ex cannot get over me. how?
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any experienced people can teach me? thks for ur help. she gets sad on and off. she seems to have other problems in career also.
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its seems more like her problem than it's yours.
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Go fly kite lor.... how!
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do something that makes ur ex hate u =P
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so do u still have feelings for her 1st
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treat her as friend. so just wanted her to recover from it.Originally posted by de_middle:so do u still have feelings for her 1st -
Tell her you're gay and u got BF now !! LOL !Originally posted by january:any experienced people can teach me? thks for ur help. she gets sad on and off. she seems to have other problems in career also. -
Since it is Ex.... any action on ur part will mislead her one way or another. She was doing ok b4 she met u, I am sure she will do just as well without u. Even if she need saving, that person isnt u....
if u worry that no one is there to save her, why dun u intro her to me... i am sure she will never need to bother u again...
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Ermmmm.
How do you know she's sad because she can't get over you? -
she's unstable now & by being nice to her will give her false hopesOriginally posted by january:treat her as friend. so just wanted her to recover from it.
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still got keep in contact mahOriginally posted by MooKu:Ermmmm.
How do you know she's sad because she can't get over you? -
pls...Originally posted by january:still got keep in contact mah
do her a super big favour.
dun contact her.
u will only add on her sorrow and misery.
she needs time to get over yet u keep contacting her..
u r the cause for her mental stress, n adding weights to it.. -
hmmm .... she is like a switch - on and off. maybe a switchboard will help her career?Originally posted by january:any experienced people can teach me? thks for ur help. she gets sad on and off. she seems to have other problems in career also. -
she contacted me one leh.Originally posted by Cool-gal:pls...
do her a super big favour.
dun contact her.
u will only add on her sorrow and misery.
she needs time to get over yet u keep contacting her..
u r the cause for her mental stress, n adding weights to it..
if i dun take her call. what if she feels hurt even more?
how can i noe whether avoding her or keeping contact is a better way?
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Don't bluff yourself lah.Originally posted by january:she contacted me one leh.
if i dun take her call. what if she feels hurt even more?
how can i noe whether avoding her or keeping contact is a better way?
nobody knows mah.
You just want to think you are very important , that's all.
Once the relationship ended.
It is best to cut all contacts to let the healing begin.
No wound will heal if you keep picking at it.
That is why you put handyplast to seal off the wound.
Same applies to emotional wound.
If you want to maintain contact.
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i second to thisOriginally posted by jojobeach:Don't bluff yourself lah.
You just want to think you are very important , that's all.
Once the relationship ended.
It is best to cut all contacts to let the healing begin.
No wound will heal if you keep picking at it.
That is why you put handyplast to seal off the wound.
Same applies to emotional wound.
If you want to maintain contact.
Do it AFTER everyone has moved on.
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i third to this.Originally posted by de_middle:i second to this 
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Stop contacting her, at least in the meantime. It's best that you disappear from her life and let time heal her wounds. Someday you two might become friends again but not now.
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not your problem
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why did u two break?
who initiated?
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i suggest u take her back and do some naughty stuff cuz sure she loves you more, and dont mind.. gogo.. then leave her alone hahahaha
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How long has this been going on?
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Are you telling the truth or are you asking on behalf of your friend? Thought you said you give up on wooing gals. So is this the Taka staff you talked about some time back,if this is a genuine case?Originally posted by january:any experienced people can teach me? thks for ur help. she gets sad on and off. she seems to have other problems in career also. -
Originally posted by angel7030:i third to this.
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Does she has other friends to talk to other you? Is she suicide-pro?Originally posted by january:any experienced people can teach me? thks for ur help. she gets sad on and off. she seems to have other problems in career also.
If no, then you should do a clean cut and leave her alone for the time being, let her realize that it is over leh.. then how can she get over you leh? You are also being caring but in a different way.