Summary:
Isis: sex not frightening but "Fall in love and getting hurt is very saddening" so he is unattached
Ferret:

and calls himself a "victim Of life"
Detached: Just seems so tiring now

Paradise Lost: "No doubt some of which might turn sour and lead to emotional trauma, but thats simply not an excuse to fear it isn't it?"
dokono: only if the sex is not good...
selfobliged: "that y we girls have to find a boyfriend carefully"
SingaporeMacross: "If you're in it just for the sex, it will never end well."
qlqq9: "Relationship is complicated, marriage is even more complicated."
yiha093: same opinion as Detached
TheGoodEarth: "It is not frightening, they are all painful."
binarynwitz: "Failing down, and then picking ourselves up. It is part and parcel of life."
Father Lim: "fulfill the potential rather than think back on what could have been..."
jam on a bread: "wait still have..pregnant have kids stress quarrels..even more frightening

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Zarks: "wtf for me hv sex is fun , wats so frightening ? "
boka: "there are those in 3rd world nation suffering from hunger,abuses and being high risk to traffickers and u call falling in love and breaking up frightening?"
: "Depends..."
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