ex cannot get over me. how?

• january

  31 Aug 07, 11:58

  Originally posted by qlqq9:

  Are you telling the truth or are you asking on behalf of your friend? Thought you said you give up on wooing gals. So is this the Taka staff you talked about some time back,if this is a genuine case?

  true one lah. this incident is recent one mah. did not last very long the relationship.
  
  what taka stuff? i think u talking abt wrong person.
• january

  31 Aug 07, 12:00

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  why did u two break?
  
  who initiated?
  
  was there a proper closure?

  me say one. feel that we are different in character.
  
  it was abit sudden, and she felt hurt by the lost.
• january

  31 Aug 07, 12:05

  Originally posted by Isis:

  Does she has other friends to talk to other you? Is she suicide-pro?
  
  If no, then you should do a clean cut and leave her alone for the time being, let her realize that it is over leh.. then how can she get over you leh? You are also being caring but in a different way.
  
  

  ya. she is suicide pro, but i shall not talk too much about it. beside me, there is also another family member helping her also. its abit complex cos i am the source of hurt but trying to help her now cos she wish to talk to me and see me sometimes.
• january

  31 Aug 07, 12:08

  we are seeking professional help soon. hope things will improve loh.
• sinicker

  1 Sep 07, 11:02

  wah you so good meh.
• Short Ninja

  5 Sep 07, 12:11

  Originally posted by january:

  any experienced people can teach me? thks for ur help. she gets sad on and off. she seems to have other problems in career also.

  Thats probably because you both didnt break off clean.You really dont have to nurse her heart or feel the need to be there for her anymore.After all you are the reason she feels horrible.Stay away and let time heal her
• RedizAlertz

  5 Sep 07, 12:49

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Don't bluff yourself lah.
  You just want to think you are very important , that's all.
  
  Once the relationship ended.
  It is best to cut all contacts to let the healing begin.
  
  No wound will heal if you keep picking at it.
  That is why you put handyplast to seal off the wound.
  Same applies to emotional wound.
  
  If you want to maintain contact.
  Do it AFTER everyone has moved on.
  
  

  Totally agree! U r the last person on earth who can help her..Spare her, leave her alone for now.
• oOprinceOo

  5 Sep 07, 12:51

  yarlo. pref rite. so wads for lunch ?