A very frightening world or is it?
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Fall in love, start a relationship, have sex and then break up...
Is that a very frightening thought for you? Please share. -
Have sex then break up.. very frightening meh...Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Fall in love, start a relationship, have sex and then break up...
Is that a very frightening thought for you? Please share.
Fall in love and getting hurt is very saddening.
That why i am unavailable.. -
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wrong forum.
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huh, you don't even get to the have sex part and already you decide not to participate?Originally posted by Isis:Have sex then break up.. very frightening meh...
Fall in love and getting hurt is very saddening.
That why i am unavailable.. -
Victim?Originally posted by Ferret: -
Many people agonize over this in AA... better discuss it in AA.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:wrong forum. -
Sex might be an expression of love and a form of pleasure.
Love can also be a great healer, make you whole again.
But having heart injury also takes a long long time to heal.
Anyway, i have seen through it. I want to renounce. -
Renounce sex and relationships? Please reconsider...
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The whole cycle of befriending someone; understanding someone; courting someone; understanding then hopefully and gradually loving someone...
Just seems so tiring now
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That's what I was afraid you people will say... *sigh* no young people with positive things to say about this????
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Yours is an extremely pessimistic view of the potential short comings of what being human is all about.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Fall in love, start a relationship, have sex and then break up...
Is that a very frightening thought for you? Please share.
As humans, we have the benefit of loving one another and expressing our thoughts and feelings though having relationships and sex. No doubt some of which might turn sour and lead to emotional trauma, but thats simply not an excuse to fear it isn't it?
In my opinion, I would suggest to embrace this fear (if any) in case it evolves into a phobia and thus develop anti-social tendencies within yourself. Now THAT would be something to fear when mental illness creeps in isn't it? -
The thing to fear is fear itself?
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I chip in something positive lah: Relationship can make you grow cos pain makes people grow and be a better person. Love can heal a person's wound completely or make ya a better person too.
However, relationship, like all things are impermanence. Love is a byproduct of pain and pain is a byproduct of love. No pain, no gain. -
Of course not. Adverse fear of relationships would lead to avoidance. Prolong avoidance would lead to the development of anti-social tendencies. And if the problem is not addressed, phobia and mental illness subsequently steps in. The thought of suffering from mental illness is enough to make people fear from it. Maybe some people don't fear mental illness, but I think i speak for most people.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:The thing to fear is fear itself?
As what was said in your signature, life is not to be avoided but lived. If you live a whole life of fear, then isn't that a really sad life to lead? No doubt our life will be peppered with numerous trials and tribulations, but riding out these problems and tackling them head on and thus living life to the fullest is the very essence of life itself isn't it? -
Hello "Pain makes people grow" is NOT a positive. It makes it worse by selling the idea that having a relationship is a "pain" and needs "healing".Originally posted by Isis:I chip in something positive lah: Relationship can make you grow cos pain makes people grow and be a better person. Love can heal a person's wound completely or make ya a better person too.
However, relationship, like all things are impermanence. Love is a byproduct of pain and pain is a byproduct of love. No pain, no gain.
"Pain is a byproduct of Love" How do you explain that? -
Do you understand the meaning of the phrase "The thing to fear is fear itself"? It means that one should not allow ones life to be controlled by fear.Originally posted by Paradise Lost:Of course not. Adverse fear of relationships would lead to avoidance. Prolong avoidance would lead to the development of anti-social tendencies. And if the problem is not addressed, phobia and mental illness subsequently steps in. The thought of suffering from mental illness is enough to make people fear from it. Maybe some people don't fear mental illness, but I think i speak for most people.
As what was said in your signature, life is not to be avoided but lived. If you live a whole life of fear, then isn't that a really sad life to lead? No doubt our life will be peppered with numerous trials and tribulations, but riding out these problems and tackling them head on and thus living life to the fullest is the very essence of life itself isn't it?
Yet your post starts off with "Of course not." huh? -
Maybe the sex is not good ??Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Fall in love, start a relationship, have sex and then break up...
Is that a very frightening thought for you? Please share.
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that y we girls have to find a boyfriend carefully. Not just to satisfy their needs.
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If you're in it just for the sex, it will never end well.
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I think you girls also want the sex right ? hahaOriginally posted by selfobliged:that y we girls have to find a boyfriend carefully. Not just to satisfy their needs.
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Of lifeOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:Victim? -
tat kind of girls can just have 1 night stand? need not be attached.Originally posted by dokono:I think you girls also want the sex right ? haha
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no.Originally posted by selfobliged:tat kind of girls can just have 1 night stand? need not be attached.
I mean all girls also have needs, same as guys.
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Relationship is complicated, marriage is even more complicated.