How do i noe if a ger likes mi or not?
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Even though she did not reply after 5 hours, did she reply eventually (ie.without you sending another sms)?Originally posted by daniu82:I got a problem regarding this ger..... We went out on sat but i tink i made her angry..... I met her personally on sun to apologize and she seems ok.... Now i msg her on mon and she did not reply after 5 hrs, last time this nvr happen b4..... then i didn't msg her for 2 days .... Today i tried to msg her again and she did not reply again.... I feel something bad is happening..... maybe she dislike mi already..... I have been bothered by this matter this whole wk.... Wat should i do now?? -
Dear TS, after reading up on all the suggestions and advice given, I must say that no 2 person is alike and more importantly it's up to your own intuition to figure how you should advance. It's hard for us to give the perfect advice through reading your written text as we would not be able to picture the exact scenario. But judging from what you have said, I would say that you might have turned her off. But there's no point dwelling in what might have happened as you would never know what she is actually thinking.Originally posted by daniu82:I got a problem regarding this ger..... We went out on sat but i tink i made her angry..... I met her personally on sun to apologize and she seems ok.... Now i msg her on mon and she did not reply after 5 hrs, last time this nvr happen b4..... then i didn't msg her for 2 days .... Today i tried to msg her again and she did not reply again.... I feel something bad is happening..... maybe she dislike mi already..... I have been bothered by this matter this whole wk.... Wat should i do now??
So my point here is go with the "feel' like I always do. And on the girl's perspective, going out with you on a date have already indicated a willingness to know more about you. I might not be a hint of fancying you but at least the basic interest is there. And to be fair to her, she's already taking a step in by meeting you so should you turn her off, it's only right if she discountinue this "dating relationship". Try afew more times and ask her directly if you have offended her in any way.
Sincerity goes a long way in a rs and all is not lost till she gets attached.
So all the best.. Perserverance is the key, that I can vouch for with my name..
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nope... she only reply when i sent her another smsOriginally posted by walesa:Even though she did not reply after 5 hours, did she reply eventually (ie.without you sending another sms)? -
her reaction is so sudden and i nvr expected it..... when i feel tat i had made her angry on the night, i msged and also called to ask if she is angry abt mi, and she says no.... I even ask and say sorry in person but she also says she is not angry.... now she is like dun care abt mi liao.... I dun tink i wan to give up but i dunno how to proceed.... very troubled by this....
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Any idea wad did u do to make her suddenly feel like this?
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We were at a shopping mall and she says she is going up to see her sis cos her sis is working in a shop upstairs..... She also wan to wait for her sis to go home together.... so i said i wan to go up also since i am already here and say hi to her sis.... but she says no need and i insist to go up...... actually i dun wan to leave cos i wan to be with her for a longer time.... then she keeps saying no and i said if i wait here leh.... then she says wait lor.... then she left and took the escalator without looking back once.... I could sense tat she is angry....
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Honestly, if that's the source of her anger, then it's rather trivial IMO. You've apologised over the matter - if she cannot come to terms with that, she's probably not worth your time. The worst thing you could do now is cling on to her - if anything, the ball's actually in her court now.Originally posted by daniu82:We were at a shopping mall and she says she is going up to see her sis cos her sis is working in a shop upstairs..... She also wan to wait for her sis to go home together.... so i said i wan to go up also since i am already here and say hi to her sis.... but she says no need and i insist to go up...... actually i dun wan to leave cos i wan to be with her for a longer time.... then she keeps saying no and i said if i wait here leh.... then she says wait lor.... then she left and took the escalator without looking back once.... I could sense tat she is angry....
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I dun wish to give up on her...... Most of my friends said tat maybe she didn't wan to be pressurized by her sis or family members cos she dun wan her sis to see mi with her. maybe her sis will ask her abt mi and she didn't wan to this to happen cos the r/s between us is not a confirm thing....
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for this stage, pls do not put too much feelings to it as your emotions will be hugely affected..... i hv been there, done that
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You are so f*cking pathetic. How old are you? You're already working and posting something a secondary school kid would post. I bet you've never even had a proper conversation with a girl before have you? I'm sorry but there's nothing anyone can do to help you.Originally posted by daniu82:I had known a ger for abt 2 mths and she is from my workplace but she is not in the company anymore. I tried to get close to her by helping her with her work and it is very obvious until almost everyone in the company already noe tat i like her. I have not feel so strongly for a ger b4, therefore i tink she is the one for mi after interacting and finding out more abt her. I even sent her home for a couple of times and even she is not in the company anymore, i msg her everyday and with positive reply each time. The problem i have is tat i dunno if she likes mi or not and i dun have previous experience to rely on..... Can anybody tell mi wat should i do next or should i ask her if she likes mi or not this early, cos i scare this might scare her away..... Any signs that i can see if she is interested in mi also? -
Its the same as playing Blackjack. You ask people "How to win in Blackjack ?', 99.9% will say '21 points'....then u ask urself....do u need 21 points to win ? answer is NO...cos u just need to have the better hand than the dealer to win.
Now u apply it in ur scenario...u ask 'How do i know she like me ?' etc....99.9% of the people will tell u to do dis do dat, try dis try dat but u ask urself...'how do they know when they dun even know her or u ?'. u dun say 'Showhand' when only 2 cards have been dealt to u....dis is not like in those movies. u should just take pointers and see how things fit in...people react differently so dun assume or use a standard rule/tactic on everyone.
wat i am trying to tell u is....only you yourself will know....jealousy can be a telltale sign but sometimes its just instinct cos she realise there is more than 1 gal on the pedestal now.
just try to get to know her more....when the momentum is there...try to ask her out...october got a long weekend holiday...u can keep the momentum and then ask her out saying something like Monday no need work, want to go out to have a nice meal or something ? just something simple and see the response. -
i think u too despo...sorry if i am too directOriginally posted by daniu82:We were at a shopping mall and she says she is going up to see her sis cos her sis is working in a shop upstairs..... She also wan to wait for her sis to go home together.... so i said i wan to go up also since i am already here and say hi to her sis.... but she says no need and i insist to go up...... actually i dun wan to leave cos i wan to be with her for a longer time.... then she keeps saying no and i said if i wait here leh.... then she says wait lor.... then she left and took the escalator without looking back once.... I could sense tat she is angry.... -
u win le lorOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:You are so f*cking pathetic. How old are you? You're already working and posting something a secondary school kid would post. I bet you've never even had a proper conversation with a girl before have you? I'm sorry but there's nothing anyone can do to help you.