very low .
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When you are older, you will realise that people can control their emotions de.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:sososo sucky.Coz i happened to see my crush in other guy's arm posing for pic.damn.It was a birthday pic,this guy created this confession situation with help of some frens like u saw in tv.i'm feeling damn down now.Ever since i saw that picture,my mind has been pre occupied with that picture that i rather never ever see.hai.what should i do.I am very tempted to ask her about what's their relationship like though i wanna act blur,asking her if she's still single.
i don't know what i am to her.I wonder if my actions are obvious to her,my feelings for her.Confused.
need some time for this sorrows man..
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Duh man u dont know ur crush is avaiable or not ? lol u shud know this b4 u crash her man... Wrong mistake man,, wrong mistakeOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:sososo sucky.Coz i happened to see my crush in other guy's arm posing for pic.damn.It was a birthday pic,this guy created this confession situation with help of some frens like u saw in tv.i'm feeling damn down now.Ever since i saw that picture,my mind has been pre occupied with that picture that i rather never ever see.hai.what should i do.I am very tempted to ask her about what's their relationship like though i wanna act blur,asking her if she's still single.
i don't know what i am to her.I wonder if my actions are obvious to her,my feelings for her.Confused.
need some time for this sorrows man.. -
she was single for as long as i knew her,until now.i m really confused.It seems that she nv accepted that guy,but has feelings for him.HAI
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Hey dude, if u in front of me right now, i will give you a lady punch on the head, wake UP!!!! ok. As a man, you must be able to lift up and down. Why so pathetic about just a gal going to another man. So be it, your turn will come.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:she was single for as long as i knew her,until now.i m really confused.It seems that she nv accepted that guy,but has feelings for him.HAI
If you take over this gal, what will the opposite guy feel, is he going to feel the same as you, i dun think so, he will just feel sad and forget about it.
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lol , man sometimes u need to know.. gals do lie and never tell you if they really have feeling to some1 especially to some1 u might know..well, happened to me b4.. i asked her if shes single, yes, if she has some1 in mind, no.. then later on.. shes been dating with one fella in my company... The world is beautiful isnt it lolOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:she was single for as long as i knew her,until now.i m really confused.It seems that she nv accepted that guy,but has feelings for him.HAI
That's gal you know... sighhh..but then i realised i was just infatuation to her lol plus when i think it back, i dont think i wan a timid gal as my gf 
.. so sometimes there are pro and con bout these things.. relax.. find other gal.. world is not fun if you only know and like one gal.. u must flirt more man.. -
if u get another chance, tell it to herOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:i did went "dating" with her a couple of times.Only the 2 of us.But i thought its quite common?i dun know.I'm confused.I just need a platform for me to vent out my esasperated thoughts and feelings.
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sigh , fren is very normal la.. as ur case with her.. cmon.. my female fren did more than you n her la.. i dreamt bout her, she dreamt bout me,, we talk anything, problems or watever ,sharing anything... but just frens.. i feel nothing and she feel nothing too.. just pure fren.
Personally goin out dating alone still doesnt mean anything yet..
Like this la.. Lets do this once and for all,
Straight away tell her that u found out that u actually love her to be your gf than just normal fren..or mayb if u too shy, give some hint...
My ex gf never show anything that she has interest in me too.. its all up to you to tell man.. -
It's NOW or NEVER, for BETTER or for WORSE.
Let's see...
if you stay like this:
- you will never know her heart
- you will always live in your dream and try to tap your back with empty hope.
if you let her know your feeling:
- if she doesn't have the feelings, you can have the truth, stop dreaming and keep going in your life, with a hope of someone better will deserve your care.
- if she has the feelings... well... ?
So, if you decide to let her know, go meet her (or call her if you are scared that face to face will make you too nervous to talk),.. and tell her (exactly like this) :"The other day I saw your picture with [put loser's name here], you were in his arms. When I saw that I really felt uneasy, and I can't forget the picture, it's haunting me and I still feel uneasy until now. The reason for that is because I am in love with you so much and it was so painful to see you in other guy's arm. So I wrote to forum and someone acting like hero said I should told you bluntly how I felt, and then I should ask you how you feel. I need to know whether I'm a stupid guy who keep dreaming of a girl that he will never get, or just a shy guy who doesn't know that the girl also has the same feeling. Can you tell me now, which one is am I ?"
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i have a feeling theirs won't last long.......Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:sososo sucky.Coz i happened to see my crush in other guy's arm posing for pic.damn.It was a birthday pic,this guy created this confession situation with help of some frens like u saw in tv.i'm feeling damn down now.Ever since i saw that picture,my mind has been pre occupied with that picture that i rather never ever see.hai.what should i do.I am very tempted to ask her about what's their relationship like though i wanna act blur,asking her if she's still single.
i don't know what i am to her.I wonder if my actions are obvious to her,my feelings for her.Confused.
need some time for this sorrows man.. -
the eg u gave sounds touching.i haven got a chance to ask her about what's her relationship with that guy.Urge of telling her is thereOriginally posted by bluecom:It's NOW or NEVER, for BETTER or for WORSE.
Let's see...
if you stay like this:
- you will never know her heart
- you will always live in your dream and try to tap your back with empty hope.
if you let her know your feeling:
- if she doesn't have the feelings, you can have the truth, stop dreaming and keep going in your life, with a hope of someone better will deserve your care.
- if she has the feelings... well... ?
So, if you decide to let her know, go meet her (or call her if you are scared that face to face will make you too nervous to talk),.. and tell her (exactly like this) : -
There is nothing wrong with her posing with there guy. As long as the girl is single, any guy can woo and claim her as his prize, so you better grab the opportunity and confess your feelings. . And even she reject you, you ought to know matters of heart can't be forced. You just can't have your way all the time. Probably, you will take some time to heal the wound but you will survive.
Someday, love will find a way and you will be completed.. no more eclipse -
Years of knowing each others doesnt really affect the matters of heart.Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:well,is it?but its only recently that i know about this guy.I'm at the losing end,the guy has known her for 10years.me only 3 short years.Those indications you stated,i don't know.Even if i did,she won't really mind
If u really like her, come clear with it. If u dun even try, u lose out totally.
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finally asked.She denied,not bf...n said i should know her well enough..
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So that guy is not her bf?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:finally asked.She denied,not bf...n said i should know her well enough.. Then you got high chance la JIA YOU -
To me, that should know her enough means something... i think u got better chance than that 10 years guy.. i think he n she are just too close as a fren cuz they knew each other for 10 years.. btw , i still think that by the way she said you should know her better still means something.. u try n ask her out dating along again see if she agreeOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:finally asked.She denied,not bf...n said i should know her well enough..
anyway, u can just check on her from her best fren or wat.. ask her if anyone courting her or if she likes anyone. DO your homework man... -
"u should noe me well"
then she went offline abruptly.Set me thinking...Was she really disappointed with me,or there's really a thing between her n the guy cause if they are not in any kind of relationship i am quite sure that they guy is wooing her. -
you just asked about the guy ?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:"u should noe me well"
then she went offline abruptly.Set me thinking...Was she really disappointed with me,or there's really a thing between her n the guy cause if they are not in any kind of relationship i am quite sure that they guy is wooing her.
Man... no wonder she's upset. you know why?
- you care more about the guy than her
- you care more about your jealousy than her feeling (if she has one to you)
"you should know her well"
For so long being close to you, went out just two of you and you said nothing... and she waited.. and waited.. and one day out of blue you asked about other guy... do you really know her?
so what if she goes out with other guy? you can't blame her right? you can't expect someone to sit down and wait for you to come at your convenient time. She has life and she has to move on. You also have life and you also have to move on. If you want your life to move together with her life in one line, then tell her so! Tell her what you feel and what you want. Ask her if she would like to walk in your life too, if she would love to join her life with your life !
gesszz... I'm so poetic today,.. bleh. -
by the way....
talk face to face in a good relaxing environment. go to starbucks or ben & jerry. Online chatting for this is BAD. why ? you cannot see the expression, you cannot se ethe body language, and you seem chicken if you as man don't dare to talk to girl's face.
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not that i chicken,she's too busy to squeeze time to meet.So juz asked in a casually manner..
btw,i like to look into her eyes when speaking