pls advise..
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You have only heard 1 side of the story. What is a fking biatch? What betrayal?Originally posted by kivine:to me, I'd feel I've gotten the ultimate betrayal
. I feel for you man, it sucks to be in your position.
Just a side qn, are u paying for her expenses? If yes, that's practically the omega ultimate betrayal, sorry for the childish words, but yes, it does feel that way to me.
Just leave her, it is easier done than said. dump that fking biatch.
What has she done to be crowned and named?
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Given her hectic lifestyle, you expect the other person to show up here?Originally posted by ilovethesun:You have only heard 1 side of the story. What is a fking biatch? What betrayal?
What has she done to be crowned and named?
Pls grow up.
I'm merely expressing my views, such as you're in the quoted post.I can call who and what I want. Apologies if any of you feel insulted.
And now now now...., stop acting high and mighty. the Sun
will burnt out if it burns too much.
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Everytime you hear long distance relationship, you have to be careful. MostOriginally posted by MisterG:hi all.. i've been reading sgforums and nvr thought tt one day i would be the one posting..
how can someone change so much.. i shudnt have let her go overseas.. today's our 2nd yr anniversary.. she is only away for 5 months.. i found out she has a crush on some angmoh.. today i stayed up till 5am so i cud reach her at her time zone.. jus to say happy anniversary.. she said she is too tired and wanna sleep.. so put down.. after awhile i decided to call again.. no answer... i called hp i called hotel.. no answer.. until 8-9am.. i havent caught a wink.. she answered.. she was drunk.. when drinking with her colleagues at the hotel cos she bumped into them when returning jacket tt some guy lent her.. its 11pm her timing .. they drank till 2am in the morning.. and she was nonchalent abt me.. though i was angry.. she talked back to me in a cool manner.. with slang.. sarcastic and disgusting.. then i lost my temper and started hurlin vulgarities.. she was still cool.. and she hung up.. i really felt tt she totally changed.. though i called her many times after tt.. she said she was tired and jus wanted to sleep.. really long story.. but.. i dun understand how suddenly she can be so cold to me.. i really feel like shit inside.. anyone? if u wanna criticise me too its fine.. i jus dunno where to go.. she offed her hp and hung her hotel phone out.. no one to turn to..
of the time it doesn't work out despite what some people say.
You wanted to say happy anniversary and she don't sound so enthusiastic, obviously something is wrong right ?
But your mistake was quote "then i lost my temper and started hurlin vulgarities". Tell me, which person won't be dulan ? Even if you are inside, try to remain calm and not fight fire with fire. If so, you have lost your original purpose. It doesn't get you anywhere.
Being cold to you, offed her hp, etc are all signs of avoidance. Imagine a girl is calling you everyday asking you about your whereabouts, will you feel like changing your number ?
What Im saying is I think you yourself know where you stand in your girl's heart. Don't do anything yet. Don't assume anything. Make sure she is consistently cold towards you, then you know something is wrong. But at the same time, give her freedom to make friends. I can tell she is someone who values freedom.
One last thing: love is, at the end of the day, just a game, despite what some traditionalists say. Don't take it too seriously. Otherwise, you can start to dye your hair black cause of the stress it imposes on you.
Finally, get ready to eject out of this relationship. I can see it heading towards death but I don't want to assume anything yet because only you know the situation well enough.
Bottomline is, I don't think this girl is for you. Take care.
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Tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk...Originally posted by kivine:Given her hectic lifestyle, you expect the other person to show up here?
I'm merely expressing my views, such as you're in the quoted post.I can call who and what I want. Apologies if any of you feel insulted.
And now now now...., stop acting high and mighty. the Sun will burnt out if it burns too much.
Mods. close this topic. the TS has deleted his first post.
Stop talking like a spoilt brat. You know in this world , that is not possible.
The opposition needs pple like you.
Luckily you don't have the blessed life to be a politician, cause u have the bad blood that flows in adolf hitler. -
Dear TS, my views still stand. If she does anything that betrays you, I suggest you just end the relationship.Originally posted by ilovethesun:Tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk...
Stop talking like a spoilt brat. You know in this world , that is not possible.
The opposition needs pple like you.
Luckily you don't have the blessed life to be a politician, cause u have the bad blood that flows in adolf hitler.
And fellow quoted poster : You're a perfect example of Godwin's Law.
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As a fellow guy, I feel for you man...
But you have to realize that if she's turning away from you like that, the relationship from her side prob wasn't that deep... and would you want to be with a person like that? or marry a person like that?
if someone can't be true for several months, how can you be sure they'll be true to you for a lifetime (if you get married for example...)
think of it this way: if it wasnt meant to be....then earlier is better than later..
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Empty vesselOriginally posted by kivine:Dear TS, my views still stand. If she does anything that betrays you, I suggest you just end the relationship.
And fellow quoted poster : You're a perfect example of Godwin's Law.
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Please bring it to p.m. if you have anything to thrash it out.Originally posted by ilovethesun:Empty vessel
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Not interestedOriginally posted by kivine:Please bring it to p.m. if you have anything to thrash it out. Do not taint this thread please.